All of the options available, and you pick the most futile team in sports as your passion!

Let us know who she is -- so we can fill her schedule, and you won't feel so bad about wandering.

To keep your perspective.  Start seeing one provider exclusively and you might start having some dangerous thoughts...not that you necessarily will, but the potential is there.

I am not going to disclose the identity of my friend for many reasons.  I have not reviewed my special friend.  As for Jamie, she is wonderful and charming and was one of my partners when wandering.

Is it Holly Berry?
You really should tell us who this provider is.
It would be really good for her.

Can't blame you.  Good luck with the emotional matters.....they are on their way.

Sounds reasonable in theory, but in practice, wandering won't really prevent attachment.

I don't think exclusivity necessarily predisposes somebody to those dangerous thoughts.  If the dangerous thoughts are going to happen, they are going to happen whether you are seeing just one, or one hundred girls.  Wandering may distract you temporarily from the dangerous thoughts, but it won't stop them.

The flip side as well. You see someone too often the excitement starts to dissipate and it becomes rote and you begin taking each other for granted. I get that for free at home

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My brain feels a little better.

Exclusivity seems to fly in the face of why most do this

Does one go exclusive as a result of thinking that way, or can exclusivity start causing one to think something is there that isn't?  Of course I'm not ruling out that one can exclusively see a great provider, keep boundaries and be perfectly fine doing that...I'm talking about possibilities, not probabilities.

Oh wait. That's a girl joke lol.

You make very good points.  It definitely happens both ways though (in fact it's happened to me both ways).

I have two of those.  They are wonderful ladies.  I treat them with respect, and am a regular.  It is a two way street

You play the field for fun, excitement and variety. But after a while, you meet someone with whom you connect on a certain level-sexually, intimately, personality, whatever. And so you repeat and repeat again and again, broadening and deepening what it is you two have.  And the sex doesn't become rote because you do things you've always wanted to do or never even thought about doing.  Yet, you still see other girls for the fun, excitement and variety, and in the end, you realize what a good thing you've got with your girl.  So, I think your behavior, Mr. Cubbie, would pass for being within normal limits for this hobby world we live in.  

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