Ok just a few questions. I have been a hobbyist for a while. In the past I have had to make a few changes and have done a no call no show in the past. I spoke with the provider after it happened and she said she understood. But it has come to my attention that im I guess blacklisted. I am wondering if there is any way to get off the so called blacklist. I tried to meet a lady but after she did her research on my I gave her all my info she said sorry cuz of the blacklist. I think that its bs im out here to have a good time with some providers and due to the fact that some lady put me on a list i cant experience some of the other finer ladies out there. This happened a few years back with the no call and I am just looking for some info on how to fix it with the ladies whom i would like to see.

Thats a tough position to be in hun.  If i were you, i would contact the ladies you are interested in and explain your situation.  Some of us will give you a 2nd chance.  You have to be willing to jump through all the hoops to get back in good standing.  Join rs2k, preferred411, and datecheck if you can.

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The problem was this.  The girl said she understood probably to avoid a confrontation with you.  Quite obviously, after standing her up, you did not re-schedule with her to try and make up for the time you wasted and possibly money on setting up incall etc...

That being said, some girls just don't want to deal with even the slightest chance of u doing that to them.  The way I usually handle it is by confronting the guy with it and regardless of their response, I make it very clear to them that if he ncns us, we will put him on every blacklist out there.

Give us a call.

For me, it would be very dependent on when the post was made, how many posts there are and what the offense was.

If it was just one NCNS post made years ago, I would be willing to press on. But I would make my cancellation policy very clear, just so there's no confusion and to make sure you are, in fact ready to book. I have done this before with people that had a very similar situation, and thus far, I haven't experienced any issues.

I don't know if there's anything you can do to take yourself off of a blacklist. But I would second the idea of signing up for a screening site (if you haven't done so already), be willing to comply with a lady's full screening requirements, and if you do cancel/NCNS again, do comply with her cancellation policy and/or offer to make restitution.

Hey - it's Friday!  Let's work a smile into this thread.  How about changing your screen name to include the Cub's?  Then maybe more providers would see you!   (ok, that was a joke)!

Offer a 50 percent deposit. It's like bankruptcy. To reestablish credit, You apply for a prepaid credit card. Soon you're on the ok list and others approve you.

Its pretty harsh to blacklist you for a one time ncns if indeed it was first time?
Blacklist originated for dangerous clients but ladies become pretty angry when they spend money on a room, drive out there and wait for nothing!

This could be a warning for guys, if something does come up it is best to call the lady and explain you can't make it, then just to let it slide and say nothing.  
So many guys think its nothing to stand up a provider cause its not a "real" job and she makes enough to make it up but it doesn't work that way.

If you want to get back on track join rs2k and offer a deposit or get the room yourself.

Thanks all for the help. I got on one of the sites of the blacklist and I must say that its pretty bad when some of the ladies make stuff up. The blacklist says it happend in 06 07 and some of the things said are so far from the truth. Well i got a few messages from some of the providers and i will be seeing you real soon....