I'll get back to you in a month :/

It's like pulling teeth with some girls when trying to communicate for references or request their presence for a duo.
I do have a question...
Men: how important is prompt communication?
Ladies: do you have a fancy phone that gets your emails right away? If so, what takes you so long to respond?

Of course some ladies are very good at the administrative tasks of their business...thank you!

As everyone's situation differs...

* some ladies attend school fulltime and work part time
* some ladies have children
* some ladies do not use smart phones
* some ladies have other fulltime jobs
* the lady may be on vaction or touring

The bottom line,  wait the amount of time you are comfortable with and then move on if you are looking to book an appointment.

For references, allow plenty of time.  Requesting a last minute appointment late at night and relying on references seldom works.  The other lady may be doing something frivolous, like sleeping or caring for their children.  Lol

Also references, unless you just saw the lady, take time.  If its been six months, he may have to go back through old schedules and see if she can find info on your appointment.

Some times if I miss a call... and a long time period has passed... I will wait for the person to call me to alleviate possible things... such as with wives, girlfriends & etc finding out... I do not take chances of calling someone back & possibly igniting it into a bad situation! So, if you call me... and I don't answer... Try me back later! My voicemail box is usually fulll as I do NOT check them!!

Any other providers do what I do? Is it a good or bad thing?

XoXoX,

Alicia Hartoley!!

you really don't keep any of our info, right? You destroy all emails, text messages, call logs, and lose our numbers because you're a safe and ethical provider. You can recall each and every one of us on the spot because we're THAT special to you. What huh? You can't conjour up my info off the top of your head? Sin, I'm insulted! I thought I was special, wow, I'm soooo hurt... Yes, I was born yesterday

All kidding aside, we guys do like prompt responses. I'll wait a day, after that I assume she's not interested.

PP

I certainly appreciate prompt communication and don't like to wait.  It is important in that sense.  However, if it is someone I really want to meet, slow communication isn't going to make me not want to see her anymore.  So I guess it is important, but not in the sense that I would refuse to see someone over it.  The only possible problem I could see is that I moved on and scheduled someone else.  To be honest though, I have not had this problem.

most girls dont like to give references as they are afraid of losing business.
when most people email me , i typically respond in a few hrs or less.

So I can see it in the mirror when I take a shower.  The only time it was a problem is when you called me when I was at a restaurant.  The women in the dressing room kind of freaked  when I dropped trow by the mirror at the sink to get your number.  But I did call back right away.  The backwards number is my 2 bit encryption to protect your info.

So how is that for security and customer service?

Posted By: Polish_Pirate

you really don't keep any of our info, right? You destroy all emails, text messages, call logs, and lose our numbers because you're a safe and ethical provider. You can recall each and every one of us on the spot because we're THAT special to you. What huh? You can't conjour up my info off the top of your head? Sin, I'm insulted! I thought I was special, wow, I'm soooo hurt... Yes, I was born yesterday

All kidding aside, we guys do like prompt responses. I'll wait a day, after that I assume she's not interested.

PP

Posted By: Sinful1

Also references, unless you just saw the lady, take time.  If its been six months, he may have to go back through old schedules and see if she can find info on your appointment.

If you actually want my business. Not saying I have not sent out messages, waited patiently for replies and eventually seen the lady when she replied 10 days later and said she could see me tomorrow.

But the odds are that I have made other plans, and the likelihood I will see her a second time are even lower.

It also creates uncomfortable situations. If I contact someone to ask about getting together in a week, and I get no reply for a few days, I will contact someone else. Then, when I get a reply, if I get a reply, I probably am already scheduling something with someone else, and have to decide whether to do the right thing and stay with that, or go with what was my first choice. I try to do the right thing, because the considerate and well organized lady is also likely to be that way when we meet, but sometime the temptation is great, even though I know the odds of things going wrong are much higher.

On the other hand, there is something alluring about being unpedictable and elusive, at least when it is not annoying. So it does have that going for it.

zig

I will never give references, for the facts you mention.
Use a verification service instead.

Would have been a lot easier to read and no mirror required. So which offense is worse, dropping trow at the sink or pulling out one of the girls? I'd think those women would have felt woefully inadequate and pissed all over you, literally. The moral of the story is you should just answer my calls without hesitation and lose the tattoo. Your encryption system is smoke and mirrors.

BTW, the crackberry isn't waterproof? You can't answer my calls in the shower, WTF?

PP (PPP)

...and it may or may not apply to the gents posting here. Personally, I have been hesitant to respond to some emails/phone calls because my intuition kicked in and told me not to. When someone calls me asking a thousand questions, does not have verification information ready (or seems hesitant about being verified at all), is unclear in his tone and message, it sends off red flags for me. We have to be really careful so feeling comfortable and safe at all times is top priority.

So just a suggestion for gents: being clear, confident, and PREPARED when contacting a lady will get you a faster response.

Some, myself included do it by Email ONLY- and it has to be the provider you are wishing to see that sends the email.  As far as Duos, hey- it's a touchy matter. Unless you want Play for Pay it MAY take a month for schedules to align, for a girl you like to find one she clicks with etc.

If your being pushy or annoying, most likely she is ignoring you! If a gent calls me 12 times in 1 day- he's immediay on my PITA DNS list.

Life is a marathon, not a sprint and the little guy may be pushing the buttons, but it's the big guy who ends up paying for it... In all ways.

Xoxo
VC