Common Theme I've Observed  ... that is prevailing in the hobby community like some sick underlying disease  
   
 Lack of Trust and Openness. Lack of Connection  
   
 When two people come together in this sacred bond of intimacy, you gotta leave your heart wide open  
   
 Nothing good comes from a closed heart  
   
 Respect - the kind that is not so much earned or comes with a social status, but the basic sense of respect we as human beings have for each other  
   
 Dignity - Noone's perfect. To measure each other up to some god-like 100% perfect all the time standards in simply inhumane - in the sense, we are here to learn, make mistakes, and grow and grow some more  
   
 A mistake has been made, don't hold it in your heart. Understand where the other person is coming from, try to feel what could have led them to it, knowing that you too have made errors in the past; hurt others consciously or unconsciously. Leave the superior inferior game alone. You know that's your ego playing tricks on you  
   
 I feel what we have here is So special, So wonderful - everyone has needs to fulfill, things they desire, want and in the end we all need each other    
   
 Let's all come down to earth, act humble, and deeply appreciate what we have.