Brand new hobbyist - first time yesterday (yes, I will post that review...)
TER has been very helpful, both in figuring out how all this works, finding providers, as well as (properly) scaring the bejesus out of me regarding the LE risks. So far, so good.
A couple of questions come to mind so far, one specific to Chicago, I assume - how does one find providers? Yes, I have surfed reviews here. Not being in the city, and being somewhat more worried about Chicago LE than suburban (is that right or wrong?), I have focused on suburban providers with 5 or more reviews who do incall. Not a large group, but promising.
I am avoiding agencies for the moment, since what I read here suggests to me that they add an extra level of risk in that I am in their files somehow, and also because it seems that the coming law targets them. I also believe, though pricing does not seem to bear this out, that I am getting a better deal by eliminating the middle man.
Scanned P411, and RS2K and some good stuff there, but not a lot. Postings here make me think BP is mostly a waste of time, if not downright risky, so while I have scanned that, I do not plan to spend a lot of time there unless it is through a link here.
Also have stumbled across a few listings for traveling providers, but I keep running across reviews for traveling providers where I cannot figure out how people knew they were here (not listed here, on the linked web sites, or anywhere I could find). Sometime I do find the travel schedule, but more often than not, I cannot.
So here are my questions:
1. How do you find and track (for those who travel) providers? Just trying to figure out the best way to see what is available when I am in the mood, or to track someone I find interesting.
2. What are the benefits of being a regular with a provider? The attraction of novelty seems part of the reason to hobby, but if/when I find someone really great, what should I expect if I go back again, and again. I know that this probably depends from provider to provider, so just share experiences. I assume providers prefer regulars, at least those who meet certain criteria (and I strive to be a good boy), so they would do something extra to make you a regular.
3. What are the pros and cons of traveling providers versus locals? Any difference in LE risk or anything else? Seems logical that the worst would not travel, so I assume quality is better on average among the travelers (and prices seem to run a bit higher), but what other differences should I expect?
Thanks to all for posting & sharing. I cannot tell you how helpful this board has been.