: Chicago Discussion : eom

Jabberwocky69 1362 reads

posted 10 years ago

1 / 16

Has anyone had the pleasure of a hot drunk girl showing up at your door? I have and as much as I liked her (I had seen her twice before), I just was really turned off by her slurring and sloppy French. I have not contacted her since and was wondering if anyone else has had this problem and how they dealt with it. Should I have called her a cab and gotten rid of her or do like I ended up doing (I was really horny and she's really hot) and going through with it anyways?

Ladies, I would like your input as well about what you do when you've had one too may and are scheduled to meet someone.

MissErinBlack See my TER Reviews 501 reads

posted 10 years ago

2 / 16

If I'm scheduled to meet someone, the "one too many" comes after the date, not before.

I'm the type that likes to have my wits about me; I'm also a super cheap date so "one too many" could be as few as three drinks, depending on what I'm drinking.

Theoretically however, if i did find myself three sheets to the wind before a scheduled date, I'd tell my date I was running 30 minutes late due to some kind of car/transportation issue, get myself sobered up enough to be presentable, and get over there assuming the timing was okay.

Really though? Its super unprofessional to get shit-faced before working. A drink is fine, sure. But being drunk? Nah. I've turned clients away for showing up too drunk, and I'd expect the same if I were to show up drunk.

GaGambler 329 reads

posted 10 years ago

3 / 16

Drunk chicks can be a lot of fun, if I am drunk right along with them

If I were sober and provider showed up shit faced, yes I would find that a bit of a turnoff. It would really depend on just how drunk she was vs how hot she was, and of course as you also mentioned "how horny I was" that would determine if I would even go through with the date.

According to your OP "you were really horny and she was hot" so like you, I would most likely have fucked her too, but I am a pig, you really shouldn't listen to what I have to say on the subject. lol

and yes, I have had a few women show up shit faced, most of the time I have gone through with the date, a couple of times I suppose either I wasn't horny enough or she wasn't hot enough to put up with her drunkenness and I did turn her away

Greenbacks2 31 Reviews 198 reads

posted 10 years ago

4 / 16

Total turn off for me EOM

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Jabberwocky69 368 reads

posted 10 years ago

5 / 16

Re: Drunk chicks can be a lot of fun, if I am drunk right along with them

Hahaha! Yes, I suppose you are a pig as I have heard you're not exactly Mr. Popular among the ladies...

GaGambler 391 reads

posted 10 years ago

6 / 16

but I am held in much higher regard by the other 90% of the ladies.

Women want equal rights, well that's what they get from me, I am no harsher, but no easier on the women that post than I am with the guys.

Some men treat the women here like Goddesses who can do no wrong, others treat all "hookers" like dirt as if they are inferior and dirty creature because of what they do for a living. I treat the women here like I do anyone else, if they're funny, I laugh. If they are nice, by and large I am nice too, but if they are BSC, I am not going to pull my punches just because they are female.

As for drunk hookers, I love drunk hookers as long as we got drunk together, but no one likes a sloppy drunk when they are sober themselves.

Jabberwocky69 332 reads

posted 10 years ago

7 / 16

Re: I am not too popular among the BSC hookers on the board, true

May I ask shop you believe to be BSC? I may want to stay away from them or maybe not. After all, sometimes they are awesome in bed...

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 363 reads

posted 10 years ago

8 / 16

I'm easier on women than men, because men like a little back and forth

However, I can't keep up with a dude when sharing the booze. Sometimes I forget I'm a lightweight, and I've embarrassed myself a couple times, but thank god they thought it was funny.

I will start pouring half of what I pour my dates. Showing up drunk on any side can feel unsettling, and somewhat dangerous. And going too far can be a little awkward lol!

Know your limits - I'm still learning mine! Also... I agree - do it together. Don't show up drunk on either side. You can't argue with a drunk person, all you can do is knock 'em over.

Posted By: GaGambler

but I am held in much higher regard by the other 90% of the ladies.

Women want equal rights, well that's what they get from me, I am no harsher, but no easier on the women that post than I am with the guys.

Some men treat the women here like Goddesses who can do no wrong, others treat all "hookers" like dirt as if they are inferior and dirty creature because of what they do for a living. I treat the women here like I do anyone else, if they're funny, I laugh. If they are nice, by and large I am nice too, but if they are BSC, I am not going to pull my punches just because they are female.

As for drunk hookers, I love drunk hookers as long as we got drunk together, but no one likes a sloppy drunk when they are sober themselves.

Adrienne Baptiste See my TER Reviews 428 reads

posted 10 years ago

9 / 16

Sounds too much like rape culture to me - I'll pass.

. . . If a man gets turned on by a sub par and slobby BJ by a drunk and slurring woman, then I'm pretty sure he would love having sex with someone totally inebriated and vulnerable. I'm guessing the OP has had "one too many" great adventures at
Strip clubs and bars. /sarcasm

Nonetheless,

I've had great experiences thanks to a bottle of wine (or two). Honestly, there is nothing wrong with some alcoholic grape juice if it helps you to relax and/or get horny!

But when it comes to the point of intoxocation . . . It's never a good idea for two reasons;

1) I certainly couldn't fathom a hobbyist leaving my incall after having "one two many" because the thought of him wrecking his car or getting a DUI would be on my mind and heart.

2) A lot of times we meet people in the hobby who are absolute strangers. After that first sip of alchphol, we don't know of that person will stay cool and fun and/or turn into a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

With that being said, moderation is key.

(Unless it's an overnight appointment where we will both be hungover in the AM)

Sweetest Regards,
Adrienne Baptiste

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