Guys-- after a DATY session, does your provider often say "WOW, you're really good at that" ??

Ladies-- do you often say it in order to boost a guy's ego...whether it was good or not??

I realize that this is a mindless topic, but I need a distraction this afternoon.  I'm also a little curious if I'm good or just getting smoke blown up my hooha!!

The guy will def know as I will get pretty wet and loud

Yes, I get that, but I tend to go more by the feedback I get while I'm in action.  While it's nice to stroke egos after the fact, it's even better if she provide either implicit or explicit feedback during the act, even a constructive suggestion on what to do differently. That's the hottest thing of all if she trusts you enough to do that.

If he's really good sometimes I'll tell him. If not so much I won't lie just to stroke ego.

If it's great, then yes I I let them know. However, every partner is different in regards to what they like so I tend to kindly give directions in regards to what pleases me. If something isn't working, I'll guide the person to where they need to go. The other thing is to check in with your partner. There is a way to do it that doesn't kill the mood.  

LJ, xx

again and again and again.

If I enjoy a good DATY session they will already know. I may sometimes tell them while they are doing it.  

I think the best DATY session I had with a gentlemen, I thought to myself, " DAMN, you eat pussy like a lesbian!" unfortunately, I didn't say that, because he probably would have liked to know.  

I know that some providers feel it necessary to fake Os and to give fake compliments, but I don't. I try to find something that I am attracted to in each and every gentleman that I spend time with, but I don't like being fake - it's just not me. So, if you've ever received a compliment from me, or made me O- know that it was very much real.

I kinda side with the bebedoll on this ONE. I do like knowing I'm pleasing her, but it's not necessary to tell me......unless she's telling me in celebration of her enjoyment. Like Jaime says it's kinda inauthentic to be fake even if my lover is not as experienced.

I'm less interested in how she's taught herself to ACT, but more interested in how she REACTS with this feeling I've given her. The good ones wanna given me that same feeling in return just as intense as I've given to her.

Don't get me know though I do get a whole lot of pleasure when her body responds to what I'm doing and it's fitting she then makes the fitted sheet unfit.

Maybe you should come up with some criteria in the form of a multiple choice test to give each escort after you have licked their who-ha!!!

1. Knowlage of female anatomy.
2. Vigor.
3. How many times did you you make her cummmmmmmmm?
4. Whats the proof?
5. How much juice is on yo eyebrows?
6. Did you stick your booty up while your face was in her puss?

If you did not drown to death you are NOT GOOD ENOUGH...at DATYYYYYYY.

P.S. Every time I get my nails done the lady tells me "You picked a good color & your nails look beautiful!!!" **EVERY TIME Once a month for 4years** maybe she likes every color, maybe I have excellent taste, maybe she is lying. Let's be real take the complement move on, then ask someone that you are not paying although those ones blow smoke too...

On second thought:  
A long term solution would be to work on your and all your fellow hobbyist's self-esteems, fragile egos and toxic masculine traits. Then we could all be honest because we would not be afraid of lost business or other repercussions! We could be free. Providers could act as therapists, teachers and friends sessions could be fun for those who already got it..

XOXOXOX
peace, love & balance,
Harpy Anna

If someone isn't good I tell them what I enjoy and direct them to my orgasm, so I rarely have a bad daty experience. Never met a man who wasn't eager to learn how to please me in that area.

... was, "I should pay *you*!"

 
The lady and I knew each other well enough by then that I knew she wasn't faking.    (Or planning to pay me!)

 
Other than that, sometimes I do get complimented.  Usually when that happens my provider has been responsive enough I'm perfectly willing and able to believe her.

 
And if I ever think about shaving my beard or mustache ... (drifting into another mindless topic) .... I need only remember the gentle reminders wafting to my nostrils in the hours after my last DATY session, and such foolish thoughts go away.