When you call a provider give them a little more to go on then this is **** and I saw you a couple of weeks ago.   Something like we met at so and so, or I brought you the ****.  Or we talked about *****.  This may not be necessary if you are a regular, but can help avoid confusion if you only see a lady occasionally.  This can be very helpful if a lady happens to see to men with the same first name.

How about, "Hey, I was the guy with the big..."

Geez, if she can't remember me for a couple of weeks, I must not have made much of an impression. If I'm that unmemorable, I need to find another hobby. Porn star....yeah

Remembering a first name is hard, a last name normally helps and usually will jar the memory.  The girl might know 20 Steve's, 12 Dan's, 8 Scott's, and 23 Mike's so just supplying a first name will often draw a blank.  Our phones only hold so many #'s so putting all of our past guests into our phone is out of the question as well.  

Also, from my experience many guests think the visit was more recent then it was some times being months instead of the weeks ago in his thoughts since it is still so fresh in mind.

So, take care, have fun and play HARD!!!  I hope to!!!

Trying having something a little bit unique about a session helps too such as:  Hi, I saw you February of last year on a really cold night.. and was supposed to be a doubles session, but she was sick in the other room so we had a good time anyway even though I felt bad your friend wasn't feeling good... etc.  

Remember the night we had to sneak up on the restaurant, and the fucking thing was closed?

Still owe you that second dinner!!!

if a client still had their session fresh in his mind months later.