Hey everybody! Hope your enjoying this spring like weather!!!

 
Questions for the fellas.  I go back and fourth on how to handle these situations.  

 
You see a provider through my agency... You love her! She, for whatever reason, ask to not repeat you as a client.  

Now you want to see her again...  I usually just lie to save face and say she is booked and try to suggest other providers.. But sometimes clients can be persistent about trying to make time to see there new ATF...  

Would you prefer the truth of 'hey I'm sorry but the provider requested said you were a good client but would not like to repeat with you or would you prefer the white lie?  

I don't ever want to make anyone me feel bad. And most of the time it's over something like bad breath or something small like that...  

Help guys!  

 
Thanks  
Jaim

also be prepared to give the reason why.

Honesty is always the best policy even though some of these egos bruise easily..

The truth, rather that and not waste time calling back trying to get an appointment.

Just be honest. If a provider doesn't want to see a client then tell the client the truth. This way you don't waste each other's time. Also if you tell them the reason why maybe it is something they can improve on or it maybe be something they didn't realize was a serious issue.

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would prefer you just be upfront, but also provide the feedback as to why. This way we can take corrective measures (if needed)

Thank you for the input!  

I always find that honesty is the best policy.  

 
Have a great day everyone!!!  

Jaime

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No guy would take offense at that.

If it's an issue that can be fixed - bad hygiene or being too rough - kindly tell him the truth. He may or may not take offense, but you might be saving the next poor girl from an hour of horrid BO and rough pawing. You will be doing both the guy and his next "victim" a favor.  

If it's Unfixable then use the "dick is too big line".

might be tactical to withhold the specific reason since the person might feel sensitive or get offended by it. So like the response you suggested 'hey I'm sorry but the provider requested said you were a good client but would not like to repeat with you.' maybe then throw in 'how about this lovely lady instead' or something like that. Now like you said though sometimes people are persistent and might want to know why probably going to upset them somewhat but at that point in for a penny in for a pound I suppose.

You've been good to me when we've needed to talk so if someone doesn't understand then its definitely them not you. Appreciate the question and thoughtfulness though.

As you're probably well aware, there are a lot of guys out there who are little bitches when it comes to being rejected (and in their mind, by a hooker no less!). Not worth the headache if you can avoid it.

If you tell the truth, it may actually help the guy.  This is especially true if he was rude or being a general douche bag.  If he smelled, again, the truth helps.

If it made her stomach turn, and there was nothing the guy could do about it....well, I'd either just tell the truth and suggest another girl.

I've had a very well known and reviewed provider recently NCNS me twice and acted like it never happened. At this point I'm done trying. I feel if you got a reason just say so instead of lying and making me think your busy or something else. I was looking for a new ATF and she had matched a lot that wanted.  
 
Very annoying to set up time days in advance to day of be stood up because a provider can't be truthful. If it was an agency I'd rather know said provider doesn't care to see me and I'll look at my other options.  I pick a girl because I want to see her and if I knew she didn't want to then all you can do is move on.  inunderstand life can be busy so things happen so I will try again but after 2 tries I call it quits on getting stood up without a sorry or explanation.

I say start with the white lie.  If you paying what we're paying for the service at mid to high end agencies and then get told right off rip that the provider doesn't want to see you, you're the problem (I know thats not was what said, but thats what some is going to hear) ... thats not going to go over well with some/most.

Now if they're persistent.. you gotta tell them the truth.. or at least a version of it.  Something along the lines of... The provider would prefer not to schedule this appointment... We asked the provider was there a problem with violence or inappropriateness, cause we would server the relationship with the customer completely at that point... but the provider said that wasn't the case. We dont ask the provider any more than that on situations like this... its our providers absolute right to see whomever they want or not see as the case may be. We do apologize for any misunderstanding.  

 
I had a not good experience with an agency provider, which I coulda saw her asking not to book me... and I certainly wouldn't book her. But if I had contacted them the next time she was in town and on call one they say she dont want to see you.. it might have put me off.. thats a little too much GFE... like the break up part lol. Going into the whole 'why' part is just asking for hurt feelings.

just my .02