i was basically given the run around from amy on BP
i know i know BP is no good but she had reviews and good ones at that
first time she said i looked like a cop second time she blew me off and the third time she never responded at all i dont get it

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what makes you think she'd all of sudden see you when she already stated 'you look like a cop'?

I know Amy and she's very careful like all our friends.  Did you talk about money?

There should be a simple guide to not making girls nervous.  Not talking about money should be up there.

If the conversation at any point has the lady asking, wondering, or hinting at the fact that you might be a cop... you will not have a good time.

If this is your first post, I'm assuming you're new. Stay away from BP. You say she had good reviews, but how many? You said she said you "looked like a cop"... is that a figure of speech or did you actually meet?

met her at the room and she told me she wouldnt see me that i understood but the second time her friend verified me with roomservice

If you were a cop she would hve been taken in no matter what she said! Once a cop enters your room it does not matter what you say or do you will be taken in and booked.
if you did and said all the right things you get to say that infront of the judge and then it takes its course but once a cop enters the room, that is it.

Agreed, once the cop is in, it's time to start the old "I wish to exercise my right to remain silent until such time as I have been provided for legal representation." broken record.

So... you saw her... phyisically... without her being sure you're a cop... which means she didn't verify you the first time? I see red flags all over this situation

i would be interested in knowing what a provider would do if a guy did the same to them
im sure they wouldnt see him again (i wouldnt blame them )and yet i was willing to chalk it up to a miscommunication and yet i think im more pissed she didnt have the decency to return my last effort to contact her

This is just a strange situation and you're missing the points.

1. You managed to see her without her verifying you properly. She saw you and thought you were a cop. You assured her you weren't but had to leave. (red flag)

2. You still persisted, and she had a 'friend' verify you. (red flag)

3. She blew you off even after having 'verified' you (red flag)

You should've stopped after #1. Stop trying to go down the rabbit hole to figure out what the heck was going on. In the TER side of the hobby, people generally don't meet you and then start to verify you. You should be verified before the meeting is ever set.