I have been trying to find a dinner date as I have multiple engagements coming up through the holidays.My problem is I do not wish to join rsk or other identity sites for the obvious reasons.I am not some nut case,no arrests and I am a complete gentleman.I have been stood up and or turned down which I would find humorous under different circumstances.So any suggestions would be appreciated.
 I will check back for responses.

Huh?  You say, "I do not wish to join rsk or other identity sites for the obvious reasons."

Well then, what do you expect? These girls have to feel safe. If you don' give verifying information to RS2K then you will have to give it to a girl who does her own verification.

Put yourself in her position (no sexual pun intended!).

You want company? Then do what's necessary in this hobby. Otherwise, find yourself an actual  girlfriend.

No reviews, and not much history here, your chances are pretty slim. You won't get many recommendations without some sort on credibility. Like any other newbie, ya' gotta give something up to get something. Try posting what information you ARE willing to provide for screening, and you may get a few bites. Just telling a lady that you're safe isn't going to get you through too many doors.

Good Luck.

You sound like LE in my book. Who would put that they have never been arrested as one of the first things that distinguish themselves from all the other guys looking for dates? Try Date.Com and Match.com for starters. If you are compelled to have a provider as your date, consider putting a retainer of let's say $1500. That should attract someone. Cash of course.

I have read all the reponses.I had expected the responses I recieved.Hmm as for the obvious reasons for not wanting to join a verification site.....hmmm, my reputation because I am well known is on the line.I do understand ladies being cautious and I find their reasons to be valid.And as for the one  response: I am not le and even if I was, there is no laws for employing someone to join you at a dinner function.Dining and dancing hasnt been outlawed in the states yet. That is all I requested was a dinner date at a public function.No I am not a hobbyist and I dont look into pursuing a long term involvement to such........

Brzzee,

I am not sure if your post is intended to gain sympathy from this community, but it is obvious that it will not.  Chicago is a close knit community.  The many hobbyists on this board are concerned about the safety and well-being of the many ladies in the area.

Think about it.  Do you think that Julissa Brisman's murderer said in advance that he was going to do her harm.  Wouldn't you suspect that the Craiglist murderer, also portrayed himself as a "gentleman and not a nut case?"

In truth, these women took the gentlemen who saw them at their word.. with calamitous result.

If you do not want to comply with the lady's prescreening results, you are sending a clear message to her that you are not to be trusted.  After all, when all is said and done, she is the person at risk.

Rather than post on this board, seeking sympathy, perhaps you should join an online dating service.  Who knows, you may get lucky.  If you can't find one, might I suggest...

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I am not sure if your post is intended to gain sympathy from this community, but it is obvious that it will not.  Chicago is a close knit community.  The many hobbyists on this board are concerned about the safety and well-being of the many ladies in the area.

Think about it.  Do you think that Julissa Brisman's murderer said in advance that he was going to do her harm.  Wouldn't you suspect that the Craiglist murderer, also portrayed himself as a "gentleman and not a nut case?"

In truth, these women took the gentlemen who saw them at their word.. with calamitous result.

If you do not want to comply with the lady's prescreening results, you are sending a clear message to her that you are not to be trusted.  After all, when all is said and done, she is the person at risk.

Rather than post on this board, seeking sympathy, perhaps you should join an online dating service.  Who knows, you may get lucky.  If you can't find one, might I suggest...

I totally understand safety concerns is a valid issue for a provider and no I am not looking for any type of sympathy.What I was looking for was last minute dinner date for a public function.So completely understood.

Are you seriously saying that you offer the lady of your choice no measure of comfort and security?  RS2K is now world wide and proven, it works for both the ladies and gentlemen and costs very little.

OMG that site made me laugh