Ladies!  I cannot tell you how important it is to be on time, and what a boner-shrinker it is to have to wait for you.  I hate getting the "give me 5 minutes" text, because I know that means it will be at least 10 or 15 minutes.  So I have to sit like a dork in my car, or if I took the CTA, I have to hang out on the street or find a Walgreens to browse around.  It really kills the fantasy, and puts us in an awkward position.  Thank you for reading my little public service announcement.  As you were.

Some things cannot be avoided at all. For example if the provider has a child and has to wait for her sitter. But if they are making you late so they can finish with the guy before you- then that is unacceptable. I personally, only take 1 AM and 1 PM appiointment per dy, so I do my very best to be on time- if not early.  

I'm sorry Baba that you are having such difficulties... are you reading their reviews, because if they are habitually late someone will usually say somthing.  

BUT! It does go on both ends. Guys can be late too- and that can sometimes mess up our day as well.

My advice to you is, to stop seeing ladies in hotels, OR if you are told to wait go gran coffee or something and wait for her to tell you she is ready. That way you wont stick out.  

Just my 2 cents, for what it is worth..

Love,
J

I happen to agree with Jamie ~~ I do understand your situation and I know how frustration for sure. Sometimes it happens to us too. Actually what is even worse is when they are no call no show... That really puts a damper in our schedules. I generally only see a couple of gentlemen in one day so I try my best to be on time but sometimes life just doesn't deal me the best cards (life isn't always easy even for the best of us)... Good luck next time though.... I hope you see some good ones out there one time... We are all out there somewhere!!

Love
Zana

Tardiness doesn't only happen with girls in hotels, it happens in private residences too, it also works bothways when a gentleman calls says heavy traffic I'll be there in 10 min.

It is awkward and aggravating on both sides but the worse thing a gentleman can do is sit in the hotel parking lot because if security comes around and asks if they can help you, what are you going to say? If  you don't have a room there or the registered name of who you're visiting it could present problems.

I suggest a different parking lot because you don't want to make a aggravating 10 min to a much longer wasteof time and show them you id and al that aggravating stuff!  jmo

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Being on time is best.
I like to say, I'm always on time but never early.'
It seems I'm running a tight schedule no matter when the appointment is.  
I like to workout, get my hair done and prepare in a very leisurely fashion.

If a gentleman makes good time with traffic, I appreciate that he finds something to do until our meeting.

But yes, late is always a burden.  Especially if it's your rare opportunity to do something for yourself and you've been looking forward to it!
If someone arrives too tardy, I expect him to shave his time a bit.
Never had a problem though...seems most guys are REALLY ready at the appointed time;-

Abe said it best..some of our providers are on time some of the time..none of our providers are on time all the time..

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I seem to be quite famous for being late and I know the saying about how when someone is late it is disrespectful to the person waiting and how everyone's time is valuable which makes being late especially heinous.

I used to be late ALL of the time.  I think the crescendo of my tardiness was at six hours but I still received a tip due to my sparkling personality and long legs.  As pissed as he was, I managed to give him the the time of his life and he became a biweekly regular and I have never been even five minutes late for him and we always have a blast together...

I guess my point is that even if a girl is super late, don't let that deter you from an amazing time and a possible ATF that will make it her mission to be on time once you hit it off because sometimes it takes more than money to motivate us  As a matter of fact, my most recent ATF was pleasantly surprised by my early arrivals from time to time and I did this only because I genuinely enjoyed his company which made me want to be early and stay late  Yes, we have the freedom to stay later if we want to-surprise!

I guess I just wanted to contribute to this topic that while a girl might be late it might just be worth waiting for.  HOWEVER, since I have changed my tardy ways, I can see how rude it is...

XXX-Giselle Parker

That goes for hobbyists also... I hate sitting around waiting all pretty & no one to touch me!! Lol... I totally agree, give URSELF enough time to get ready & if agreed on a specific time, be ready!!!!

Mistake

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I always give about a half hour window to meet my Provider for a Session. You can't always predict meeting right down to the last 'Second.

It's not okay to come strolling in for an appointment at 10:15 when your appointment was at 10:00 without warning.  If you're going to be late, it's easy enough to pick up the phone.  That goes for both hobbyists and providers.  

People wasting my time is one of the most annoying things on earth, and I am doubly aware of when I might do it to others.  It's rude and really uncalled for.

She's HIS provider so it's OK.

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