SORRY FOR THE LONG POST.

Today I talked to a provider who asked me to describe myself before arranging to see her. She said she likes to see height/weight proportional men cuz she thinks the experience for both people will be substandard if she’s not attracted to the guy . . . which she won’t be if the guy is fat.

I appreciated her honesty, which I doubt is very common, certainly it’s not common in my experience.

I care about hygiene, do not smoke or do drugs, and I’m not a weirdo.
I am a bit like a burly bear, with a full beard.
I have an attractive face, decent teeth, and I’m in my 50s.
I have a body that looks fat, though I work out 3x a week.
I am 5’11” and my ideal weight is probably 180 lbs. I am therefore overweight by 90 lbs +/-

I am pretty open about a provider’s body type, but I don’t see BBWs.
I see 'em younger to late middle aged, but not older providers.
A provider with Bs or Cs is my preference, but I am open on that issue.

The Important Stuff:
A provider’s smile and warm eyes are what I look for; what’s important to me is a “connected” experience, with someone who provides top quality services of the kind I want most . . . DFK, DATY and BBBJ.
A provider who does white hot FS or multi-pop FS is just not needed, as it's not why I seek companionship with a provider.

Hobbyists . . . do you know any providers meeting the following 2 points
Providers . . . do you yourself, or is there a provider you know, who meets the following 2 points
1. A provider who excels at The Important Stuff  
2. A provider you can HONESTLY say either
- - - decidedly NOT turned off (and holding their nose) being with/seeing someone with my type of body,
OR
- - - would actually be attracted to my type of body, and find it to be in their sweet spot in terms of attraction.

TIA

p-bee




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chopping a large percentage of people out of her radar with that requirement.  To each their own but any of the ladies at MTA can fill your void if you have proper references!

lack of...I Will tell You for myself...I Love kissing and DFK...and Very much Enjoy any man that Will DATY...and I very much Enjoy giving BBBJ...why don't You check out my site and see if I am the right woman for You...and also feel free to read my reviews...You have an Awesome day...and I Will look forward to hearing from You

I too have experienced a lady, just once - wonder if same one, who wanted such a description...

I provided the info, and yes, I was not preferred.

I did not take any issue as I felt she has a right to have preferences.

I also had no issue due to the fact that I am sure we guys are doing the exact same thing. We just have the benefit of being able to have visuals of the ladies. We also may have access to reviews which help us determine if she provides our 'Important Stuff'.

Sorry to hear that.  At least she was up front and you got to avoid a bad experience with her.  I saw MTA reply to your post, I suggest checking out what he has to offer, Im sure you'll find what your looking for there.  Good luck.

There are many lovely ladies on TER who will not expect you to be built like a body builder and 99.9% won't ask the height and weight question.

The key to being a good client is being a nice guy.

Don't let this get you down.  Try one of the other ladies who fit your description and I am sure you will find them more accomodating.

Good luck!

Interesting read- I know I would not qualify but better to know up front then see rejection on a ladies face or have an awful time. As I am, a large man, older, just turned 62 and very much out of shape due to an injury. Personally, I try to let them know up front, as I have had more then one bad experience.

Would like to know more about how others feel, providers and hobbiest.

You are are BBM so you should go after BBWs, I don't
blame a woman if she did not want to see you it is her right to see who she wants. Why do you think a woman has to see you, it is her choice. Respect that and move on.

attitude than anything else...A positive...let's have Fun and Enjoy the Pleasure kinda attitude...nothing more and nothing less

I think that you and I would get along very well

It is her loss as this industry is by far
not or at least not suppose to be prejudice
to anyone . I hope you find someone I do fit
what you seek but who knows you might say
I am the tiniest woman you have ever met before
but you know what they say about good things...

XO
Angela

Of course it's her right to see who she wants.

Go back and read my post you dumbsh*t, and see if you can figure out my point/purpose.

p-bee

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Kosmik26 wrote:
/// it is her right to see who she wants. Why do you think a woman has to see you, it is her choice. Respect that and move on. ///

That is where we'll end it