I realize this isn't going to apply to most established providers because I've only ever had one established provider not make an appointment and it was only because she fell ill the night before and let me know way in advance.  But these assembly line, First Come First Fuck backpage princesses are unbelievable.  Here's a typical situation:

It goes both ways... some times it goes both ways... as for an established provider it still happens. I might have an honorarium a little more than some but do not appreciate the NCNS.  I happen to enjoy the company of a gentleman who appreciates my time and knows that it is important just as his.  
I do understand that some hobbyists would love to see certain established providers more than often but on my end ....  it seems to be "shopping"... Just like us girls like to do but a little different.... LOL
All I would ask is a little common courtesy just like any woman or man.
Good luck in all of your adventures and have loads and loads of fun!!!!!
Love
Zana

There are plenty of other Providers to see. If one NCNS don't ever see her again. Even if she calls to reschedule with you.  

It seems you have either the worse luck when it comes to hobbying or else you're not doing proper research and are picking the wrong ladies.  Every post you make seems to be about some disaster of an experience, that I would expect more from a newbie then from a veteran like yourself.  Maybe you should consider seeing providers a little less often, so you can afford a quality, reviewed, TER lady.  You may just find that a lot of your hobby woes will go away.  You definitely need to switch things up, because what you're currently doing isn't working to your satisfaction.

Is it because you need to pay for sex, or that you were stood up by some BP hooker? You really think whining on the Board will help. You need to get your head out of your ass and come to grips with the reality of this business. Hell, people get screwed over every day in the legitimate business world. Tell you what, petition the state legislature to set up a small claims court exclusively for enforcing contracts and agreements relating to the P4P game. You've got a better chance of success there then crying on a TER board because you were stood up by a BP dolly.

Why don't you help out old Sweet and Adorable and PM the OP her contact info?  Surely you want to help out her business by steering guys her way....oh wait, I forgot, she'd rather get $100 per BBFS session with you than see other guys and be paid fairly for her services.  And I guess OP is more interested in real girls than fictional providers, so on second thought never mind.

Right. Because switch the situation around, have a provider come on here and say what I just said, and suddenly you want to lynch the guy.  Guess what, the reality of the business is determined by the demand side as well as the supply side, just like any other.  

A quality reviewed TER lady is one type of experience and I have seen my share.   But it is also the most vanilla of experiences and the most expensive.  But that's beyond the point.  The point is that there should be acceptable standards of practice on both sides of the donation envelope, enforced by the tools we have at our disposable or adding those we don't have.  Its a bit disappointing to me that providers constantly find new ways to minimize their negative experiences and maximize their profit, while the prevailing attitude amongst us hobbyists is simply one of acceptance and defeat.  I've never complained without proposing some way to avoid such an experience again and improve the hobby as a whole.

After countless mentions of his provider and numerous queries by other hobbyists as to her identity, ROGM has yet to reveal who she is.  I'll bet if his mystery provider (very likely fictitious) knew he was praising her all over TER and of all the potential business she was missing out on because he keeps her to his frugal, creepy self, she would drop his sorry ass like a hot potato.

It definitely goes both ways and thats why there should be some place on here to write out what happened and then allow the other person to respond.  That way it allows for miscommunications to be resolved without any negativity and also it will discourage others from doing so.  Look, I am aware that things come up and there's all sorts of last minute things that can derail an appointment.  All I'm trying to minimize are the times when its done on purpose for gain on both sides.   Thanks for the wishes, good luck to you as well.

That would seem to be the most logical thing to do and it gives a provider the opportunity to respond. That said, part of the challenge is that the fresh new providers that you like to see (as opposed to the quality established providers) may not be aware of TER or understand how something like this could impact their business. Also, they may not give a shit because they're not posting here...they're posting BP.

Who are you kidding! You come on the Board using an alias looking for sympathy because you got stood up. You want TER to put up a NS category, but you don't have the balls to put this woman's name out there for anyone else to avoid, EVEN UNDER YOUR ALIAS. Of course you won't do that because maybe, just maybe, something unexpected happened in this woman's life that took precedence over seeing you, and then you would look like a bigger horses ass. You want the thrill of of the experience of P4P, then shut up and accept the consequences as well. Last I looked, this is all clandestine and illegal, no guarantees, no entitlements, no legal remedies! Just man up and move on.

This is the provider's profile: http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?ID=257749&pnotes=1

I'm confused by the context in which you're using the term "vanilla" in this instance. Is it the thrill of a lady that's not reviewed, or are you looking for a kinky experience that you don't feel an established provider can give you?

If she's real (big if) and willing to BBFS a near illiterate for $100 a pop my only interest in getting her info is to ensure I don't  book with her inadvertently!  The thought of my boys getting anywhere near where ROGM has been turns my spine to ice!

It's the risk factor and also the thrill that you really don't know what you are about to get.  It's a much different experience and a lot of times it's a more personal experience because they haven't detached themselves completely.   There's also a thrill to seeing massage only providers and there being enough mutual attraction that it becomes more than that.  Probably vanilla is not the right word here because I can't think of any experience I've had with an established provider that I regretted.  On the other hand, I've had a few with unreviewed providers that i wish I hadn't go through mostly because the pics were fake

and trying to get an escort experience at the price of a massage experience.  

The last massage girl I slept with wanted to date me.   It was her idea to have sex.  I demanded nothing but an hour of her time.   I'm not cheap nor abusive of any situation.  I'm a fit and attractive youngish male who got into the hobby as a result of an illness that took me out of normal life situations.  Ive mentioned before that I've dated several providers.  There is more to this hobby than stereotypes but thanks for your kind words.

You guys wouldn't like her. She's NOT Asian.

Right there... you've admitted to enjoying the thrill of the unexpected.  so the complaint that you're tired of NCNS, despite knowing that you're taking a legitimate risk? that just doesn't fly with me.  I'm not sure what you mean by "personal experience"; new girls are often so nervous that they allow their limits to be pushed ( i know I did), and that's not the equivalent of a "more personal experience".  Not to mention, when a lot of girls first start, theyre awkward and nervous. You enjoy girls who are nervous and awkward? you also contradict yourself by saying that more experienced providers "detach" themselves from the encounter, but that you've never had an experience with an established provider that you've regretted.  Like, despite that you felt the "established provider" was disconnected from the experience, you felt those experiences were better than those with newer, unvetted ladies, yet you still keep going back to these unvetted ladies for the thrill? Meh. your reasoning sounds a bit misguided, to say the least.

I'm not even going to argue with you.  I'm just not going to agree.  It's easy to label somebody without knowing them.  Sometimes we look for things that aren't there but seem to be and accept them as fact.  The reality is that I've treated every single provider I've been with with absolute respect and have been a complete gentleman.  

that a provider who advertises herself as being available 24/7 would be unreliable.  

That said, it is against TER rules to use your alias and "real" fake name in the same thread.

kudos though for standing up and naming names. there are countless guys here who constantly whine about being stood up but never name names either because they don't want the "drama" or because they don't want to "hurt her business" conveniently forgetting that sharing information is exactly why this site was created.

IMO, you have just made a small, but significant contribution to the community. It sucks that you got stood up, and I like your suggestion that somehow TER could keep a tally on the number of NCNS a provider has to her name. The only way this behavior is going to stop is if it starts effecting their pocketbook.

and for those of you on your high fucking horses, NCNS happens at all ends of the provider spectrum and  happens all too often even with "well reviewed" providers.

I think having a tally of how often a woman (or man) wastes hours of someone else's time without so much as an apology or an explanation would be a GREAT tool to have in our provider selection tool bag.

NCNS SUCKS, regardless of whether it's the guy or the gal doing it, on that fact I would hope we can all agree. Why shouldn't the guilty parties not be called out for it? I say name names and create a data base so we can avoid repeat offenders.

Post a link to her ad or website.  Come on, I dare ya

I have been at this awhile, and I have NCNS a client exactly one time.  

some of my very best friends are hookers, whores, sluts, or whatever label you want to use for what  you ladies do for a living. Good manners and punctuality don't go out the window just because you make your living with your clothes off.

For the record, I find it just as unacceptable when it happens the other way around and a guy disrespects YOUR time. I have been doing this for much longer than you, trust me on this (forty years as a matter of fact. lol) and I have NEVER NCNS, I will confess to having had to cancel occasionally over the years, but never have I canceled without getting word to the lady. I want my time respected, the least I can do is to return the favor.

But I simply cannot support myself by fucking a guy bareback for free any longer.  

I think you just like keeping her broke and dependent, If a bunch of other guys were paying her full freight she might not be barebacking you for peanuts.

You and ROGM were made for each other.  Neither one of you have any credibility.

That's news to me.  

I think I just found the title of my new book.

I agree... Things arise on both sides which makes things difficult for everyone. I do not understand on either side whether it be from a Provider or a Hobbyist to to it for "gain".  
To me there is no gain just distrust. It is difficult for everyone. The gain aspect is on the one side is who is cheaper to "play with" and the other is who can I make more $$$ from. It makes no sense either way. Just hurts the good ones.
Thanks for all of your great opinions... You are wonderful.
Love
Zana

ROGM is more like a "one pony trick" than a "one trick pony"

and you didn't just use "sophisticated" and ROGM in the same sentence, did you? Please tell me you were just "funnin" us, right?

ROGM's little secret is either imaginary, in which case none of this matters, or a total dumpster fire, in which case none of this matters.  No provider I ever want to see is barebacking for $100 a session.