that i've seen is that providers/services have a mutual understanding that they will share with each other the name, number, and description of any customers or potential customers who treat the PO and/or the providers poorly.

Not having been blacklisted myself, I would think that if someone were blacklisted, they would never be able to get any appointments with any of the providers (i.e., they busy, not available at any of the times they requested, if not being told outright that they were blacklisted and their business was not welcome....

I was forced out of this playground nearly 20 years ago by an unstable visiting provider who frequented Chicago. She literally blackmailed, assaulted & outed me to my S.O. and tried to ruin my life with criminal accusations to the predominant blacklist site that existed  back then. I had to hire lawyers to salvage & protect my name & reputation.  It seems that when one blacklist site is shut down, others take their place and the data is simply harvested and reposted in another domain space. While I was forced to retire from this space back then, numerous local Chicago women vouched for my platinum reputation back then. The disturbing thing is that when I finally decided to dip my toe back into the Chicago market a few years ago, after completing security & reference checks on me, a local reputable provider informed me that she couldn’t see me because my name was on a blacklist and I could tell by the words she shared with me that it was the same data from 20 years ago! We worked our way through it and we are good friends today but it was a reminder to me that blacklist info is still floating g around out there - even when it’s patently false. Men and women should be very careful who they see!

So interesting!  To think that it is a site where these names are housed is, well, interesting. Hey, I get that guys who are abusive get what they deserve, they harm women and make it that much more difficult for a companion to trust a newbie or first timer. Ladies…just wondering if you’d chime in? My curiosity has gotten the best of me😂😂

Oh sure! There are a few that are used. Some here in the US, some that are based worldwide. We all talk with each other and share with each other who is safe to see and who is not. The goal is to eliminate not only those likely to commit crime (assualt, theft, rape, etc) but also the timewasters who ask tons and tons of questions unnecessarily. Personally I don't mind answering questions, but not when all the answers to the questions are already listed on my website! That just means he is too lazy or is not prioritizing the need to perform due diligence, which can be viewed as disrespectful. I would think as a gent, if you were thinking about investing your time and money into another person who offers such a personal service, you would want to know as much as you could about her before booking her.  

If the guy is looking for one on one interaction with me right now, then that's why I offer Niteflirt services! I think NF is the cheapest and quickest way to get to know your provider quickly!

Now on the the other hand, I have seen many providers submit blacklist reports that were erroneous. It was if she was not patient enough to give him the time he needs to make a decision, or maybe his answers weren't clear enough for her to understand. Behaviors like these could be a result of English as a second language or other factors the provider cant think of on the spot. Like maybe he has Parkinson's Disease!

A good provider will be open minded and compassionate! It works both ways!

Dont stress it as a client. Many blacklist reports can be bogus and most experienced providers will know that. They are really helpful to keep us safe.  

I personally overlook a lot of blacklist stuff unless it pertains to safety. If it is about scamming or time-wasting I might ask for a deposit and screening earlier than normal.  

Its important to be supportive of the blacklist process because our jobs and our safety arent protected. There are actually many blacklists and a smart provider will use that plus real world info to insure safety and overlook the nonsense.

There was once a hobbiest I hadn’t seen for a while only because of the feedback on them being not so good. One day I was feeling you know  Adventurous So I said fuck it, dude was  a nice guy, booked plenty of sessions.