if providers that offer BBFS are advertising that and are using the female condom, or are they actually being buck wild.

with only a small number of respondents thus far (117), nearly 60% said "no f'king way"...which leaves 40% interested.

I guess that helps answer the question as to why the gals offer it.  Seems like there are plenty who want it and probably plenty who offer it.

But its hard to mistake the female condom and it takes a little time to put in.  I can't see anyone doing that ahead of  time as it might discourage other activities such as DATY?

I would hope that they are not being irresponsible!!!!!!

I had seen a non-pro who I think was posting one night about every 4th month to cover expenses even though she worked two jobs. I started seeing her a couple times a month and she started turning it more into a date, charging me the hourly rate for the whole night and then eventually offering and my accepting BBFS.  Unique situation, but still reason I went with answer 2.

Either way, I did get nervous and a couple months after we stopped the bi-monthlys, I went and did a full blood work-up. I now think, I was just lucky and even in that environment, I wouldn't do again.