I had set up a multiple hour appointment with someone I'd always wanted to meet.  I did all my due diligence, read reviews, looked at her pics, everything.  The moment finally arrived, and boom, was I surprised.  The lady standing at my door, was her, but maybe 20 years ago.  In front of me was a much older lady, around 5o I'd guess, probably at least 30 lbs. heavier. As I went thru with appointment, I also found out a couple of other things.  A million tata's and she was a little more urban that I would have like.  1k blown, and then I had a tough time getting her to, leave.  Then to and icing to the cake, less than an hour later, I get an email from another provider I seen some time earlier, asking for a 1000 dollar loan for her sister so she could get a, (and I'm not kidding here), a kidney transplant.  I'm thinking, really, she charges, 500 an hour, and she needs 1000 from me???  

I said no, going to bed vowing to never see either of them feeling like a smuck, and wondering why, providers out and out lie to us, and why reviewers also do the same thing.

And you "wonder why" they continue doing this?

Seems that the "loan for my sister's kidney operation" is circulating around as well.  

If you'd prefer to use PM to let the guys know who these gal(s) are...I'd like to hear.

I'm sorry about your experience.  At one time, perhaps reviews were consistently reliable, but now they've become so skewed that I just don't bother attempting to write them anymore.  

I first realized reviews were often unreliable just over two years ago when I saw a provider who was somewhat well reviewed.  The reviews indicated that her pictures were real and the reviewers all had a history of multiple reviews, so I thought they were telling the truth.  Well, it turns out that the pics were bogus and the gal was much less attractive than the gal in the pics.  If this was someone off an escort mall site that I didn't do any research on, that would be more understandable, but I DID do the research and the I still got scammed....mainly because the guys who reviewed her were full of shit. I wasted $700 that day....and I'm still pissed about it.  

I also don't like using numbers to rate my experience with an escort. It's a very subjective experience, and one in which I don't find numbers very useful. And then of course, if one writes a review that the escort does not like, it's very possible that one may face backlash from her.  

So, for me, and I'm just speaking for me, these problematic aspects of reviews don't make them worth writing.

People pay too much money for that, and people want enough different things for that nonsense to be necessary.  

I worked hard for every one of my reviews. The only retouching done in my photos was to remove tattoos, which meant a lot of them weren't retouched at all. I always said "please be honest, because I don't want anyone to ever come and not get what they are looking for" when asked because I know that THAT is where the bad reviews come from, and that is where bad back channeling happens. I think most of us honestly try our best and operate more or less the same; in hopes that even if we aren't for everybody, we find the few who we are.  For the women like that, and for myself, it is really frustrating to hear of a lady not matching her pics, or to see first hand that she is ripping people off.  

So yeah. Don't treat the situation like you bought a defective tv, but bring it up. Guys don't deserve that, and ladies don't know (being lenient here) what to change unless they're made aware.  

As far as the sisters kidney transplant... Ehhhh... Who knows. Trying to decipher peoples personal lives and reasonings is kind of like figuring out if god exists, if you ask me. You know, the old "would you rather and he do or rather and he not" scenario...

it is not what I am in this for.... if the gentleman feels like they would like to review me then they can. When I was in the DC/VA area almost a yr ago (OMG can't believe it was that long ago... LOL) I think I only had one review from what I remember.... then here in the Chicago area I had the rest.... if a gentleman wants to see you or any other provider he or she needs to do their homework just like we do.  
I am so sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately there are a lot of bad apples out there on both ends. Good luck in the future though. Don't give up and have fun and stay safe!

Love
Zana

Everyone has their personal guidelines/limits about disposable hobby income, but a $1k multi-hour first visit just seems to tempt fate for disappointment regardless of reviews.  I'm sure it wouldn't sting as much if the donation and time had been cut in half.  You could have always extended or re-visited if it turned out great.

The kidney transplant email just seems bizarre.  If this is someone you had grown close with personally, a blunt email with that request seems crass and impersonal, and if its just a provider you'd seen once or twice, I can't imagine she seriously expects responses to that.

ook his kindness and desire to meet and used it to her benefit the witch.  
An opportunist who makes no money so decided to go for the throat when it
came and took advantage of the situation. Sad for her she won't have any future
meets.  

I do feel strongly though front, you should review this .Many fear doing so afraid
of being outed to family out of revenge. And yes $1000 is far out for a transplant
if that is all it costs every person who needs one would have one. If that were
even true she would have said something like the procedure costs $100k and we are raising funds  
towards it. People who tell stories like this do wind up ill later on wishing they hadn't lied.

Look, we all know the reviewing process is inaccurate, but it does help in letting you know if the provider is safe and is somewhat close to her reviewed info like looks, performance, etc. It is not a constitution and was never meant to be anything more than another tool to help hobbyists ferret out the better from the worse. providers. It is a flawed system, but would any of us prefer there not be a somewhat accurate site like TER? Even with its flaws, it is a great tool if you don't think what your are reading and seeing is verbatim. They are simply skewed towards maximizing the providers positives and minimizing their negatives. This is salesmanship, nothing else.

The email about a kidney transplant is a scam.  Her email got hacked!  I can't believe that in 2014 some people are still so gullible.  You truly make a bunch of idiots (the hackers) appear clever.

If that's what a person likes. There are ways to research for a multi hour, you just have to know where to look and who to ask.

you may get a more accurate representation.  Also look at the reviewer's history.  If he gives out 9's like candy on Halloween, don't rely on it for your decision.

Good point. Agreed.

I say start with a 1hr and then commit to more or not. Also searching the reviews of multiple hours. Good luck in the future

I had a feeling that provider was sending that same e-mail to a bunch of people. I couldn't believe it, and I also found it completely unprofessional. Truth be told, I had her on my radar, but hadn't pulled the trigger. Now I never will. She scares me now.

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Some people are simply clueless.

Next time walk away.

Schlemiel

Zei Gezunt