From what I hear, NCNS is very common with her. She obviously does not care about her reputation or respect hobbyist's time. Hope prospective clients see this thread and book with someone that is not a flake.
Similar thing happened to me earlier this year with her. I made sure to contact her the day before to confirm our appointment and also told her I'd call her the next day before heading to her incall, because she still needed to give me the specifics of where it was at. So I called that morning and got no response. Since I needed to drive in from the suburbs and knowing the Kennedy traffic is unpredictable, I gave myself an hour head start and began to drive there -figuring she'd call while I was on the way. That call never came. I finally get to her general area, still hopeful that she'll call. Nope. I then manage find street parking and I am just about to start pumping about 50 quarters into the meter when all of a sudden a text message comes in from her that says she needs to cancel. This is 20 minutes before the appointment time. I was pissed. If she would've only texted or called sooner, I could have avoided the drive in, but at least I didn't waste money parking. Just time and gas. I didn't respond to her text right then, I headed back home and waited for a cooler head to prevail. I then sent her a message and, although I wasn't rude about it, I let her know that I was disappointed. She did respond, giving an excuse and offered that I could meet up with her later that day if I wanted. But I declined. So, I crossed her name off my list of gals I want to see and moved on to the next one. Reflecting on it now I shrug my shoulders and say to myself "there's plenty more where she came from". Anyway, that's my experience (or lack of) with A.D.
After May 1 she will have a limited schedule as she prepares for graduation and a move to the West Coast. She has other things on her mind and other priorities. She may or may not work in the profession once she moves. She may be debt free. I had a niece who danced as a stripper when she needed extra cash, picking up $1500 on a Friday-Saturday night. She only stripped when she needed extra money. Maybe she only works as needed. Yes, that is no excuse for being flaky.
Simply said, TER needs to reconsider its policy in this matter. Potential clients —including paying TER subscribers— should not be deprived of information regarding unreliable providers.
In order to keep safety the priority it must be, the ability to listen to one's intuition and back out of an encounter at any point is a necessary option for BOTH parties. How many times have the gentlemen posters on this board related situations where they found themselves in a situation that just sent their gut twitching, and they knew sticking around was playing with fire?
Forcing ladies into catch 22's where their intuition may be trumped by the fear of a bad review only adds unnecessary danger to an already risk laden experience. TER is about lessening risk, not adding to it. You boys already have a place to out the chronic problem children, as you are clearly doing here. If a gentleman cannot do a quick board search on his lady of interest, why should he be coddled and catered to any more than the gentleman you guys chide for not reading the reviews at all?
Posted By: PhilAnderz
Simply said, TER needs to reconsider its policy in this matter. Potential clients —including paying TER subscribers— should not be deprived of information regarding unreliable providers.
Reviews for NCNS have never been available on TER, and there is good reason for that. The main reason would be fake vindictive reviews being posted by hobbyists who have an axe to grind with a certain provider. Like Eve said...do a discussion board search for any provider that you haven't seen before. Go to her home board and search back 1000 days, if she clears that hurdle, you should be good to go. You can also go to the "reviewers only" board and ask about a specific provider. That is supposed to be the main purpose of that board. There is no need whatsoever for a review option with all of that information available already.
Great way to end up on a blacklist. Gut twitching, nerves, fear, makes no difference, most providers will blacklist for backing out at the last second. It's OK for the provider to back out at the last minute though, she's just being safe. Sure.
Posted By: EveAlexander
In order to keep safety the priority it must be, the ability to listen to one's intuition and back out of an encounter at any point is a necessary option for BOTH parties. How many times have the gentlemen posters on this board related situations where they found themselves in a situation that just sent their gut twitching, and they knew sticking around was playing with fire?
If she CALLS to back out, then it's not a NO CALL no show...it's a cancellation. NCNSs should be in an alert forum, not the review system. You guys have a private board, right? Well, that's the very same venue we have to share our issues.
At that rate, she probably has guys lining up, so if she blows off a few, she can easily make that money up the next day. If she were struggling to get business at double that rate, you can bet your ass she would show up or go hungry.
There's really no excuse for a NCNS by either party. Guys have to sometimes make elaborate excuses, drive out of their way (ok, for something worthwhile, to be sure), and schedule these things in advance. If a woman doesn't call or cancel, it's a real hassle. Same goes for guys who don't show. That's just taking $ away from a business person. Your dentist will charge you if you don't cancel within 24 hrs.
Common courtesy requires both parties to at least TRY to contact each other. And sometimes shit happens. But if shit happens multiple times to the same person, then something is fishy. Sy
This is the proper forum for reporting NCNS. Not all of us have access to the private guy's board so we have no way of knowing who pulls this shit. He did the right thing and looking around, it seems she's done this before so there's a definite pattern.
Let's say a guy arrives at your incall and just as you give him permission to come in, he tells you he's cancelling and leaving. Looking through your extensive reviews, you seem to spend a good amount of time preparing for your dates so how would you like it if a guy cancelled on you at the last second? You have a private board to go bitch on, I don't.
At least apologize. She can sent an email and say sorry. Even make an excuse to say I am sick or something.
NCNS is really stupid. I am pretty sure she is just slept slept through the alarm because OP made a early morning date. she is in NYC now touring with Midwest Maple and charging $$$$.
Friend swifty, it is your fault to find yourself in this situation. If you are do research you can be avoid this NCNS. There are other posts on this board about this provider's NCNS habit.
But I am give you big THANKS for outing her. After NCNS the provider still got your private info from your reference but you are not know anything about her. So it is take balls to out a bad seed like Abigail. Cheers.
Putting it here is just fine, because there is no way to review a ncns. And yes, I meant your boys locker room is also a place to report such things. Want some crawfish? Heh...
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