Feel free to post other scamming numbers & ads.

However its wise to research and do your homework before you contact the provider.
This scam is becoming very popular ....

Been there,  done that and oddly enough with a well known and highly reviewed provider.   I'm was actually surprised by this but now am simply disappointed in myself for being surprised.  

You should always be leery of ANYONE asking for money up front.  

You just have to make sure she has no record of rip-offs.

What happens after you receive the number? Do you load a credit card or something? It's convenient on the senders side (if you trust her), just wondering what happens next.

$200 gone. But, in some ways, their loss, since, had things worked out, I would have been willing to have a regular arrangement, particularly as it is impossible for me to ever deal in cash and I have to use paypal, credit cards, or checks, which most providers are simply not willing to take. A real dilemma, but on the other hand, something that has worked out well in the past on a few occasions. You do what you have to. I'm sure this won't be the last such money I lose this way.

The one that got me didn't have a record of rip-off.   Like another poster, I was looking for something that would have become a long term arrangement.

Are these ladies reviewed, reputable, well known providers? If so, I think you should share the fact that they ripped you off!! I really am peeved by ladies who do stuff like this because it makes those of us who don't rip people off have a harder time.  

More and more ladies are asking for, (demanding?), deposits.  Most XXX stars require them, and a lot of ladies that offer multi hour sessions require them.  I've never been burnt, but I hate giving my cash up front to a lady I've never seen before.  And when I hear about scams like this one, well, my ass tightens up as well as my wallet.

I'm willing to lose. If the girl is the type who is going to rip me off for 200 bucks, it's cheap price to pay for that info. I'm also looking for someone to spend a lot of time with and it's better to know early if she can be trusted. Maybe I should require them to take advance payment? lol

The problem is, the rip-offs (obviously) change their names. Perhaps TER should have a rip-off warning board. But that may cause some problems for the innocent.

…if we spend good money on our dates.

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It was only $360, but if I was going to get screwed for that amount,  that WAS NOT the way I pictured it.

I agree with everything you've said here. Back when I was heavily into being a sugar baby (that's actually what got me into escorting), I was a part of a community full of girls who all had such a bizarre way of thinking. Things like put off sex as long as possible, or even "we're better than escorts 'cause we don't just offer sex." I still use the sites, though, because there are plenty of legitimate men out there looking for a bit of discreet fun, and, like Jamie, I'm in this to meet people I genuinely enjoy and who enjoy me, not just a million one-time encounters--though, those can be fun, too.  

Don't u guys do screening?  Screening goes both ways, I would never give my money to anyone who doesn't have a solid reputation in their services..... There are lot of DISHONEST CRACKHEADS OUT THERE.... my suggestion..... Seek out reputable providers & you won't get scammed...     Deposits are a good idea, I'm thinking of incorporating it...

That's why I rely on TER and justify the membership 12 months a year. If you're only seeing well-established, well-review providers, you don't end up taking one for the team. It may bump you up to a higher cost level of the hobby (you don't find a lot of well-established and consistently good providers under $200) but it helps avoid the disappointment of finding yourself on the losing end of a scam.