At one time this was a community. A group of mature adults who enjoyed each others company and well as conversation. It wasn't constantly toxic with both hobbyist and providers throwing insults and low blows . Alias's popped up once in awhile but they weren't the norm used to hide behind and be negative . Men I imagine the reason a large amount of you hobby is to fullfill needs not met at home. I am just guessing you don't come to these boards to see nagging and negativity  but for sexy fantasies.  I personally think the temperment of the posts I see is dramatic and very unappealing to men.  
I am old school I think it would be very easy for both sides to be a little less negative.  
Am I wrong guys do you hobby for drama and negativity?  Or would you prefer to conversate and play without all of this silly crap?
Ladies how do you feel about the negative tone?  What do you all think could be done to not have so much silly drama that takes away from the caliber TER used to be?

I agree 100%. I miss our old friend High and Tight.  

I think some people lost focus on why TER was created. I steer away from all drama. I don't understand what's so hard about avoiding drama as adults, who's main objective is looking to enjoy some adult fun? Hell, bad reviews take that up with who wrote it, if it's a fake review take it to TER admins., don't like someone avoid them, it's not like you all actually have to see each other beside maybe at a Meet & Greet. I just think there's so many ways to avoid drama that some people just love being in it. I say lets go back to the good ol days!!! Just my.2 cents thought

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Life teaches not to be anxious for anything that is passionately desired. Be very careful in this regard, because the constant penetration of negative thoughts into the subconscious can result in very unpleasant consequences with the resultant effect of low productivity, loneliness and fear...............When a negative thought has been allowed to germinate & bring forth negative fruits, it will be extremely difficult to eliminate......Whatever we confess will eventually manifest & become a reality in our life. One of the most practical ways to handle negative thoughts is to avoid going to places where these negative thoughts are nurtured.............So go else where with the NEGATIVITY...... When I first came to this Site it was fun..........And now not sooooo fun anymore..... I think that we should visit places that can help us eliminate these inner impurities ...Sooooooo with all of that being said YES all of the NEGATIVITY should Cease we are Grown Adults ............There needs to be a Insults board for Small Minded People.............

Two posts in the last year including this, and no reviews for over 3 years. Perhaps if you would contribute then you would be in a better position to whine.  

Unfortunately, both guys and gals on here have done some really nasty things.  Things started to get crazy around here, if I remember correctly, at some time last summer, when a certain gentlemen made a post basically tooting his own horn and saying how most of the rest of hobbyists are a bunch of bums who have no hygiene.  This started a major trainwreck.  Since then, we've had one provider openly try to retaliate on here because she didn't like a review (it wasn't a bad review at all. At least I didn't think it was), and then we had one provider make several posts in which she openly boasted about blackmailing and extorting hobbyists along with stating that providers share personal information about clients with each other and that this is how she received personal info on a guy in which she was openly trying to extort.  Add all these things up, and you have a real toxic environment.  

Yes, the good old days.  There is too much drama on the boards as of late.  I think the majority of us (hobbyist & provider) are here because of the lack of silly drama.  
Other than trying harder to all get along with each other, my other idea is a great, big, fun party!!

No reviews for 3 years by choice. Trust my reputation is still as amazing as always.   I stepped away from this community because its been going downhill for at least that long . And actually it's 3 posts as well as a thank you to the Halloween party host so 4. I have set back since re-entering the forum and just watched all the train tracks why would I want to contribute to something like that? As an adult I don't come on here to get into a shit storm so why would I put my 2 cents in on everyone else's shit storms. I am certainly not whining I am just addressing an issue that has been brought to my attention by every client that I've seen since I've been back the negativity from both sides is just kind of nasty. obviously people like yourself seek out this negativity and thrive on it I on the other hand don't. And as you can see from many of the replies other people agree this would be a much better place and used to be a much better place if people would just act like grown ups.  
I thought this was about getting laid.. ..not reenacting high school  
Xoxo  

or will it be 5?  
Like I said, you have done nothing for the last year to improve the board and your second post (the OP) is a whiney one.  

Is it always the lower rated with weak menu gals whining here? Just curious.  

You sound like maybe you want to run for office...trying to reminisce about the "good old days".  Nothing wrong with any of that...it's what many like to do.

My dear I don't whine. I made an observation in an effort to see if there is any way of this being an enjoyable place to visit again.  
What do you suggest I post to make a positive contribution?
And I am having a ball making my return I have been welcomed back by so many men and women. For the record I have numeroud reviews waiting in the TER wings I just have to decide if I want to be a part of this community and put a website backup.
Due to the current nature and temperature of this community that takes some thought as I value my privacy.

Being "part of the community".

Well I must agree with Tabby,what she has said is true Ive been on this board for over 10 yrs Ive met a lot of good and bad from here. this board has gone down hill in the last few years. Most of you are new, we had monthly meet and greets every one knew each other, all in all we had a good time. Most have retired or have died off. I dont post like i used for the same reasons. So if you want to give me shit go ahead it all rolls down hill.

It certainly didn't just start last summer...I think you'd need to go back to 1999 and see how the posts back then were going as well.  Pretty much the same nonsense...just different handles.

Well thank you cell man! I know I'm an idealist I'm a lover Im a hippie a nurturer. At one time I was surrounded by a community who loved me for all of those things. Like other said I may be wishing for too much but I know by the responses out here that there are enough of us from the old school that we could change things or at least have parties together and avoid some of the silly crap!
   

I have found several outstanding providers from the semi-weekly reviews of Eros ads, as well as from the Friday provider favorites postings.   (Thanks Lamont Cranston)

It's nice to reminisce.  It makes us feel better.  We tend to only remember the better things that happened.

if I was looking for attention or just trying to create buzz I would have posted weeks ago when I came back. I have sat here and looked for something to put valuable input into and there just hasn't been much to offer. so I posted this post today to just see what's really going on because in my opinion there's not a whole lot going on here that's worth even being a part of. As always I post my ads occasionally but generally stay out of the mix. I apologize if I thought this was posing as valid question vs my dinner or what I did yesterday or if my toilet was broken

No need to apologize for your thoughts.

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if I was looking for attention or just trying to create buzz I would have posted weeks ago when I came back. I have sat here and looked for something to put valuable input into and there just hasn't been much to offer. so I posted this post today to just see what's really going on because in my opinion there's not a whole lot going on here that's worth even being a part of. As always I post my ads occasionally but generally stay out of the mix. I apologize if I thought this was posing as valid question vs my dinner or what I did yesterday or if my toilet was broken

You're welcome

I remember a same house on the end of the block that many of a great parties.I miss those parties Also the ones that DJ had !

I completely agree with you - it's a shame this place has become so toxic. Some of you already know my opinion of the tone of this board. It seems like every post going up turns into a pissing match. This isn't the GD board in case some of you have forgotten the difference.

You post an awful lot for someone who doesn't feel like posting here  LOL

I thought I was making a general comment. But evidently I must have dropped your 'name' in there somehow? My deepest apologies, my dear. But in the offchance I DIDN'T mention you directly, thanks for making my point. Especially in regards to the "whining" portion of my comment. If the shoe fits.........

I'M BAAAAAAAAACK!!!!! But with no website or ad. LOL.

At least there are no negative comments (yet) by providers.  The $hit slinging by providers always raises red flag about seeing one of them.

Somehow mysteriously disappears.

You are one of those piss in your Wheaties rain on my parade kinda hobbyists huh?!
Nothing to contribute but the negative shit that is the reason I made my post.  

we just keep feeding the trolls.

you are as Toxic as they come..

You've got some pals in that tiny circle of yours that are seriously toxic.

Thanks! But I gotta wait until tomorrow. And she's in the US top 40. But I'd love to know, how does a gal stay listed with no website or ad much less get any business? Always confused me. But then I'm stupid.  

It's hysterical to see an old fart of +70 write the nonsense that you do.

Here's the second OP after the initial intro from the TER staff.

And I even think I know some of the gals that suck it.

That's my girl, just like I know and love her

What's not to love about her?

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There are a lot of traumas out there that can cause someone to carry dark behavior into their other relationships ...  

Most of them are one liners and there was a 4-day period of self-imposed silence in protest of all the BS. You didn't know because I was silent but now my secret is out for all the world to see.

Easy enough for you to do that post count.

Obviously my stellar reputation speaks for itself.  I am still here havent posted an ad (outside of TER ) on any site in 7plus years. Haven't had an active website in almost 5. Miraculous that I survive. I am that normal not crazy I give great service and have a pleasent demeanor.  

That should count for something.

These guys are really worried they figure another new girl OMG !!!

at least a month.

I can pull up some of your alias posts as well...the ones where you are attacking people...remember?

OK, a couple of times but nowhere near your level of participation. Count all board posts Who, you have me beat by a mile. Work must be slow, lol.

Perhaps that eluded you?

Other than that, Jennifer is stunning.

Whew, what a relief!

One of your gal pals told me you need a Viagra IV just to get it up lol!      
       
                                                Nice handle change !

I suspected so...you've now affirmed it.

Yes of course biz is booming. That's EXACTLY why you are here aren't you? Your reviews DO make interesting reading...........thanks for the well wishes tongue in cheek or not.

Do you know how to type? And you hate evil trash talker aliases here? Well I hate uneducated asshat, WK aliases here. So have at it.

Funny !

You should hook up with the Doc or you two already an item ?  

All board posts count in the tally, the cesspool (sp?) board, this board, the ad boards. Count 'em up and lets see who posts more. This is one contest I'm not looking to win, lol.

There is a pretty easy way to rid the board of negativity (at least for yourself).  Do you see that Ignore button?  I have used it to ignore specific people who constantly post crude or otherwise distasteful comments.  I even had TER remove one particular provider that I felt is disrespectful to men (I guess there is no Ignore button for providers).

Just kidding.

My well wishes are sincere. Go ahead and subscribe to my reviews and grab some popcorn the best is yet to come
 Smooches and rainbows  
Tabitha

ending a post with a three Or four word zinger. Like standing over a fallen boxer tempting them to get up again, knowing you've got him beaten. Reminds me of a poem by the Country Parson:

Then I can see using all the TER posts.  But the OP was specific to this board.  Hence only the posts here count.

At least you own that you're into cock.  I'm also sure you don't go BBFS in the ass.  Good boy!

like DamianScott who trolls most every board. You should search his name on all the big boards. See if he ever has a useful kind thing to say about anyone using his alias. How about that, huh?

omen tell me your so lousy in bed they pay you to leave but that was one that saw you
 30 years ago.  Somethings just never change.

Useless crap like him should be flushed out of the gene pool.
         
            http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-COxzRtOEU

Do you really even like women tell the truth now.

If I wanted the drama I'd call my X. Play safe and leave the drama at home.

this has turned into the very thing she is talking about..completely predictable...

To let me know when you get a website up. That's rule one for me. Have a great weekend.

I hate the ignore button. Never used it. But you're close. As if you care.

You a WK? Always knew you were on the brink. Well done.

Finally someone gets it. Well played. xoxo

She's told you not to keep getting your feelings hurt. Quit being such a lightweight. You're never ceasing to amaze me. And yes, that was just for you!

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You should really grow a dick and blow yourself !

I think he likes BBFS with Men better not really sure why he is even here.
     He seems to have anger issues with women they turn him down all the time  lol !!!

All I can say is that I say is that Betsy and I met you at the end of the M & G, and you were simply lovely and nice.  And it was greatly appreciated, as we knew no one.   And we appreciated it!  Several ladies talked to us, and several did not - but those that did, like you, made us comfy and happy!
 
And when I started looking here I had this feeling of "Oh, this is like high school with frenemies and men calling women BSC and old whores.  I am gonna stay kinda quiet."  'Cause drama is not my bag.  
 
I am all for positive sexy posting!  Being a provider is a sexy escape.
 
I think what gets me the most though, is the casual cruelty sometimes, lol.  Or the most confusing - the posts from men about dissecting and trying to break down our business model.  I would think that it being a sexy escape should be for both parties - and this need constantly to make it something else is personally odd to me....
 
But to each their own, you know?
 
This is longer than I thought it would be, sorry!  I just wanted to say thanks for being a sweetheart to  us, and I will happily follow you to sexier posting!  

I agree 100% percent.

I have not posted anything to you nor have I engaged in any drama with you. Yet you seem to find the necessity of bringing my name into this post about respecting others. What you just posted says far more about you then it does about me. Those reviews are there when I didnt even know that ter existed or how to get such vial remarks removed from TER. I dont have to explain myself, I see plenty of gentlemen that respect me.

Posting behind me on yet another board. I'm flattered. Sorta. Glad,you and your buttbuddy here are still so excited about the drama! Thanks for playing!! And I thought you losers hated drama?? What gives??

You just can't get enough can you? Should I be skeered?

You have such a mancrush on me. You've really helped turn this into an absolutely marvelous train wreck. Everything you claim to desperately abhor. Allegedly. Well done. My work is done here. We've delevered with your help a gorgeous train wreck that Tabby's biz so desperately needs. If only she had a website,she could count the licks er clicks. Have a great weekend.

It is always funny when an outsider thinks he knows the local Chicago community better
then the people who live here. We have plenty of good Men & Women here in Chicago if you do  
not like her post grow a dick and blow yourself. Go back to the filth from which you came scumbag.

See......Everybody is happy now. Just don't get driftwood469 too riled up. You wouldn't want to destroy his fantasy.

Truth is you wear a wig while you do the deed FWIW Damien says you are good at it  lol !!!

Now tell the truth littlestinker....aren't you better known as buttstinker?  You know what I'm talking about  

Look in the mirror bean counter pretty scary lol !

I asked for names...how about it?

you mean when I caught the clap from your daughter ?
    I guess she gets around much more then I thought surprise I should not of been lol !

I meant that STD from a number of months back.  I also believe you reviewed that gal.

i hope i live long enough to piss in your dead mouth..

Yes that was indeed your daughter she loved the taste of her own chocolate after                                          I pulled out of her back door and shoved it down her greedy throat
I must of shot weeks worth of man goo in her what a champ perfect 10

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It's a special list...and you aren't on that list.  Sorry  

Did she use the stage name Dr. Who's daughter?

I would bang your daughter right on top of your casket lol !!!!

She loved it and begged like a dog for more so I gave her what she wanted I drained my sack.

That we simply regenerate.  Hence it'll have to be someone else's casket.

I have a sneaking suspicion you're actually jerking off to this.

Your little girl really loved my cock and balls bouncing off her chin a total cum slut.
  Just ask her she thought I was a stud I pounded her like a diesel piston lol !!!

LOL !!!!

Do you have dementia ? or do your bifocals have your boyfriends man seed on them.

Unreal the things I have read in this thread.  Some of you are truly disgusting deviants that need therapy. Others of you are the epitome of the reason I posted toxic as can be, gross, evil, uncalled for meanness!  To all of you those of you who had kind words about myself and who I am and my reputation I truly appreciate it!  
Most if not all of you that gave positive feedback can PM me on here or email me I see a party in our future I'm thinking shortly after New Years a reunion of sorts!  

You should be ashamed of yourself causing such negativity and discourse on your home board. Admittedly, I could not have done a better job at conducting a train wreck.

And won't you feel left out  LOL

u and Dr. Who and Damien should all have a threesome seeing how you are so much all
 alike  probably already have lol !!!  

I know why you can't  LOL

Ass clown  there are good people here and some like her help others for nothing  
but that is a concept that you can not understand.