Does anyone know of a dominant provider who is more than just a dominatrix in Chicago? I am just not into licking someone boots and that kind of stuff,  I would like to see one that is sexually aggressive, and wants me as her sex toy (or at can act that way). Nothing extreme, just some aggressiveness and perhaps some bondage.

YES.   There is a excellent place in chicago.   they cater to all kinds of fetishes.  I can recommend you to them if you tell them i Referr you to them.    Agreed ??    i can email you the details if you give me your email.   or i can just tell you here.  but not sure how you will tell them i referred you

Also, these women are probably the most beautiful women you will ever see in chicago area as well.  I was stunned how beautiful these women were when i walked into their place.  

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This technique may or may not fit the exact scenario you're envisioning, but Bondassage is often extremely successful with a surprisingly wide variety of individuals, ranging from the experienced BDSM player, to individuals such as yourself who are looking to have a little control taken away.

The creator and owner of this technique is out of state, but I know of at least two individuals, myself and a pro domme, who have trained under her and are certified to practice it in Chicago.

Fortunately for you, what you are seeking isn't terribly complex or technical, and therefore not terribly experience dependent, so you should have your bevy of beauties to pick from.

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