I posted on the General Board regarding a distinction i find important...a woman's "beauty" vs. her "sexiness."  Rather than re-hash my thoughts, i will just ask:  Ladies...would you rather, if you could only choose one, be considered "beautiful"  or "sexy?"  Gentlemen... Is there a Chicago provider who you think embodies the phrase "sexy?"  Of course, you might also find her beautiful, but i'm wondering if there is a lady who, in your opinion, is totally sexy regardless of the "appearance" number you would give her?  The subjectivity of that number has been debated quite a bit...but sexy, well, there is no number for that...or is it in your appearance number?

I am really not sure which I would choose! Because your beauty is what draws people's aesthetic interest, but your over all sexiness is a trait that I feel will keep someone interested. Both are as equally important... But you know what - I have seen some "average looking" girls that do really well because they are totally seductive and sexy. So, I think that, at least in this realm, being sexy is more important than having a classic kind of beauty. I feel like your sexiness encompasses your personality and performance, and isn't just a look. Of course, ideally I would prefer to have both. On the other hand, sexiness is something that one can, somewhat, learn. Well, some people can- I don't think everyone is necessarily teachable.  

all kidding aside, whatever pays more. LOL! Seems to me this business will never be found out, so the best thing is just to be yourself, whether you are beautiful or sexy, there are many people looking for you no matter who you are, or what you have.

is a combination of looks, appearance, smell, hair, nails, skin, attitude, savua fair etc.  

I just saw Audrey and you could not be more right! She is the definition of sexy

I understand looking at someone and seeing "beautiful" without finding her sexy.  That part, I get.  

Reminds me of a favorite sign in a restaurant near Key West.

... while i'm very confident i'm at minimum an 'attractive' woman i'll take "sexy".

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Just Beautiful and so Sexy!

Neither......I AM me...

me that I'm not a sultry and intensely sexy being. Though what I find is that because I honor and showcase my attributes as-is, meaning I minimally style my very coily and free flowing hair and keep all my body hair unshaven, I am not perceived to be beautiful in a "mainstream" or "normative" sense. And that's fine by me. As this seems to be a trick question, I'll take both being a distinct all-natural beauty *and* an uber-sexy babe.

sexy is preferred to beautiful. If you can get both its a plus.

I like your response but that's the truth. Some women you cant even be around with getting excited and other after a little touching.