whats up with providers on EROS who have no reviews on TER or anywhere else saying they dont participate in that kind of thing? I contacted several by phone and asked for a website or reviews and they seemed like they were offended. are these only referred by word of mouth? then why would they ad on eros?

You may find this hard to believe, but many providers operate just fine outside of TER. They neither require nor desire the safety net and time investment required to participate here. Eros serves them effectively as a costly but effective ad vehicle.

Many are referred by word of mouth. The first few I saw weren't TER members and I met their friends early on. I didn't even know about this place until later when one girl mentioned she'd like a review here. Back then, I was dumb and didn't realize the risk of using Eros ads.

Are these providers dumb for not being here? I don't know, they do what they do and as long as they're comfortable with the risks, that's fine. I was fine with it as a dumb beginner and then learned differently, fortunately not by making mistakes. Not all these girls want to be part of a community, they don't want to invest time here or anywhere else.

If they are hot and get offended because you ask about reviews, they are probably not what you are looking for!  2+2=4

which would You rather have...someone You know nothing about except for what her site says...or knowing exactly who You are looking for...and reading reviews and finding her...and having an Awesome time  So I would suggest You just stick to the reviewed on TER  just my opinion of course...lol...

are the ones who do not exist to me. There is a reason why a lady do not participate in the review community.

If the lady says she is new and that is why she does not have reviews as of yet, then I would understand. Everyone needs to start from somewhere, right. But, if she gets offended because of asking why she does not participate in the review community, then there will be no playtime.

Dude you only have 2 reviews!

they are utr is what they first say and then u think then why on Eros?  
by utr they mean they do not want every man knowing what they do because then he expects the same service and there are some men they don't want to do the things they did with the other.
These are low volume ladies true, but I've had a few and the word does get out how hot they are. they are not under pressure to service each guy the same way if do not want to.
There are pros and cons on thisI am sure but I believe to each his own.

aren't the UTR ladies more fun.

there is another percentage that are just out and out bait and switch rip-offs.

Kendra, who is on my site for example got caught up with a company like that.

When she decided to transfer universities from Phoenix to Iowa, she searched out another agency to work with in the Chicago area.  She ended up working with some outfit out of Vegas (allegedly).  What they would do is post half a dozen women on Eros (smokin hot model types) and then send her out to see them or send them over to see her.

The red flag went up when she was on her second or third date.  She called in to let her handler know that she got the do, re, mi and mentioned to her handler that he was in the shower.  The handler told her to leave with the money... (cash and dash)

The next day, she called me because one of her clients recommended me to her.  The rest is history.

BTW, this place had a different number for each girl and when a guy called, a sexy sounding woman answered and acted like she was the girl in the picture.

So, there are "other" reasons why a smokin hot babe might not have reviews on TER!

why the alias?

There are even TER providers who don't want to be reviewed, but they play the game so they can advertise here.

Some providers and hobbyists simply prefer an element of discretion, which reviews don’t offer.

Kudos to the ladies that don't NEED reviews to survive.

Xoxo.

and I'm not just sucking up Gia...

I have to admit though, it's more fun when the girls are around and posting. I don't read all of a provider's reviews, just a few of the most recent. How many reviews does a provider need to establish that she's good at what she does? 5, 10? I love the 20+ pages of reviews on some providers, lol. They all start sounding the same after about 3.

I had some great times with the few providers I started out with. They were strictly Eros girls and I was REALLY lucky. And I still find gems that are more UTR and not reliant on reviews. Kind of like someone I know in particular

Dear PP,

Why on Earth would you see a provider without any background info?  That, to me, sounds silly!  TER is the total package to find out who is just a pretty face and who is a pretty face with some flair;!

XXX-Giselle

I don't anymore

Like I said, it was back when I was a newbie and had never heard of TER. It took a cute and really nice young lady to point me in the right direction.

thanks for all the info - I too am dumb about most of this stuff because I am fairly new to this hobby. So when I post a question I'm just looking for some advice. So Thanks.

If you're good, you're good and your clients already know that. I look at reviews as a way for a hobbiest to search for a provider they have not seen before. I usually don't write them unless the provider needs a boost in exposure....no pun intended. The people I have seen, I keep in touch with on a regular basis so we can connect if we want to.