Read all the above responses, and agree that a consumer in any open market always should "vote with his wallet". As for the poster who asked if we should always "haggle", well, I think "haggle"'s a poor choice of words. As said in my post above, the girls who think they have an MSRP and won't DISCUSS otherwise are girls I have found to have attitudes not conducive to great GFE sessions. Oh, they may do all the mechanics, may come across as "hornygirl", etc, but in my experience (several years, maybe avg 1/mo) sessions with these providers end with a feeling of being controlled, and that's not the GFE session I'm looking for. For example, I very recently raised the subject of rate with a very popular Chicago provider, and she responded in a cute non-defensive teasy way "I have plenty of takers right now at that rate so for the time being am kind of holding on that" (not the old snotty "I have all the biz I want so don't insult me by asking for a special deal", like we hobbyists are beggers!) Now, I consider the response I did get a DISCUSSION because she didn't put me down or absolutely close me out, and we'll see where things go when she considers my response back (polite and warm, "sorry, that's just more than I feel comfortable with right now, but how about keeping me in mind"), and maybe when she has a few cancellations or no-shows or open time she'd otherwise rather fill (like the airline industry, once that empty seat trakes off, it never can be recouped). Gotta be patient with this stuff, because whatever results from the discussion is with mutual good firmly in mind. And goodly amounts of $$$ is being discussed in any case. In the final analysis, you get a provider showing the right attitude in price discussion (not angry, not hurt, not on an ego trip, but instead just doing her biz), you usually get a provider with spunk and a great attitude and delivery. Of course, YMMV depending on the girl and on the way you present yourself, but as with nmost things where both parties win, the whole thing is absolutely doable.