Recently, I had the pleasure of visiting a real Geisha in Kyoto. Quite an amazing experience: she brought me to an unusual and intense climax by focusing entirely on my nipples. I do have sensitive nipples but I didn't know that I could orgasm that way. Two more orgasms later, I left with a big smile, a 30,000 yen (or $3K) hole in my pocket and a couple of puzzling questions.

First: Even the best providers that I've met seemed to have little clue about the male nipple. The better ones will attend to the nipples a bit, but assume that a man's pleasure is much further down. The ordinary ones will ignore the nipples altogether. One provider I saw a few years back said - a sentiment shared by my SO as well - that a man wanting his nipples licked is too sissy-ish!  

[By the way: As babies, both boys and girls are born with the same density of nerves in their nipples; during puberty, women's nipples expand, but men's don't, so there is a some medical evidence that men's nipples have higher nerve density and potentially more sensitive than women's.].

Ladies & gents: thoughts or experiences?

Two: Although my Geisha was expensive - and this is Japan where everything is expensive - I felt I was paying a trained professional. Not just for her time and pretty face, but also for her training costs and the effort she has put in for honing her skills. So, my question is: what determines a good provider here and her donation? Ladies: what % of the donation you charge is really related to skills that you have invested in and honed over the years?  

If the whole trade was completely open and legal - as it's in Kyoto - I wonder what new bars will be set for both service and cost.  

Just starting a discussion, not an argument

I have a lot of clients, both vanilla and kinky, who respond to nipple play.  I love doing it.  Teasing, licking, using different sensation toys, the list goes on!  I've also noticed that the more aroused men become, the more i can "get away with" in terms of sensation play.  I'm not talking pain; I'm talking longer, more sustained, more unrelenting sensation that's pleasurable. Erogenous zones are everywhere on the body, and wanting your nipples played with, as a man, does not make you a sissy.  that's preposterous.  

I find that men's nipples are almost always more sensitive than women's, and I'm sure that it's due to nerve spread.  It offers a lot of options for light touch and sensation play.  It's really a joy for me to see how my clients react when I start playing with their nipples more intensely for the first time.  A lot of them don't realize the wealth of sensation that can be felt there.  

As far as my donation, my donation is a reflection first and foremost of what I bring to the table.  I have years of bdsm/fetish training, and that isn't something that's easy to come by. I have skills that others don't have, and I've acquired these skills through various forms of education that costed me both time and money.   My rates are also determined by the market, as well.  I don't think i can quantify percentage-wise what portions of my rates are related to what aspects of me as a provider, though.  That's a lot of dissection.  

I think that if the trade were legalized, there would be a lot more options for providers to learn skills such as that; but truth be told, in a town like Chicago, continuing education isn't hard if one knows where to look.

I work from the top down and the bottom up - ears, neck, mouth of course not much beats kissing, nipples (very underrated I agree but many men have sensitive ones) working down to groin area, balls, inside thigh and legs, bottom and back and I try to hold off tackling the tackle until client is well worked up!! Maybe us older, experienced girls should,offer lessons to the young uns?

Maybe you should!  

But then, I don't think the younger ones would care (they have their youthful looks).  
 

30,000 JPY = 300USD

Sorry but you spent $300 not $3000