that a lot of people send in appointment requests without complete verification info.  

Well, I for one did contact you when you first arrived on the scene and my access was denied, unfairly, I believe. Your screening seems to uncover what you believe to be truths, when in reality I believe you make unfair assumptions.  

One reason may be that, so often, verification information is sent along with specific requests for a time and date, just as the provider asks, and there is no answer of any kind. It makes potential clients reluctant to provide their information upfront.

I checked your website and the verification info you ask for is not IMO extreme. However for me personally, I would probably not send it to you in an initial email, I'll explain.

It looks like you want two provider references. Is this in addition to RS2k and p411? I think part of the disconnect may be that p411 has a list of provider OKs for each member and their information (website, email, etc.) is all right there. For example, I have 11 OKs on p411, so that gives you 11 providers you can contact, so to me, sending it again in an email would be sending the same information twice. If you really just want two references and their info emailed and you don't accept p411 it may be helpful to specify that on your site. Just a friendly suggestion and I hope everything works out.

So, you just admitted you have a mailbox full of ignored appointment requests, some with private info in them.  And you wonder why clients are wary of sending info???

I might be one of those submitting with partial info, not on purpose though.

I think there are multiple reasons:

I'm not giving out my personal information until we've agreed upon a day and time and I'm committed to an appointment, plain and simple.

A lot of people just don't read. They look at pictures and then click the first contact method they see. I can't tell you how many emails I get that just say "r u avail" or "what's ur rate?" when it's literally listed in the same spot that my email address is. Hazard of the trade.  

Not unfair assumptions Joe, just being safe. My requirement is refs from reputed massage only providers. I am a massage only non-fs provider so seek references from ladies providing the same service.

I have an auto responder so you will get an idea of what my schedule is like

I only ask for references and don't accept RS verification

as mentioned on my website

Thanks Ramone I think my contact form makes it clear I want references. I don't verification info to verify, but guys may provide it to jog the memory of the lady of is providing the ref

Not RS2K +. I just need massage only provider references.

I agree Tobi lots of guys just don't read. I require refs from two massage only providers. I am guessing that if they like to get service from me, a massage only provider, then they should have seem someone providing similar service.
I know I may me limiting my customer base, but thank fully I need only 10 appointments a month.

from providers go unanswered, it is possible.  In this case of request for personal info up front it think the "cart has been put before the horse" and let me explain why.

I too have tried to get an appointment with you. And I have also followed up with emails.

If you can't tell by the numerous responses on this thread- people are confused by your approach. I also understand and agree with those that have said that they don't send their information in an initial email. You say that you don't ask for personal information- fine- but maybe they want to make sure you are even going to respond before they send their references it is their choice. You make it very clear that you don't offer full service, but many providers offer massage and full service. Maybe you should think about being a bit more open minded about the references you accept.  

OK, Apsara, I went to your site and read it thoroughly.  It is very clear that all you are asking for in email or the form is two references from well-known massage-only providers.

are very clear.

Frankly, I wanted to see you but I don't have two "massage only" references.  I see some massage providers but they also engage in other activities.   Of course, I am not going to go see two "massage only" ladies for just a chance to see you.  Anyway, its your choice, take care and good luck.

provide reference info until first contact is made.  Its the nature of the beast given the response rate for "request" is quite low based on my experience.  Using P411 is a bit different than this scenario, I've been out of the reference arena for quite some time and only use P due to my profile being higher than average.

I have been verified by you for months and have yet had the chance to experience your wonderful service. Pm if there is a problem I'm not aware of. Thx

I'm in the same situation. One massage-only provider will be my reference only if I saw her within the past 3 months but I saw her a year ago. I'm rs2k but that won't help either. That is a strict verification process.