I have seen the photos where the ladies photo shop them selves to death. Because I know how to use photo shop and have been modeling for years, I can immediately recognize when someone is using photo shop to change their appearance. But not everyone does to CHANGE their appearance. I think photo shop is necessary to make the photos appear vibrant and look nice.
Of course there is always people who take things to the extreme. But if you start off with a pretty lady with a great figure, a lot of photo shop will not be necessary except to adjust the lighting and make sure that certain features stand out the way they are supposed to.
Personally, what I do is have BOTH photo shop and "selfies" on my website. I do that so when you look at my website you can see that even though most of the photos are photo shopped the selfie ones are not, and so the girl behind the door is the same girl in the photos.
This situation is one where you should be contacting the guys that have reviewed the lady to see if her photos are accurate or if they are basically a cartoon. These days, with all the resources that you guys have, there is no excuse for you to not be able to find what you are looking for. You start by reading her reviews, see what they say in there regarding her photos, and then contact some of her reviewers directly.
Personally, I'd say about 8 outta 10 times guys show up and tell me I look better than my photos. So I have been doing my damnest to portray my inner beauty in my photos. But not everyone is the same as me, I guess.
I can only assume what a pain it is trying to find a girl who is real and genuine and really worth the money that she is looking for. But in the long run, it pays to do your research. And then when you find a handful of girls that are what you are looking for, then just stick with them for a while until you are able to find a few more that fit your needs.
Bottom line, photo shop IS totally necessary - but just like anything else - it can be totally abused. But I guess if I wasn't attractive I would probably photo shop myself like that too- LOL- but I can, for the most part, hold my own in that department, or at least that is what I've been told.
I hope you find that one the your looking for "photoshopsucks". She is out there, you just gotta look a little harder to find her.