I got scammed tonight - it was my fault... I saw it coming from a mile a way and too many vodka soda's and my little friend convinced me otherwise.  At least I didn't end up in the back seat of LE or at the other end of a gun.  I thought I would remind the "John's" out there how it happens so they can live to see another day.

Your scheduled provider is a "no show" - not common, but it happens, so you turn to BP for a last minute replacement.  If you are like me, you've prepared for your original date... some wine, nice outcall suite at a nice upscale hotel with some food to enjoy.  After its clear that your date is not going to show-up, you may hit the bottle of wine a little hard (nothing like a little rejection to tip the glass).  You move to the hotel bar thinking you may find another provider looking for a friend.

After a thorough scan of the bar - you determine that its either your hand or a BP girl... hand has no risk... BP girl has a TON of risk.  BUT... your hand is not nearly as fun as a real date!

You find a nice ad on BP and make the call - after a brief moment of clarity, you realize that you typically do HOURS... if not days, researching your desired date, and you just made a call without any background checks?  NOTE TO SELF - WALK AWAY NOW.  But you dont...

You search on the TN - comes back as a scam number... BAD NEWS!  She's on her way - just got a text that she is 5 minutes away.  NOTE TO SELF - WALK AWAY NOW!  But you dont...

When she walks up, She's cute... really cute... great body and face (maybe this is going to be ok after all?)  No big guy walking behind her... I should be ok... right?  WRONG - you've already f-ed up.

When she gets to the room - you discuss terms... but she says "WAIT... you didn't lock the door did you?"  This is translated to - "you dumb FU#(... its time for me to run" - and she does... down the stairs and out the front door.

I'm alive - lost a few hundred... but I'm alive.  I'm pissed at the provider for the now show - no even a call, text or email... after a WEEK of planning the date... WTF!  But guys... lesson learned... everyone of us has a process... dont EVER break it... no matter how much you want a date... dont EVER break your process.

Thanks for the reminder.  I've used BP a lot and it can be hit or miss, and requires as much research as you can do before calling a girl from there.  I've had some bad experiences, but never one where the girl grabbed the money and ran.  One request:  can you please post who the BP rip-off artist from your story is with a link to her ad?

if you are not going to name the provider who ripped you off??!!!  Choose an answer for the following question:

The purpose of this post is meant to be...

A.  A public service announcement
B.  An "oh poor me" cry for sympathy
C.  An admission of how stupid you are that you can't even heed your own common sense

If your answer is A or B then you failed miserably.  Nobody is any better served because you didn't warn them of anyone. And no one gives sympathy to the stupid.

If your answer is C, then seek help from a professional shrink who can teach you how to follow your brain rather than your Johnson.

I apologize if I've offended you, but most of us are friggin sick and tired of useless, pity seeking posts such as this.  The boards are meant to exchange USEFUL hobby information, not draw attention to oneself.

Thanks for the "Public Service Announcement" about the BP lady, but most of us guys know better than to be "careless" and schedule without any research on a particular lady.

On the other hand, you can't mention your experience without expecting us to ask you who both ladies are? I'm more concerned with who the NCNS is, rather than the BP lady. At least post it on the RO Board.

You even asked the board for some suggestions. I really hope it wasn't one of the girls the board gave you because they were some good names!! Be happy you were safe!

Xoxo
VC

Because you haven't identified her.

TN:  (312) 806-4768

http://illinois.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/your-own-sparkling-barbie-22/8934473

I submitted my review last night prior to placing this post expecting to update with approved review - review rejected requesting edits... Should be approved this am.

is the no show.  Who was this scheduled provider?  That is where the problem started.

Then you little headed your way through BP.  That one is on you.

Tineye shows 13 different posts for one of the pics.

How many times has it been said on this board, and others.

If you want to play roulette, go to a casino.
Stick to reviewed providers, unless you are an experienced hpbbyist.
That's what TER is for, this is why you pay a small fee to read reviews.
The cost of the fee would save you from rip-off artists like this.

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What are you, the forum police? It's a fucking chat board. Chill out.

I doubt he'll be looking for Chgo advice any time soon again!

Xoxo
VC

Some less then stellar providers would be weeded out

-- Modified on 9/22/2011 9:53:48 AM

I'm sure the board might like to know that they are recommending ladies that ncns.

D. Confession is good for the soul

Nothing wrong with having a real-life reminder of how not to be stupid. But I agree he should name the ROB.

Not a shock to me. Guess she prefers giving shout outs on threads than being professional.

I do not see the name of the NCNS provider.  If I am wrong please show me where he named her.  Thanks.

That's the scammer, hence the subject line of "And the scammed (sic) is" and his posted review states that she scammed him.


-- Modified on 9/23/2011 3:03:08 PM

you can bet she isn't

Your first sentence is all that needs to be said.

End of story.

You know everything but you keep your alias mouth shut

That's is how I read it as well.