A highly-rated lady recently was forced to cancel a trip to Chicago because she got so many cancellations.  I know things happen, I've had to cancel a time or two, but this seems to be something more.  When almost everyone cancels, that's just a bunch of immature jerks playing games.  And it seems Chicago is notorious for it.  She says she will never again plan to visit here, so thanks guys for ruining it for everyone else.  Grow up.

DC and Philly are notorious for NCNS..we are unfortunately moving up the ladder of unreliability..these fucktards do not realize they are just messing things up for the guys who really want these ladies to visit..they book a room and flight and are out the money they spent because of all the cancellations..if this keeps up..the trend will be to get a 50% deposit on any pre-booking which a lot of guys will not go for..some of these ladies now do it..the rest might follow suit if this recent rash of NCNS continues..

Chicago is getting a bad rep by these idiots with the constant cancelling.  I hope the ladies are reporting these idiots to RS2K, P411, or a DNS site because I have a feeling they constantly cancel.  These guys are just time wasters and have nothing better to do.

I get a lot of people wasting my time!  

guys are giving girls bad reviews also....with a bunch of bs in the review....

I've never cancelled a Session with a Provider. I know how valuable their time is. I always make sure that I have nothing planned for that day. My current Provider has a lot of cancellations too. It's a Shame because she is very Nice and Polite. There have been days when she tells me I was the only one that booked a Session with her for that day. She tells me that she had to drop some of her long time Regulars because they would make an appointment and not show up. They didn't even call to Cancel. They just didn't show up. Guys when you book an appointment, please show up. If you have to cancel, call at least an hour or two before your appointment. This way she can book another Session and not waste her time on waiting for someone that doesn't show up.

That stinks...I hope she'll consider coming back, and maybe changing her tour policy to include a deposit to confirm appointments.

Canceled one time, woke up with an awefull cold...
Now on the other hand I have had atleast5 cancel with me just this year  

I am coming to Chicago for the first time next Sunday and already have pre-books. I would hate if it happens to me, but I will say it seems to be part of this business, and some guys don't even take a second to think what that could be doing to our business. I myself go out of my way to stay in upscale places, and the travel time as well, and the only time I ask for a deposit is when it's either longer than a 4 hour appt, an overnight, or a 24 hour appt.

They have no respect for the providers,no call no show cancellations it's happening a lot
And they will call back again to make appt like nothing happen,sorry that's not how it works
When u no call no show the providers are loosing there time and income because they respect
You and hoLd the appt for u,which they could easily schedule with someone else,And that
Causes them time and income,same goes with the cancellation

One of my ATFs came in from Florida with a full dance card. I was only able to book one appointment with her. She had a bunch of cancellations and I was able to see her several times.

Cold feet - I guess that's two words - that' why I wear sox

I was about to post an ad too.... Maybe bad timing?

I fully own up to having had to cancel in the past, but in my defense I work a job that often requires me to work shifts and go in to work and travel on short notice. I have never pulled a NCNS in my life, would never do so, and if I do cancel it's always been at least a day in advance. I never like canceling and feel like a tool when I have to do it, but I can't just tell my employer "I can't fly to New York tomorrow because I have an appointment to get a BJ".

I have heard Providers do it too. I have cancelled maybe twice, and within enough time so that he can possibly find another lady. And that was two emergencies that couldn't be helped.  I don't like it done to be as far as the cancelling when I go out of my way to ensure every minute and hour I spend with my clients is one of upmost importance. I will say in my experience, the more Elite Upscale Providers don't cancel on you.

that some of this NCNS might actually be agencies and locals try to sabotage visiting ladies

Wow! you are a dream client,then! It does happen occasionally to me. It hurts as I take very few appointments and do not keep a cancellation list. I may start though...

Hello Megan,you know me on another board...might want to hold off on the traveling just yet...although I surely would love to meet with ya! XO Peyton

I wouldn't let that stop you hun because it's not stopping me. Come take over Chicago with me

This is a business transaction between human beings so there is always a need for some understanding. Things happen in our personal lives that may cause issues on either side.

When someone books with me in advance I set aside either a whole day or half a day for them. (Even for hr sessions) because I have to get ready, make sure my incall is ready, etc. I also re read his reviews in the last couple hrs before he comes by, so what he likes is fresh in my head. So last minute cancellations and NCNSs make me LIVID.

I was thinking about requesting deposits for my trip but do you think it prevents some gentlemen from requesting dates?

That's why I stopped going to DC . This is a very old and bad habit.While I was in Roanoke VA years and years ago, someone encouraged me to take the train to Union station for a 3 hr . So I did . He screened well but guess what? Upon my arrival mind you a new city there was no one there. It cost me an additional hotel $200 and the 5 hr sleeper cabin was $500 . He claimed he sent reimbursement but it never went through P.P. Luckily there was a great guy who I had become friendly with who took me to the airport. I'ts a bad joke to play on anyone and with reputable providers who have no history or shorting someone on services or NCNS themselves I'd rather forget going anywhere unless deposit is secured and my goal on budget is met. Guys seem to think we are rolling in money yet fail to consider  
that we are not an 8 hr a day income person. Grow up is putting it lightly to some of them out there .  

I tend to book well in advance with the understanding that we would re-confirm a day or so before our visit. When  I have had unavoidable changes in my schedule I give as much notice as I can. So far it has typically been a few days. I have had ladies text me a few minutes before we ate to meet with a cancellation. I don't fret about those rate times, I simply don't schedule with them again. I realize its easier for us guys to walk away as we have more choices.  

Most guys won't go for deposits.

As a proud chicago hobbyist, i truly feel for ladies who invest their time with us, and have to deal with ncns.  My suggestion, however, would not to go the route of deposits.  Rather, make us "jump through a hoop" or two after the initial booking has been made.  So, for example, if someone books a week in advance, i recommend sending them an email 2-3 days before to touch base and get them to reconfirm. Also, ask that they reconfirm a day prior.  If you dont hear from them that day, send another email stating something like " i am looking forward to our time together, but i must hear from you by _____o'clock, or else i will have to assume you are unavailable to keep our date.  Yes, it involves some "labor" (emails), but it provides an out for a reluctant hobbyist and more certainty for you.  Just a thought.  I hate to think of high quality proiders passing on chicago

As I stated in the first point about Deposits; any clients who is worth his word, will give you a deposit.
Anyone who balks at your method of business practices or is unwilling to offer what you request (screening, deposit, etc) is not worth your time. end of story.  

I've found that if the first three pre bookings pay at least $60 deposit it is very helpful in defraying my cost should he be unable to keep his appointment. I take my cost, divide the number of bookings into it, and that is the figure my deposit should be . I used to ask for a $100 deposit
which does depend on cost, and I always credit myself should he cancel at least a percent is going towards repaying myself . If a guy is willing to spend 350 + there should never be a void in his  
putting up a deposit . And if something were to go wrong and my trip cancel, I'd surely credit him.
     

I've been stood up on a few Providers and I never call them again. There are more Providers out on the Market. If one cancels on me I'll just look for another one. I'm very happy with my current Provider. In fact I have a Session Booked with her at 10:00pm tonight.

I have never cancelled and have even showed up just to pay for my session when I wanted to cancel the same day but couldn't perform for personal reasons....... BUUUUUUT, I have had someone cancel on me (explanation was that they "forgot" about it)....... so I understand the frustrations and it goes both ways.

There have been other ladies that have posted about mass cancellations on the Chicago board.  Also, not every lady is going to complain on this board about it because they don't want to be perceived as a whiner.  I bet the tone is different in the provider only board and other sites for providers.  Plus, I have talked to many providers [local & traveling] and they have mentioned the large number of cancellations happening in Chicago.

Personally I have no problem with deposits. Actually in most cases I would happily pay up front if I could do so. I do this with a certain visiting provider who is here a couple times a year. I also did that once with someone else years ago and she didn't rip me off either.

....but in plenty of other areas definitely.

Simply, yes it does. I won't pay a deposit and I've never cancelled either.  

Had a date with a provider, who I called to tell her that I was on my way.  Got to her hotel and tried calling her only to have my call fail numerous times.  I pull out of the parking spot and drove around the lot with the call eventually going through.  She even tried to call me and received my voice mail and was afraid that I was standing her up.  I was so concern as I had no idea what to do.  We did have a great time, but I was really panicking.  Had one of the best times ever as my review will verify once approved.  

Yes, it absolutely does.  I don’t send them and just move on to the next ad.