I just read through a review where the reviewer mentioned that the provider has a kid. Why? I certainly wouldn't talk about a provider's personal life in a review regardless of what she told me during the session. Do we really need to know about her family? No. I saw this provider and she told me some of her personal info as well but you'll never see it in my review.

Come on guys, use your big head and be discrete when writing reviews. If a provider tells you something about her personal life, hold her confidentiality and don't go blabbing it in her review.

I have seen reviews where the knucklehead reviewer has mentioned the following:

1) The name of the hotel.
2) The intersections of where the incall was.
3) Info on what the provider does in the civilian world.
4) Info on kids [like Polish Pirate pointed out].
5) Name of the school(s) that the provider has attended.

I could go on.  These guys are the type that don't think before they post.  You guys need to STFU and keep the personal details to a minimum.  Just write about the session itself.  Would you like it if the provider posted your personal details online?

For the knuckleheads, consider this:

1) LE reads the boards on a daily basis.  It amazes me when a dumbass posts a hotel name on the board.  Send that info via PM or e-mail if someone asks for a recommendation.
2) These ladies may have stalkers or are trying to hide this part of their life.  Don't be an idiot by outing them.

I respect your opinion, Pirate, but without knowing the context, I think I have to somewhat disagree with you on this one. And here's why: I recently made an appointment to see a well-reviewed lady. After the session had gotten off to a decent start, she mentioned that not only did she have a kid, but that kid was in another room being watched by a babysitter. Had I known this info ahead of time or through a review, there's no way I would have made the appointment. So in my case, that kind of info, while personal, does have pertinence in terms of the whether or not to make an appointment.

Hey, at least you had a babysitter there! I saw a girl that made me wait outside her door for at least 10mins. When I got in I noticed her toddler daughter right there in the bedroom!

She actually asked me to "get comfortable" while the kid was still in the room. I said "uh, what about your kid?" she said "oh, yeah..." and took her to the living room. Considered bailing, but had jumped through hoops at that point already.

I dunno, it depends

In the context of this particular review, she told the guy she had a kid but there was nothing unusual about the circumstances that warranted mentioning it. The child was back home far away so it didn't present any type of awkward situation. In your case, I'm not sure why having the kid in another room with a babysitter bothered you as long as the babysitter didn't come knocking on the door while you were there but I respect your concern of course. We all have different boundaries and if that made you uncomfortable, so be it.

Let me clarify my comments by stating that unless the circumstances could lead to an uncomfortable or downright awkward (or worse?) session, there's no reason to talk about anything personal that a provider mentions during a session. The fact that she's forthcoming with you doesn't mean you're free to discuss it with others.

Was she on crack leaving a toddler unattended during a session? Sorry, but you should have walked.

I think it is still good intel for fellow mongers to have.  e.g.  I have, at times, appreciated it when people let me know the SP has 2 kids and it shows (or not) on her body .... I appreciate that information as I am young and take the time and effort to make sure that I am very fit .... I except the same from the women I see and if they have signs of child birth, I would rather know that going in.  It is by no means a show stopper for me, but would prefer to know that going in.

I guess, I have been around a while now and what ticks me off is surprises of any sort.  The more accurate intel I have the more I can avoid surprises.  

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If a provider has stretch marks, you can convey this without telling everyone how many kids she has. Just say she's not tight or she has stretch marks but there's no need to tell everyone she has kids and how many and what their ages are. Believe it or not, we're smart enough to deduce she's had kids if either or both of these obvious traits are mentioned.

I've seen reviews that describe a provider's personal incall location. OK, if she's a pig, I'd certainly want to know that but there's no reason to talk about how the location is accessed (gates, stairways, it's on a main street in downtown wherever, etc.). Her location is as much a secret as her family and other personal info so be considerate and don't give away any details about the location unless it's dangerous or presents some other risk to your safety and/or identity. In other words, it's OK to reveal for legitimate safety concerns - otherwise keep it to yourself.

Children should be nowhere near this "hobby."