Are all couple hobbyists controlled by the woman who just usually are very cheap and bossy?  Maybe this query would be better suited for the provider only board but I was thinking the male members of hobbyist couples could chime in on whether or not their counterpart is a bit of a tight ass, controlling bitch.  

If you've ever been married you'd know that the woman is gonna try and control the purse strings. Especially when it comes to spending for another woman - eom

YESSSSSS! I had to turn a couple down last week because of this exact nightmare you speak of. I'm not here to be the 3rd member of a dysfunctional sexual tryst. "Tight ass controlling bitch" is what I am not here for so more power to the providers that can and will put up with it. Not to go cliche "Tyler Perry black woman" but I am not the one and I will be more than happy to redirect these couples to a provider that enjoys being part of that mess.

Hahaha!  I'm with you on that cuz I refuse to be treated like a puppy jumping through hoops for these  women who try to negotiate rates, demand on the spot candid photos as well as just being plain old bossy, like they own you.  All I have to say to that is, "your not my boss, applesauce!

Where the hell have you been mister man?!?!

you just look too good and don't want her man to give you all the attention.  

but the cheapness is usually the guy isn't it? The bossy part - oh yeah, that's the woman.

… that actually happens to be true —and generally too risky to mention.

I imagine that if the couple was controlled by the man it would be concerning. Like maybe she's not even into this sorta thing and is doing it to make her man happy? It would make me uncomfortable to say the least.

My wife and I see escorts as a couple and we are committed to each other as a couple. I have input in the decision as well as she. While I will agree that I spend more easily than her, it is in all things, not just escorts. She certainly is not a controlling bitch and enjoys all aspects of sexuality. I do not believe that my wife is cheap when it comes to escorts.