I'm curious how others feel. The past 5 years or so I have noticed that providers seem to be dressing down. Meaning, jeans, sweatshirts, casual clothes, etc. Gone seem to be the days of "dress to impress". I miss ladies in clothes that will seduce and excite a man. Never see a provider in a skirt or dress and heels. Am I looking in the wrong places or has the expectation with todays clients changed?
For incalls, I'm usually met by a woman wearing either lingerie or a nice little cocktail dress. For an outcall, they usually 'dress down' in more appropriate casual wear. Of course, my outcalls are during the day on a weekday. It's probably not wise for them to glam up on a Tuesday at 11am! Especially since hotels are like ghost towns these days.
Took the words right out of my mouth.
I haven’t step foot into a hotel this year cause I know it’s a ghost town with everyone focusing on the small traffic. I use to wear heels to outcalls but I would be too nervous to wear anything that makes sound now lol
I do private incalls
You could always request that!
I’ve had experiences ranging from heels and a nice cocktail dress to ripped jeans and a top.
In their own way both were exciting. Usually the cocktail dress is peeled off to reveal a beautiful nude body or skimpy thong and perky nipples. The jeans and a top were even more fun - she informed me she only had two pieces of clothing on - yep! She was commando except for the butt plug I felt when I played with her back pockets - it was hard to not strip her in the hotel lobby.
I believe it comes down to appreciating the woman’s choices because I’ve found they dress to turn the guy on and that’s what matters to me. Same thing goes for shaven bare pussy vs landing strip - whatever she enjoys most because either elect there is a pussy down there. Just so it isn’t a hairy jungle!
Completely agree with you. I must admit I do like it when a lady wears some sexy little something underneath.
On several occasions I have had a lady come in dressed casual only to strip down revealing a sexy bra and panty combination.
Regardless, the best type of dress is the Birthday Suit.
Everybody is requesting casual 
I miss the dresses & high stiletto days!
They will return, but I also don't understand the change. I was thinking of switching up my website a bit to say I only dress up... the problem is, you stand out significantly when dressed up nowadays during COVID times.
Evening Dates: I dress up leather skirt, sexy top, thigh high boots
Daydates: usually short shorts cute top with heels. Sometimes a sundress.
I like to be discrete as possible walking thru hotel lobby so I dress for the time of day and I try my hardest to dress with some sex appeal for my date.
I highly recommending requesting the girl to arrive at date in whatever you desire.
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I have always liked the classy "office-look". Not exactly the super sexy secretary-type...but the simple pastel or light colored blouse and knee length skirt (or dress) with classy heels..... Think sort of a "Kate Middleton" look.....
I understand the need for discretion and not drawing attention and all that but damn... If I'm ever in the same city as this hot blonde and she's wearing a leather skirt and thigh high boots, I'm all in. There's nothing like a hot blonde in leather!
Where I’m meeting the client/couple first. Such as at a hotel, I dress business professional. Sexy and curve fitting, of course. It’s vert challenging to hide 33HH tits so needed be discreet....that’s the best way really. I love when I can surprise my dates in sexy lingerie and highest heels. Really love when I’m
Able to dress skimpy or nude under a long coat.
I was in Chicago a while and damn... it was to cold
To
Even leave my place. 😭. I’m
A Cali girl
And yes I
Was literally stuck in and wore jackets and wool
Socks inside. Haha
I cant lie, i like providers to dress very provocatively. Maybe provocative isnt the right word; I prefer an almost slutty/stripper look. Platform heels, thigh highs, its all about a real “durty” fantasy. Thank you providers for all you willing to accommodate.
A beautiful naked woman laying on her back with her legs pointed at the ceiling with a pair of shiny high heeled pumps is a very erotic view for me. I love it when I'm greeted by a woman who has a short tight skirt, slutty blouse and high heels. In fact, I make this request whenever I schedule a date. Some dates really make it work.
Even answering the door now in lingerie or nude has been trouble for many ladies since Covid. Remember everyone is stuck at home now so apt that everyone can see is being watched now. I see complaints in parent forums etc. "Oh I think we have an escort in the complex" I never noticed before because I was always at work but now I am stuck at home and see 10 men a day in and out and she answers the door in a nightie. 🤦 Ladies be careful of your incall or your neighbors will call the cops on you. Covid has changed things. Stay safe.
Great info. / observations for all. Thanks.
Personally, I have an attire request section as part of the booking process for this reason. Everyone wants something different: full glam, "slutty" attire, girl next door, etc. However, it's important to recognize that the location, especially now, can also impact how we dress. It's that little word people love to toss around: discretion.
I totally believe that the visual can enhance the experience and the senses. While my favorite, especially now that it's fall is plaid or short skirts with cute thigh high boots or a dress with heels. There is a way to keep it sophisticated and sexy. However, if I reflect on my most popular requests, it's actually casual or athleisure especially for shorter engagements. Dressing up is a bit easier if the engagement is longer like drinks or dinner and you have to fit the part.
If a gentleman is requesting my presence for outcall during the day, typically they've asked me to dress down as to not raise suspicion. I usually bring a tote bag/purse with me to carry my lingerie and heels to change into. However, if you're wanting to see a lady dress up for you this may always be requested!
dressed in lingerie and heels if a gent is coming to me.
The only time I do not is if he specifically asks me to wear casual attire
Just saw a gent yesterday for an appt I showed up to his hotel wearing a skirt and heels.
I guess it depends on the lady and the gent's preference(if he has one)
Jaydalee
And I always change to something playful as I arrive.
I don't mind if a provider is dressing down or dressing up, as long as she is wearing something sexy underneath. I definitely prefer ladies that strip down or change into something skimpy and sexy, like a matching lacy bra and thong set.
I have found that the younger girls in their early 20s seem to be much more casual, even before the pandemic. Some of them have show up in jeans or leggings and sneakers, which is fine, but then sometimes they do not even bother to wear a matching lingerie set...they have one color of this and another color of that, as if they are dressing for comfort only and not for play. This is not the GFE I had in mind. LOL.
Is it too much to ask ahead of time that a provider wear a matching sexy lingerie set?? Obviously they have young beautiful bodies so why not show it off a bit. Older providers seem to get this right without us having to ask, so thank you!!! 
I always dress up when hired to the events such as weddings, banquets, birthday parties, and for the swingers dates.
Keep it simple sexy. I'm not one for elaborate outfits like corsets, stockings with garter belts etc. I like simple and sexy like just a tank top and panties, men's dress shirt and panties, t-shirt dress, form fitting cocktail dress. Just enough to tease. Not so hard to remove.
For incall I would always request stockings and heels, as those really are a personal favorite of mine, and they are two items that just about every woman in the world has. If they add to that then that was always an added treat. If that is all they wore, then it was added eroticism.
I dress as requested for dinner dates and cocktail dates. If I am having to walk into a hotel, then I dress casual and change into the requested outfit once I'm in the room.
