Recently, I happened to be in a few South Asian countries and the age preference that the providers stated in their ads (for hobbyists) was quite the opposite of what it seems to be in the US. Here, providers seem to prefer older men in their forties or older. I've even seen ads here that say that the provider will not see any one below 30 or 35.
Whereas there, I saw ads where the provider would not see any guy over 35. I also saw ads where the price went up with the age of the guy: a lower price for guys under 25, higher for 25-30, even higher for 30-35, and highest for guys in late thirties or forties.
I find this dichotomy intriguing.
Do ladies here prefer older men because they are more likely to be well-heeled? Or is it because they are likely to be more gentle and less demanding? Less likely to fall in love? What do the ladies think?
And do ladies in Asia prefer younger men because they are more studly? Or is it because there are age-related taboos? Or taboos related to sleeping with a potentially married man?
Any theories?
To be honest, I prefer men between the ages of 30-55, but I'm also happy to see younger clients. It's really all about demeanor, and I generally find guys in that 30-55+ age range to be more polite, open and honest about their wants and needs, and less likely to haggle on rates. Politeness doesn't have an age, though. I've had younger clients that are incredibly respectful, as well as older clients who have really pushed my buttons in a bad way.
I can't speak for your experiences in Asia, aside from the American stereotype that happens to be prolific over there. That may have something to do with it. Sometimes younger clients take less time (wink, wink), so if they're interested in higher volume, it might be good for them to charge more for older guys. That pricing scheme sounds fishy to me, so that's the only "reason" I could think of. They may also operate under the presumption that older American men are wealthier as well.
Who knows!
-Erin
Through this business, I've come to love their brains and maturity. They're also way better lovers. 
I can't speak for anyone besides myself, but I'll only date men IRL 40+.
I don't see anyone over 55, based on personal preference and experiences. I know that my preferences when it comes to that are rare amongst providers, but there ya have it.
Posted By: Ricky21
Recently, I happened to be in a few South Asian countries and the age preference that the providers stated in their ads (for hobbyists) was quite the opposite of what it seems to be in the US. Here, providers seem to prefer older men in their forties or older. I've even seen ads here that say that the provider will not see any one below 30 or 35.
Whereas there, I saw ads where the provider would not see any guy over 35. I also saw ads where the price went up with the age of the guy: a lower price for guys under 25, higher for 25-30, even higher for 30-35, and highest for guys in late thirties or forties.
I find this dichotomy intriguing.
Do ladies here prefer older men because they are more likely to be well-heeled? Or is it because they are likely to be more gentle and less demanding? Less likely to fall in love? What do the ladies think?
And do ladies in Asia prefer younger men because they are more studly? Or is it because there are age-related taboos? Or taboos related to sleeping with a potentially married man?
Any theories?
and they could be fat, bald, dipshits!
Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
I don't see anyone over 55, based on personal preference and experiences. I know that my preferences when it comes to that are rare amongst providers, but there ya have it.
Posted By: Ricky21
Recently, I happened to be in a few South Asian countries and the age preference that the providers stated in their ads (for hobbyists) was quite the opposite of what it seems to be in the US. Here, providers seem to prefer older men in their forties or older. I've even seen ads here that say that the provider will not see any one below 30 or 35.
Whereas there, I saw ads where the provider would not see any guy over 35. I also saw ads where the price went up with the age of the guy: a lower price for guys under 25, higher for 25-30, even higher for 30-35, and highest for guys in late thirties or forties.
I find this dichotomy intriguing.
Do ladies here prefer older men because they are more likely to be well-heeled? Or is it because they are likely to be more gentle and less demanding? Less likely to fall in love? What do the ladies think?
And do ladies in Asia prefer younger men because they are more studly? Or is it because there are age-related taboos? Or taboos related to sleeping with a potentially married man?
Any theories?
You can be a fat, bald dipshit at any age, though.
Posted By: Emiglio
and they could be fat, bald, dipshits!
Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
I don't see anyone over 55, based on personal preference and experiences. I know that my preferences when it comes to that are rare amongst providers, but there ya have it.
Posted By: Ricky21
Recently, I happened to be in a few South Asian countries and the age preference that the providers stated in their ads (for hobbyists) was quite the opposite of what it seems to be in the US. Here, providers seem to prefer older men in their forties or older. I've even seen ads here that say that the provider will not see any one below 30 or 35.
Whereas there, I saw ads where the provider would not see any guy over 35. I also saw ads where the price went up with the age of the guy: a lower price for guys under 25, higher for 25-30, even higher for 30-35, and highest for guys in late thirties or forties.
I find this dichotomy intriguing.
Do ladies here prefer older men because they are more likely to be well-heeled? Or is it because they are likely to be more gentle and less demanding? Less likely to fall in love? What do the ladies think?
And do ladies in Asia prefer younger men because they are more studly? Or is it because there are age-related taboos? Or taboos related to sleeping with a potentially married man?
Any theories?
I guess I will scratch you off my bucket list.
Very disturbing conversation. Life can take it's toll on a body so I hope you have an easier ride and can be a hard body at 50, unlike me who has, no fault of my own, been traveling on a very bumpy road.
Dude, you're taking that totally out of context.
That response to my post was in reference to a comment I made recently referring to a notoriously dangerous guy as a "fat, bald dipshit." The dude who was the subject of that post has been setting up emails and verification site accounts as fake providers for years. He will then email providers (as the fake persona he created), attaching his name and photo, and will try to trick them into providing a reference for him. He is not only a nuisance, but dangerous as well.
For some inexplicable reason, a few of the guys on here read that and assumed that I was referring to either them or someone else in this community, when that is simply not the case. I have no idea how this stuff got so distorted.
If anyone was offended by my description of a known predator, or me being open about my age restrictions, I truly apologize. That was not at all my intent to insult or offend anyone here.
Posted By: WICardinalfan
I guess I will scratch you off my bucket list.
Very disturbing conversation. Life can take it's toll on a body so I hope you have an easier ride and can be a hard body at 50, unlike me who has, no fault of my own, been traveling on a very bumpy road.
I'm way too old to find the humor in fat, old dipshit, but I'm sure other's do.
Being over 55 I find that disheartening, but appreciate your candor as well as your unabridged right to engage in sexual intimacies with whoever you want. Thank goodness there are a bevy of beautiful young women who appreciate the subtle distinctions of being with an older, mature gentleman, and allow us to fulfill our sexual fantasies. As for Emiglio, if you're lucky, you'll join this group one day. I have no idea if you'll be fat and bald at that time, but you seem to have the dipshit down cold already!
Well thank you, my dear. Luckily for you older gents, I am in the minority when it comes to age restrictions. Most of the gals in this business actually do tend to prefer older guys. 
Posted By: RespectfullyYours
Being over 55 I find that disheartening, but appreciate your candor as well as your unabridged right to engage in sexual intimacies with whoever you want. Thank goodness there are a bevy of beautiful young women who appreciate the subtle distinctions of being with an older, mature gentleman, and allow us to fulfill our sexual fantasies. As for Emiglio, if you're lucky, you'll join this group one day. I have no idea if you'll be fat and bald at that time, but you seem to have the dipshit down cold already!
Given your punk/Barbie doll reputation, you'd probably need a paramedic on call if you started seeing us. LOL
Posted By: RespectfullyYours
Given your punk/Barbie doll reputation, you'd probably need a paramedic on call if you started seeing us. LOL
Posted By: RespectfullyYours
Being over 55 I find that disheartening, but appreciate your candor as well as your unabridged right to engage in sexual intimacies with whoever you want. Thank goodness there are a bevy of beautiful young women who appreciate the subtle distinctions of being with an older, mature gentleman, and allow us to fulfill our sexual fantasies. As for Emiglio, if you're lucky, you'll join this group one day. I have no idea if you'll be fat and bald at that time, but you seem to have the dipshit down cold already!
It was a joke and sarcasm based on Toby's same remark on the Board a day or two ago. Am probably older, balder and fatter than you, and never a dipshit. How quick to start a train wreck which I will not indulge in. And unless College Girl is receiving Federal funds, who are we to question her taste. Pax!!!
I don't think older men are less likely to fall in love, but I do have a thing for a hot silver fox. I love the maturity of older men and have always enjoyed the company of men much older than me, though I only recently discovered how much I enjoy men in their 50's, 60's, and 70's. The recent discovery makes it all the more attractive to me since it is a newer experience for me in the last 3-4 years. Silver hair really does get me hot. Luckily for me my all-natural look seems to attract older men who remember when women didn't commonly shave yet.
I've spend time in India and know a bit about the South Asian sex industry. It's fair to say that market dynamics are really different there. For example, being a straight male gigolo for straight women is totally a "thing" there. Here it's mostly a joke. But in India a handsome straight guy really can make a living as an escort for straight married women. I think like with any market, providers charge what makes them feel comfortable and what they can get away with. Perhaps since there is more scarcity around high-class internet-based escorts in some parts of South Asia, a provider can set her prices however she wants and chooses to charge more for older clients since she finds them to be more work or somehow harder to deal with. Taboos might play a role, but taboos play a role in our society too. Although some providers do charge extra for "fetishes", some providers, like me, would never dream of charging extra for fetishes because we really love them and think they are just as fun as the vanilla stuff. So maybe charging extra for fetishes is an analogous situation in the US, due to the cultural taboos around them... although age and fetishization are clearly not the same thing, perhaps it's just the type of thing where ladies charge extra for it because they can get away with it and they desire to. Just my two cents.
Interesting tidbit about being a gigolo in India!
My suspicion is that in some societies, if you are over a certain age, you are a "dirty old man" and perhaps there is a premium. Or if the guy is old enough to be a father or grandfather, incest taboos kick in.
Talking about fetishes, would you play an incest fetish - say act as the daughter or sister of your client?
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Would I, you mean?
Yes, I definitely would. I love to roleplay! As a consenting adult, I love to play with imagination and fantasy. I would be unsettled if I thought a client didn't understand the difference between fantasy and reality, but I have been lucky to have several established friends who love to roleplay and everyone who I have role played with so far has seemed to clearly understand that we are playing a game, constructing a fantasy...
Fair enough. How about this?
Would you role play a client's underage child?
You'll have to book an appointment to find out!
Posted By: Ricky21
Fair enough. How about this?
Would you role play a client's underage child?
I've done incest fetishes for quite a few clients. I happen to enjoy them a lot.
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The hottest client I ever saw was totally bald. This dude was so beautiful I was giggling like an idiot the whole time we were together.
I get extremely turned on by a bald man...YUMMMM
I have a thing for men! Bald or not but I will say that the bald thing is "Hot!'
Jason Stratham, John Luke Pichard (Star Trek Captain)..... MMMMMMMMMM
Love
Zana
I just feel I have better chemistry with the guys that are older, and they prefer the longer appts as well. I had a 74 year old that I absolutely adored, and he wore me out!! And no pills or help either. He works out twice a day and takes very good care of himself.
I dont discriminate by age (over 18 of course) because certainly not ALL young guys are jerks and I am willing to take the risk on the few that are not but not everybody is up for that. My preference are men around my age because there is a more natural peer experience connection. But when I get a young hot guy who is awesome like the one I had on Sunday. WOOF! Bring it! Young hard cock is YUMMY! But then again.. hard cock of EVERY age is YUMMMY!
Preferring younger men is not true for me. I prefer over 35 gents
Three comments:
This is a business, and the pricing model is based on how the business person wants to run their business. I very much doubt any established and successful provider here, or anywhere else, is basing their pricing on what they find attractive.
The pricing model is pretty reflective of who sets the prices - in Asia it is someone other than the provider, while here (meaning TER, mostly), it is usually the provider. The Asian model noted is designed to maximize volume, while the model most often used by independents here (Agencies are a different matter) is designed to maximize revenue with as little effort as possible. If you own the body and the business, you want to take care of the body and mind while making money; if you just own the business, the escorts are a consumable commodity so you just want to work them as hard as you can while you have them.
One question: wherever you encountered this pricing, was it in the local language, or just what was published in English for foreigners? Either way, I bet (initial) pricing was also a lot more negotiable there than it is here.
my .02 anyway,
zig
