So I gotta know if this is just me or what, but I have been trying to meet up with a certain provider from out of town for quite awhile. I figured Im on vacation so Ill drive up to meet her. We make plans then 3 days before she cancels and says she is no longer going there cause of who knows what. Ok cool I guess, then she says instead she is going to come to Chicago, even better. So we are all set for a day, no time cause she is unsure of when she is coming in, now I get a text the day before she is coming in telling me she has no time to see me cause she is all booked. Are you f***ing kidding me. I kept my schedule wide open to accomidate her and she tells me a regular booked her all morning and she will make it up to me the next visit. Thanks but no thanks, Ill give my gifts to other respectful providers!  Is it me or is that completely disrespectful?

I am new at this, but that sounds fairly normal. At least she told you the truth. Most others would probably have just ignored you.

you have to understand she didn't know her regular was going to book that length of time and its probably him that brought her to Chicago.
She planned on seeing you but then that happened and she stayd true to her regular, which means she is loyal and thats kudos for her!
I think you should give her the chance to make it up to you and you will probably be one happy man if you do.
In the meantime I have some lovelies that will take your mind off of her for the time being!
check it out!

Accountability is tough in this business, but this is what the review boards are designed for. Post a review of the provider. No need to be cruel, or overly dramatic, but get the facts out there. It really is the only way to hold someone accountable in this business.

I tried to post a review before on someone that had blown me off and they would not allow it since I never saw the provider. However I dont agree in the remark saying "kudos to the provider for seeing her regular". You dont blow off an appointment in order to see a regular. I have been a regular to several providers and would never expect them to cancel someone in order to see me. After all we are all paying clients are we not!

Had a string of 3 different girls in a row.  I thought by calling a day or 2 before would set it all up but it did not save me.  Not sure if these girls were just disorganized or perhaps they chose to see someone they knew better than me.  Disapointing but I've learned to roll with it.  Now I always have a couple back up plans.

I do believe she was honest with you. And that seems to offer real hope that she will make it up to you, which turn out to be very good, indeed. At least you did not get anything off of CTP's list of tried and true provider excuses - then you would have known it is BS.

The part about changing travel plans only seems sensible to me - you put out a plan, do your marketing, but stay flexible so you do not end up in a hotel room with all the costs and no business. Surely not what pissed you off, just saying.

Anyway, if she really is hot, I would hang loose and at least be open to the possibility of her truly making it up. Probably would also send her a brief rant, saying how I feel about being jerked around, but not go overboard. That would make me feel a little better.

Zig

to disregard your feelings because it sucks to feel rejected, just was stating she was honest with you and her regular probably didn't know she canceled you to see him.
I'm pretty sure if one of your ladies who you see often decided to stay with you instead of seeing someone new she would not mention it to you either.
It would not be a proper way of doing business but I still say get over being angry or irrated by this and let her make it up to you!
She did let you know and apologized which is a good thing cause in this business there are many who not have been so honest and polite about the situation and just left you hanging and calling her numerous times.

I hear what you're saying, I did let her know I was pissed. But as far as setting that up again. I doubt it, rather spend my money on others who appreciate it.

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