Saw this ad and found it funny. It says "RESPECTFUL CAUCASIAN GENTLEMEN AGE 30-50 ONLY"

I find it amusing how any one can be a "gentleman" if he panders to racial and age discrimination.

Also how can a "respectful" person tolerate disrepect for other races and age.

Have you ever tried a lady with racial preferences? I never have and never will.

Maybe she had some bad experiences with young guys and she's not into old guys, that would leave me out. As far as caucasian only, while I don't agree with her she may have had a bad experience or can't take the stereo-type images of huge members guys outside her race may have.

I'm thinking of all the great guys I have met who do not fit her age or other requirement!
I learned my lesson about age restriction:  I wouldn't see anyone under 35.  Then a medical student wrote me a long email about how I had hurt his feelings by refusing to see him.  He said was mature enough to become a doctor in a short time, he didn't care that I was older than him, he thought I was hot and he had wanted to see me!  
That woke me up.  Now I listen carefully for respect and apprecaiton...hey, 18-80, I am an equal opportunity employer!!  

As far as race (I hate that term...it's called the human race!)...skin color is a better term:  THAT is just stupidity.  

Good thread, thanks for sharing.
xoC
I miss you Chicago!!

is not the expression of their racial biases, but when you see something like

NO AFRICAN AMERICANS!!!


Capped with exclamation points.  I give them the virtual finger and move on.

every provider out there has the right to choose who she wants to see and who she doesnt want to see..if you do not like it..move on..i am sure she can live without you..

Everyone has there limits, but it's hard not to get offended when you see something like that advertised Being young 31 and African American I get it on both ends lol

Obviously all people have rights, filters, biases, etc.  No one here is opining on how our lives aren't complete without those who don't want us. Regardless of your opinion, those that have been at the receiving end of the spectrum from things we have no control over, I would be remiss if I didn't find it somewhat annoying, even if I don't lose sleep over it.

As an AA woman being asked by an AA man if I see black men?? WTH?!?! My response was Hell I'm black!!! I was confused but obviously some providers will discriminate against her own race which is down right sad!

Just like OPD said, I don't lose sleep over it. I was amused at the contradictions in her ad. She wants clients that are respectful and gentlemanly about her racism ....LOL

And while were at it, you don't get to tell me how I run my business, and if you have a problem with it, I'll be fine.

Helps separate the wheat from the chaff....Sometimes a few words in an ad can tell you more about a provider than all the reviews in TER land....

Although I find myself guilty of this too, because one of my provider disqualifications is "Under 30"....No offense to the young ones.... we just have little in common and they make me feel pedofilic.....

Different people approach things... differently. I don't like any kind of prejudice based on superficial crap. But some women are fine with whatever in this business, and others only want to see someone they would potentially be attracted to. Outside of this business, I know all kinds of people who prefer to date within their race, or within a certain age group. I can relate to the frustration of seeing ads like this, because I usually prefer women older than me (both in and out of this business). But it's fairly common for the providers I'm most likely to want to see to have age limits that exclude me. One provider in particular who I've wanted to see for something like 6 years now won't see anyone under 40, which definitely excludes me. I've considered e-mailing her anyway LOL.

Anyway, I wouldn't say that I "hate" those kinds of ads or get angry if someone has restrictions like those, as I think we all have the right to choose who we will or won't share intimate time with, but I can understand why they would annoy someone.

I agree with that. Once a lady realized I was not caucasian from my accent and when she knew my race she said she could not see me as guys of my race are dirty. For a few minutes it sucked then I was happy to save my money.

True EchoGoddess. Looking at it from a different angle, escorts are very discriminated against by society at large. If people knew a lady is an escort they would not be offered jobs in the corporate world and some even would try to take their children away claiming they are unfit mothers.

Facing that kind of discrimination, I am surprised to see racism coming from escorts.

Yup....she is narrowing her choices. And thank you for the great post.

Life has so much variety to offer why the heck would one restrict it to the narrow path.

Nobody is telling anybody how to run their business. Just pointing out how a business is being run so that all can make a choice if the business is worth patronizing.

Maybe it is not racism. Maybe she is only attract to white guys. This is intimate business and you are not have good time if you see her.

Maybe it is racism. But you are better off to have that information since you can avoid to see her.

Re: For a few minutes it sucked then I was happy to save my money.

Hi AT,

That's my point of view, as well!! I rode the train from the suburbs to the city a few years ago, to see a well reviewed, out-of-towner!! I knocked  & she opened the door! The session was not going to commence because of my situation! So, I know that there is discrimination out there!  I learned to save time by describing myself during the initial contact! I have not had a problem, since!! There are many ladies out there who don't care If you're White, black, asian, polk a-dotted,  or disabled,so long as your money is green! Hobby well, my friend!!

Posted By: asiantantric

I agree with that. Once a lady realized I was not caucasian from my accent and when she knew my race she said she could not see me as guys of my race are dirty. For a few minutes it sucked then I was happy to save my money.

I guess I look at it this way "Do I want to be with a provider who clearly does not want to be with me?"

At least they clear this up before any one wastes any time.

There's enough ladies who will be with us "older" guys, the younger guys and the black guys.

No use to spend ant effort worrying about it or being angry.

Bless these ladies for the happiness they bring!

Peace and love to all!

The "Klown"

Posted it first here and then on the GD board. And wow what a difference. Here you have more polite and rational responses with people using their handle and there you get a lot of rude responses with aliases.

I don't see any problem with a provider specifying who she wants to see or doesn't want to see.  I think it is about who you are attracted appearance and age wise, and who you think you will enjoy your session most with.  

I completely respect their decision and when I read in a providers website that she has certain criteria and I don't meet than, I don't feel offended at all.  I may be a little bummed, but definitely not offended.

If you are attracted to her - call and ask if she would mind other races as long as you are still a gentleman.  That is probally the more important thing.  Of course this is only if you are interested in her still.

If wanted to be with someone who clearly does not want to be with us, we'd stay home with our wives!

Here's another one for your consideration:


Link ot the ad:  Click here: Da BP ad

I think everyone has their preference, as a provider we encounter many situations & maybe this person advertising may have had "Issues" that she chooses to only cater to a certain " Race" .... I for one do not like to deal with young clientele (early 20's) due to past experiences of unprofessionalism... But different strokes for different folks...

I see it all the time. I usually say "f*** you!" And keep it moving.

I have no problem with ladies restricting their clients.  They do not run a public restaurant.
But I had one instance when I met a woman, talked for an hour, and then she said no.  Mind you, I had already paid her via green dot (she did eventually refund me the money), what she said was: I don't go with old, out-of-shape men.
I am still pissed at this, as you can tell.  See my other post under my name. Any comments on this. I will not give her name. No way.  Still seeking provider comments.

That is a shitty experience to go through. But what is the point of not giving her name. Unless we have the name there is no way to prevent wasting our time. In a sense you will be helping the lady in question not waste her time too.

I wish all the Providers turn me down... I will be a rich man.....  Or at least have a lot more money in my banking account than now........

Typical if the shoe fits scenario....


I wish I could find a bunch of ads saying:

No Caucasians
No Whites
No Crackers

I've been black most of my life, (there was that one weekend>>>), and when I was young dumber and full of cum, I was after ever chick out there without sucess. Got turned down a lot.  Now I'm almost 60, single, and quite sucessful, and often drop a grand to see real pornstars, with rates in the 1000-2000 range.  Why?  I like there professionalism, there looks,there services they provide,  never once had one turn me down because I was black or age.  Now, if you don't want to see me because of the color my skin, great, love that you're willing to tell me.  I don't want any one spitting in my coffee and serving me, I'll just move on.  But, god you're missing out on a lot of guys just like me, that were raised properly, and certainly the kind of client that your really searching for.  

It is certainly your loss, and I hope you think of me when you can't make the rent payment.