Hello Darlings!

Wow, I got onto the PO board on my first month on TER... But I also had many reviews by then, when finally realized there was a PO board they gave me access immediately...  

Yes it's DISTURBINGLY DIFFICULT, I've asked multiple time and get the same "well you're new so nah.." Pretty much it's crazy! But whatevs their website I can't do much about it.

I totally agree!

Most ladies complain about it when a new guest or a past guest expects the OTC time.  Since it is OTC it should be up to us if and when we want to give it.  I know many ladies with young children who really can't provide added time, I also know several of my provider friends who also have other jobs and are very busy and unable to provide extra time due to barely fitting in the appt's.  

Definitely a factor in deciding the frequency of future dates.    

Otc extensions/pre-gaming means I love you.  Otc period means we're dating and please believe, that is WAY more expensive!

You have 4 reviews give it a few more & you'll get into the PO board, it's a very helpful tool...  

Thanks for the response! And no you will not get flamed, all opinions on my threads are accepted (:

Thanks girl! I understand! It is a balancing act.

Once you get on the PO board (which shouldn't take long) it will be all good.
As far as the extra time. Just have fun and do what you think is good for you. Don't let anyone take advantage of you or your time but if you are comfortable with someone then go for it. I have had a lot of fun with some clients that turned into good friends and actually more. So you never know. Good luck honey!
Love
Zana

off topic, but yes Gemma..  it's that hard.

I spend time with her on and off the clock. We've become friends at this point.

eally?  Having lunch, dinner or a few drinks with someone means "I love you" and that you're dating??  Then I must currently love and be dating multiple women.  Adults can hang out with those of the opposite sex as friends without adding the commitment of dating.  You should try it sometime, it's enjoyable.

It looks like all the pitfalls of OTC have already been listed above: guys who just won't leave, or those who start booking shorter appointments with the expectation of OTC to make up the difference. I bet there are horror stories aplenty on the PO board.  

So what does this mean to you?

Thank god someone understands this (I'm sure more ladies do). Idk what it is and how I can prove myself to be the provider I say I am? How many reviews should it take? I honestly think 3 reviews is enough, this is apparently a hobbyist friendly board. If 3 different hobbyists with reviews done previously have written reviews about me shouldn't TER trust them enough to know if I'm a real provider or not? Or my ratings in said reviews? Or the fact I spend a minimum of 500+ on advertising.

Thank you for your reply!

I started a subject on when to pick a guy for OTC time - is it ok if he has knowledge you would like him to share etc? I got an enormous amount of PM's offering knowledge of all areas. One even booked an hour, was good looking, and eventually offered to take me to Dubai for $20,000 to most likely sell me as a sex slave. I think one even offered to pay for the meal/drinks.

I think they just want to make sure you are legit and not LE trying to gain everyone's trust to get on the PO board.  

But as Courtney states below, threads and comments to this effect act as inadvertent advertisements. Do what makes you comfortable, don't put up with requests that make you uncomfortable and keep it all hush-hush.

If she keeps posting so that it is easy to know who she is then they will put her on.  As another girl stated you have to continue to have a presence of they kick you off as well.  Posting a couple times a week helps them to know you are in fact a legit provider

I want to see all of you soon!

It didn't hurt talk about it lol

I understood that. I wasn't saying as a literal advertisement either, sorry for the confusion.

So I was having dinner with a hobby friend of mine and I ask him how come he gets a lot of OTC and I get none?  He put down his beer, smiled, and said "Because I'm single and you're married". Well, duh, I thought, as the cloud of unrealistic expectations began to lift...I could see more clearly...and now I'm laughing...at myself!!

Lol and that would explain it!

I love you meant in the "bestest client ever" way.  Does smitten work better for you?

Because I very rarely have any time for OTC time as my excuses for being unreachable can only stretch so far...the unfortunate byproduct of the clandestine (and careful) use of the wonderful services you ladies provide!

Very limited time so the bit of OTC I get is greatly appreciated. Believe it or not, providers and hobbyists can actually be friends, now don't that beat all?

Did u find out why u were booted off? They don't boot peeps off for no reason...   I'm only relating my experience.... I requested to be part of PO board & w/in 24 hrs I was there,... But then again, I had like over 20 reviews when I realized how to utilize TER & my reviews are very current & very very consistent...

Hobbyist & providers def can be friends...  I know I've made some wonderful ones ....

for each others time and schedule and not taking advantage of the situation. Funny how this hobby made me more comfortable with a wide range of generations. Those who know me know my personality is much younger than my physical years. I enjoy spending time with younger people  more than my own generation. Damn fuddy duddy's, haha!