When gentleman are place ISO ads or contacting a provider  why do you feel it's important to state that your either good looking or fit etc. From a provider standpoint or at least mine and I'm sure I'm not the only one, it doesn't matter to me what you look like or how many days a week you work out.  I treat all my guests the same as long as they are respectful to our meeting arrangement.  
Do you think you should get a discount or special treatment or more service?  I'll be honest it's kind of like blatantly stating, "I'm a douch hole client expecting everything and then some, plus extra unpaid time."
Hope everyone is off to a wonderful week,
Alyssa

..., but he might be simply assuring you that you won't be completely disgusted and puking your guts out while doing your job.

I wonder the same thing also, sometimes I think its their way of saying I take care of myself *shurgs* i can never understand though lol

Anything along the lines of "I'm white/fit/hung/cut/etc" makes me roll my eyes. All makes it sound like they want a discount for that trait.

Perhaps he wants to reassure you that he doesn't weigh 500 lbs , and won't crush you ...

Why does it have to be a negative? Why does it have to mean the guy is looking for a discount? Did he ask for one. Sheeesh!

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"My height is proportional to my weight, depending on your definition of 'proportional.' I work out several times a year. My appearance seldom frightens children, not too badly anyway, except for small ones."

...why so negative anarenee??

Unfortunately this is usually what it turns into....  

Example this morning on a phone inquiry first thing stated he is educated, and takes good care of himself, respectful, I chuckle because I instantly thought of this thread....
Asked about masssage and if we are enjoying ourselves how far things can go... uhhh ok whatever.... I mentioned if he's looking for potentially going farther he should probably book escort best response, " oh no I would never ask for that I respect you."
On an hours notice I denied the appointment because I would rather drink coffee and read magazines.

I am very grateful for the providers that take care of me, whether it be escort, massage, or a little of each.  The least I can do is be clean and presentable and well dressed and decent looking although that is mostly beyond my control.  And I would assume for most providers, the more presentable the client is, the easier their job is.  And the easier their acting will come naturally.  

One of the best looking guys that I have seen to boot . . . Damn. I wish I would've savored his body a little bit more because not only was he handsome. but super nice and polite.  

the poster believes he may be more likely to get a response.  
When I propose a date with a provider I mention that I am in good physical condition.   Never did it cross my mind that I deserved a discount because of it.    
Just thinking I may be more likely to get a response.   That's all.    Also, Hoping the provider may be a little more at ease if I am not ghastly.    

This is the first time I heard of people doing this and it is hilarious.  Obviously we all see providers for different reason but for the same end goal.  I am intrigue to what goes through the head of a dude trying to get approval from a provider.  As long as you are not 500 lbs and have money, I think the provider will do the best she can to get you off and leave happy.  Just want to ensure that not all men do this.  

I don't think it is intended as some form of "gaming" at all in most cases.  

and if they are hoping for better response they should try responding to those who reach out.  80% of the time if we private message a guest or respond on the open board, we get no response at all.  If guys, all guys at least responded even to say, sorry I booked someone else or I am looking to go in another direction or I will keep you in mind for a later time.  Honestly to me it comes off a little rude, especially if you specifically ask for PM because we know you are getting it.  Kinda how you all feel when you never get a response after requesting time with a provider.    

I love this thread!  As a husky (but not grossly obese) guy I always worry that women will be less happy to spend time with me than with a gym rat client So refreshing to hear that, within reason, size really doesn't matter to you ladies.  As long as we have a respectful attitude and an adequate donation we are all equal.  Every provider has always treated me well and said they enjoyed me as a client but, in the back of my head, there was always this nagging doubt.  One more benefit to hobbying over dating civvies where 30 extra pounds is a guaranteed "swipe left".

Ok ladies
I'm a newb and have only had the pleasure of seeing a handful of women so far.
This is an example of the date request email that Im using: