When you book a session with a provider but realize that she isn't what you expected and you have no attraction to her at all. Do you politely tell her that it's not going to work out, grab the envelope, and walk out?

Scenarios.... She doesn't look anything like her pics, she's rude, unprofessional, she looks sick...

-- Modified on 10/8/2013 5:01:30 AM

Obviously, your question is being drawn from a real life experience, and I am just wondering what you mean....

Cold sick?
Sickening because she is too skinny?
Looks like she is on drugs?

What does "she looks sick" mean??

 
If I were a hobbiest and I walked into a situation in which the girl didn't look like her pics and was rude - I would turn around and walk out - whether you get your donation back kind of depends on the situation. Some girls pick it up right away and aren't going to it back.  

In my experience, I have had people that came in and left, when I first started. I think that they never planned on staying to begin with. But some of them had "excuses". I have always used my actual "real" pictures so I think some of them thought they could come by and "get a peek at a real escort". This only happened when when I was with my ex though, I haven't had anyone do that in a LONG time. And what could we do - you can't so no my pictures are real, YOU MUST STAY. You just shrug and go about your day. Same as when you get a no call no show, or someone call and say "their tire is flat" or whatever lame excuse.

This was quite a while ago when this happened;

Called an Agency I've been going to for a while. Asked who was working today. Lady on the phone mentions there's a new Girl working. So I agree to see her and she sets up the Time and Place for me. I get to the Room and the Girl opens the Door. I walk in and it's Dark. She closes the Door and turns on the Light. I look at her and I'm very Disappointed. From what the lady on the phone described about the Girl, she looks Nothing like her. Chunky and not even half way Decent Looking. So I tell her this isn't going to Work and I'm Leaving. She tells me I have to give her 50 Bucks just for Showing Up. I told her I'm not giving you anything and I'm leaving right now. She Blocks the Door to stop me from leaving. I told her, "If you don't get out of the way, I'm going to knock you down," She wisely got out of the way and I left.

If you can get the envelope then yes you should do that. But have to be very polite about it. Also, you can give her some amount as compensation.

It is always nice to offer something, because the girl did spend some amount of time getting ready and preparing for you. And it sucks to think that someone is coming for them to turn around. Like ROGM's story, some girls will get very aggressive with you! So it is a delicate subject to navigate at your own discretion. I have heard some horrible stories, and you never know who the girl has hiding in the background somewhere. Especially, if she is not the girl in her photos and is trying to run a scam of some sort.  

This is why TER Is so awesome! You don't have to see the kind of girls that will have you turning and running!!

I've been Burned in the past by Paying Upfront. I vowed that would Never happen again. So after that lesson, I always pay AFTER THE SESSION IS OVER. I'll Repeat that, I pay After the Session is over. If a Provider wants the Money Upfront, I got no problem walking out on her. I don't even leave a Tip. If you Pay Upfront you're either going to get Ripped Off, i.e she walks out on you, or she'll give you a Crappy Session. just my experience.

Easy to say but... I've not had much problem keeping the envelope in my pocket until I have confirmed in my mind I am staying. Which so far has always taken me less than a minute to decide. The way I look at it, once I have dropped the envelope she is entitled to at least some of what's in it.

Hell I had a visit with one gal that after at least half the session was over and we were well into the action it ended up going south. The stand up provider insisted I take half my donation back. To some extent I got to have my cake and eat it too. Well pie at least...

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This happened to me also when I was much younger in the hobby. I looked at her ad back then on Craigslist, had the donation ready according to the ad, she opened the envelope right in front of me and counted the donation to say "this isn't enough". I thought "huh, but the ad says". I told her what the amount was I saw online.  She says, "that's for a quickie". At this point I knew I was being upsold, but she already has the money in hand. How do I know she doesn't have a pimp waiting around somewhere? Being young and dumb I gave her the amount she asked for. We started the session and she was totally NOT INTO IT. I mean would not let me touch her. When I requested services,  she refused. No attraction. No affection. She even tried to blame me cuz at this point i definitely was not hard. When i tried to touch her she literally cringed. I am not an unattractive man. I am clean, dd free, what the hell. She could tell I was upset.  She came out and told me its her birthday and she didnt wanna be doing this shit. She offered me some of my donation back. I left very unhappy.  

This was before I knew about TER several years ago. It always sticks in your mind when you have a wonderful experience with a provider,  but you NEVER forget times like this. Since then I have never had this type session with any woman. I found out about TER shortly after and read reviews before I make the trip.