I know I haven't hobbied much lately, so 2 weeks ago I decided to get back into it and see if I could find a nubian queen.  Well, I set up the session and today the provider emails me confirming our meeting.  She complains about having lots of cancellations due to the weather.  So she gets a place near O'hare and we are supposed to meet at 9 PM.  Well I drive all the way from Will  County for this meeting and she doesn't contact me until after I call her, email her and text her phone # which she gave me.  I wait for 40 minutes in the parking lot.  She says that she tried calling me but she lied because I have nothing in my caller history.  What a waste of 2 1/2 hours of my time.  Btw, her initials are JD and is a local provider.

sucks to hear man always make sure to leave a review on how she ncns and ensure going further do your research.....

Homie2989

I did do my research and she is a well reviewed girl.  She has over 80 reviews.  If anyone wants to know who it is, just PM me and I'll tell you who it is.  If she is reading this, as a provider you know you hate NCNS.  Knowing this, don't do it to your clients.

on someone you've never met.

I've been  there - it happens!

I fell for the stupid line that she was from out of town and got lost trying to get back to the hotel at which she was staying.  Wasted nearly three hours of my time (an hour to get to her place, waiting for her as she said she was on her way, calling her to learn her status and being told it wasn't going to happen, and then the hour drive home).  The Board wanted me to out her, but I like a stupid jackass gave her the benefit of the doubt.  Never again.

I drove 500 miles to see a lady and attend a sporting event.  Well about 1hr b4 our meeting the lady called and asked to make our date later in the day. I told her I had a meating set up and could not see her when she wanted.  She started getting whinny.  Well I've been down that road, seeing a lady when she didn't want to.  It sucked.  (she didn't)  So I told her to forget it.  Then to make the day even better, the sporting event got rained out.  So 500 miles home.  I can laugh about it now, but it is the worst deal I ever had.

So long as we are talking about bad experiences - and do not ask me for this woman's name.  I had a post for a cougar.  She writes me and says she is one, and will be visiting downtown Chicago.
I take a look at her ads, reviews, but say she is way above my paygrade.  She writes back and makes a counter offer  (remember, I did not ask for one).  OK, then she comes to Chicago, writes me and says she has had two no shows, and wants a deposit up front.  So I send her the full fee, plus extra for special effects.  Since she likes to meet in the hotel lobby I also send her a pic so she can recognize me.
She comes down, we meet, have a drink (I pick up the tab) and after a good hour I say lets go, and she says NO.  I say what - did I say something wrong, did I insult her?  No, it is just that she has limited time and doesn't want to date overweight old guys.  
Now remember, I sent her a pic, described myself as a fat old man, all this upfront.  Now she tells me?  She gives me half the money I put on deposit, and said she will send me the rest.  Well she did do that - not including of course, the extra for special effects or the cost of the drink.
So I am not mentioning her name.  I will not give her name.  BUT if other PROVIDERS - NOT HOBBYISTS - think I should, then I will think about it.
I have had requests for her name thru PM.  I will NOT GIVE HER NAME unless five or more providers think I should.  This is a provider issue.  If a provider wants to deny seeing a client for any reason, I think the provider should be allowed that right.  After all, there are providers who say they will not see anyone under 30 or anyone over 60.  Need I say more?

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