YES

I use to enjoy it quite well and do appreciate the effort but a well skilled BJ is always better.

OH my

oh my Giselle..sloppy or neat..it is all good..yummy moans included..

Drooling, spitting and gagging, OH MY!

Not at all. Much prefer an honest response, a sweet touch, firm strokes, and something in the eye that says the woman actually enjoys what she's doing and isn't just performing a pneumatic function.

If you're going for a PSE experience...messy is hot! I feel like having a willing participant in throat fucking just ups the sexual energy tremendously. Turns the time being spent together into a rawer experience. It certainly doesn't fit with GFE scenarios. Regardless...slow, neat BJs can be just as enjoyable...all that matters is what kind of session you want it to turn into.

Ok, so you are adressing something that never ceases to amaze me, but that I go along with because, man, guys (most, not all) just love it when you slobber all over their dick!  

"Spit on it, make it real messy".  Uh, ok!
Simple enough request!

I figure it must come from watching porn.   What else could it possibly be??
It's fun, I admit.  Looking him in the eye, knowing he is so excited, pushing that button.
Hell, sex should be fun, and yes, messy!!

So spit on a dick!!
xoC

Suck it, don't slurp it

Never have been a fan of messy head. Doesn't do anything for me visually and I find the smacking, drool and the like distracting.

Now I do like vigorous head, when the woman can't get enough and is talking to my dick wanting it to explode. Deep throat, kissing it, rubbing it on her face as she assaults it. Yeah baby yeah

**Like**

Spitting & Gagging!!! It turns me on... Especially when the eyes water a bit... Freakish.. Maybe but guess everyone has their own turn ons....  

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depends on mood but imo...

I have realized if im in a relaxed state of mind I dont mind a passionate bj but if im stressed out and frustrated I enjoy to take that aggression out a little bit .  I do watch a lot of gagging, rimming, drooling porn and I find it very hot but only if the woman is into it as well.  I have met women who have asked me to make them gag and enjoy getting cock slapped etc and it turned me on for sure.  

I think its because its a request im not used to , its just kinkier and to me its fun dabbling in new acts.  I had a gf that one time said "please put it in my ass" and I dont think I have been ever harder in my life just from 5 simple words . too bad she turned out to be a psycho .   The same goes for cum in my mouth and stuff like that.....just the request alone can bring me to a higher state of excitement. The sounds of gagging , the look  drool falling our just raises the senses for a certain type of guy like myself and it does make you feel like a porn star if only for a few minutes. But also just to make me clear it only does that for me if at the end and during the process shes smiling and is into it otherwise I stop because it no longer becomes fun. Thats a very important line and shouldnt be crossed because then I feel a person gets put in "creepy" category.  

At the same time I enjoy the control and at times I like to give control.   I enjoy cuffs blindfolds and aggressive bjs but at the same time enjoy being blindfolded and have a woman throw me down and have her way with me.  It all depends on my mood.

But ive had woman who have said they enjoy giving aggressive head then when they appear they dont I tone it down because to me its no fun if both arent into it....but if she is into it? well then game on and the sloppier the better.  

when it comes to hobbying I do tend to request things I dont get in my everyday life.  I get normal bjs and normal sex but the inner kinkster in me enjoys doing some things that dont normally happen in everyday life and thats what im donating for.  rimming, aggressive bjs etc.  

In conclusion I feel the increase in requests has to fall under 1 form of reasoning

 1. want something they dont get in real life and yes the increase in gagging porn has upped the bar for a lot of men like myself.  

-l4f

But love the messy drooling and sloppy noise coupled with soft moans and yummy pleasure. Now thats cock worshiping at its best. Oh lets not forget about those boys!!

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re: Drooling, spitting and gagging, OH MY!

Only dick-heads like that, I really can't imagine what anyone could find appealing about that except that it's just like in the movies.

I remember my porn star friend bitching about the SFV production companies demanding that she do this shit. She refused and walked off the sets quite a few times. Years later, she's still running a thriving network of porn sites and still not doing the stuff she finds repulsive. To each their own.

If in a very dominant mood, nothing hotter than sloppy, gagging, hard to keep up deep throat...but only if in that kinda mood. Never minded sloppy, always love deep throat, but quite honestly, that bs "gyack, gyack gyack" sound is obnoxious.  

More often than not, I say YES PLEASE

Hell, whatever seems right. If the overall mood is romantic rather than PSE, then subtle works. If it's a bit more raucus, then noisy and drooly. Personally I prefer the illusion of the GFE, so gentle , teasing and seductive is the best. We'll figure it out. Same with oral from me. I can burrow in aggressively or slowly, gently, teasingly get you where you want to go. Teamwork, ladies, teamwork.

Porn is visual hyperbole for a quick jack.

I prefer a woman that considers me her canvas to explore visually, tactically,and audibly where the journey is as much fun as the destination. Slow, sensual, and deep, with my hand on her head setting the pace. Ultimately taste is the final sensory destination when we share satisfaction.

Thanks for all the input! You guys are the best and

God I just love our community!  Honest, forthcoming and downright hilarious at times

Mwahz!
xXX-Giselle