You check PM's (personal messages) by hitting the "mail" tab near the top of the TER window. You must be a VIP (ie-paid) member in order to read or send PM's.

Then again, you must be a VIP member to read the full reviews and see the stats and scores, so if you are not already, I would advise you to get yourself VIP status. As we have quite a diverse group (an estimated third of all American men visit a lady in a professional capacity at some point), dates, and therefore reviews will of course be subjective. Really look at the content, not just the scores, to get an idea of what a lady is like.

Even the term GFE is a broad euphemism, representing anything from willingness to kiss and perform bbbj and other such acts, to making small talk before and after an intimate encounter, to a full on ability and desire to make an encounter as genuine and satisfying mentally and possibly emotionally as it is physically. Moral of the story? Get VIP (if you don't already have it) and read the full reviews of the ladies that potentially interest you.

(Also, review her website as well. Nothing annoys a lady quite like an email full of questions that would have been easily and quickly answered if the gentleman had just looked through her site. Spoon-feeding is not sexy.

As I said, I have been poking around for a little while.  I've decided I should start with the best and take the advice of those at this longer then I've been.  I like to do everything in life to the fullest so I shouldn't compromise here.  

Thanks for the replay and insight.  Much appreciated.