If you really appreciate her as much as you say you do, then you would be recommending her to others instead of keeping her all to yourself.  Then maybe she'd be getting more business and wouldn't have to rely on only you to "support" her.  That is of course assuming she even exists.  It's gotten to the point now where you've become a boorish broken record.

Right! You'd think this magical provider who gives him free overnights and lets him raw her for $60 or whatever would at least be worth writing a review, huh?

You work a lot more than we hobby. Percentage wise, you should expect more NCNS's than hobbyists because you're "active" more than we are. Well, at least those of us guys who aren't self-proclaimed sluts, LOL.

Related question: How many times per month would a hobbyist hobby to be considered a slut?

You assume that we do, but, I had one week where every single booking I had was cancelled at the last minute. We're not all high volume and we don't all advertise enough to have constant calls, but, regardless, cancellations hurt, financially, every girl. You can just move on to another girl. We can't always get that business back, and for those who use this as their only source of income, that can cause major problems.

on both sides and it seems that having this as your only job is getting riskier. You're not the only one complaining about excessive cancellations, I've heard the same from others.

There is a difference between cancellations and NCNS. Cancellations are inevitable but NCNS shouldn't be. NCNS is generally the result of not caring about the other persons time or getting cold feet at the last minute. Both of these are unfair to the other person but it happens, especially if there's s sudden LE concern by one party. Cancelling at the last minute is not NCNS if the guy calls you and informs you he can't make it. NCNS is when he doesn't call and fails to show. They both suck for the provider but I just wanted to be clear on the difference.

As a provider, I do know the difference, but they both hurt financially so I put them together. Either way, I'm not getting paid.

I'm glad I started a lively discussion!  

My point was not that the appointment was cancelled.  I understand, shit happens.  It's happened to me as well.  My frustration was that there was NO communication.  If she'd have called or texted that something came up, no problem.  But to let someone waste the better part of an afternoon after confirming that all is a go 2 hours prior is just plain thoughtless and selfish.  It's not that hard to say "hey, I'm sorry, something came up".

Cancellations are inevitable.  NCNS should never be.

HD

Cancellations happen, yes, and I appreciate the men that give ample notice when they can't follow through on plans. My issue is mostly with those men who seem to think cancellations hurt them more than us. As a very low volume provider, I can assure you, just one cancellation/NCNS is a decent part of my income gone.

Cancellations do hurt the provider far more than the hobbyist. You have a lot more of a vested interest in the outcome than we do.

Lack of communication is the main difference with NCNS. When a provider does this, she apparently doesn't care that she's losing the money or something truly serious came up where she has no choice but to lose the money. In some cases, she got a better offer and blew off the original appointment. We all hate admitting this happens but we know it does. When I'm NCNS'd, I tend not to care much because I rarely plan my day around the hobby. It's an end of the day event and if it gets cancelled, no big deal. If it's a middle of the day event and she NCNS's after I took time off work, then I care a lot. In either case, I go home with money in my pocket so it's not a total loss other than some time being wasted. There's always porn