Just curious on those extended dinner date sessions if fun is had before or after dinner and if it depends what you are having for dinner.  I see a steak in my future, but I don't want to belch mushrooms and garlic during the session, nor feel sluggish. Thought we would have some wine and cheese first, get busy, then head out for a leisurely dinner. Now if its dinner, then a play, I'm gonna hit it hard that evening.  Your thoughts?

I love a glass of wine, some naughty playtime, then off to dinner. Come back and do it all over again!
And I love garlic, too. . . .so if both parties eat garlic, it's all good!

xxoo

Otherwise you have play, have to shower, get dressed, touch up the makeup and hair and have dinner.  Usually, dinner includes a lot of flirting and puts you in the mood for more intimate activities.  Garlic breath can be overcome if both of you have garlic or with a toothbrush and toothpaste followed by mouthwash.  

Sometimes ladies offer dinner dates at special rates.  Its always awkward if the before activities leave the gent not wishing to go out for dinner and continuing to play or going well over the play time before dinner.   Especially if the ladies donation was based on a certain amount of  time for each.  

It does happen and can ruin the mood when the gent has taken out exactly enough for the donation.  The conversation about a financial adjustment is never pleasant during these awkward moments.  

If a long enough date is booked or if the gent offers to adjust the compensation based upon additional play time, either scenario works.            

adds some ravenous ache and NEED to that beast place I like to wallow in!

As for myself I like to work up an appetite then dinner then dessert.....

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The anticipation- the flirtatious banter... It's all a part of the whole package. Plus, hopefully the girl you have researched or have seen before is educated enough to carry on an intelligent conversation, will dress appropriately and keeps your mind and "otherwise" wanting more afterward.

A moment to laugh at- I once met another provider for drinks socially at a Really nice martini bar- she walked in wearing army cargo pants and clunky boots... So make sure your date understands the environment your going to I didn't mind her outfit as much as the patrons around us must have due to the "crinckled nose" looks we were getting.

Enjoy OPD!!!

Xoxo
VC

DITTO!!!

Totally agree babygirl.  And there is something about that building tension during dinner.  Just eat light and enjoy the meal, view, and conversation as a predecessor to bigger and better things!!

With multiple ladies it is definitely play, nice dinner and flirting, go back and play until the game is over.  It's the best way to take an extended "catch your breath" break to recover, when you return it's game on again.

HAVE to eat first!  LOL Ummmm... yep I can hear all the whines and groans even as I send this. Hee hee.

You're such a wild child ( in a good way, of course) so one never knows with you

I, personally, kind of prefer to dine and get to know each other a bit first if I've never met the gent before.  But if he is a buddy, then who the hell cares which cums first!

Usually, the dinner gets rushed and we head to wear the REAL fun is.  Alone with me of course!!!!

XXX-Giselle

I feel the dinner date is better once we have played before we converse over a great meal!

I don't like to feel tired and then play so I prefer to have some wine with
a light appetizer in the room and then some play. Off to a play or dinner
which I prefer to eat light, and back to play while flirting through the evening.

I tend to stay away from cheese and prefer fruit so I can feed you too.

Angela

We had lunch the play planned. When he arrived I was so turned on by the hug and kiss I was just all over him... I said are you really hungry for lunch right now??? He said not any more. We went at it and had such a good time I have to say we never made it to lunch...LOL (sorry RS)

For the most part I enjoy bed first then dinner then bed but be prepared that I may not let you out of bed!!!

Love you all,
SherriGFE

Then you can decide to stay and play or go out for dinner.

I have enjoyed evenings that started out at a restaurant and finished in the bedroom.  I have also enjoyed starting in the bedroom and after finishing, there heading out to eat.

There have also been nights where either of the above have been the original plan and food was never seen.

And if a before and after is possible.  *wink*

I like to play, have dinner, then play some more!

don't forget dessert and the post dessert dessert!!!

start early play a little before and come home and work it off  kinda like desert for me!