What do you like the most at the hobbist? For me personaly is really important to please the woman first.I know everybody YMMV but I think to know few things about what do you like is really important for both parts to have an amazing experience.

Thank you for your response

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many much good o's. And well treat her. And make out teenager like, or lover long lost. And always much run fast not walk for many much more see her

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There is plenty that I like other than money about the gentlemen that I meet. And that statement is offensive to me. Everyone has bills to pay and needs money to live. There are plenty of things that I enjoy about my gentlemen. Providing gives me the opportunity to meet a vast selection of people that I wouldn't meet otherwise. Connecting with other human beings in a passionate way is so beautiful with me. And, companionship gives me an outlet to be able to express myself, learn about myself, and learn about others. I am able to explore my fantasies and the fantasies of others which has led to me truly knowing about what I enjoy that I otherwise would have never even tried!

Sexually, though- I enjoy oral- it is truly delightful to me both giving and receiving. I also am a huge fan of putting on a show. Doubles are so much fun because I love to play with another lady and to have a gentlemen watch! I also absolutely love foot fetish and body worship. (What is it called to be on the receiving end of foot fetish?)  

I could go on, but I don't want to bore anyone. Basically- I really feel that assuming that all of us only care about the money is an absolute ignorant statement. I know plenty of ladies who authentically enjoy most of the encounters she has. And, personally- if I didn't enjoy this I wouldn't do it! There are plenty of skills that I have that would allow me to make money, and if I wasn't passionate about companionship I wouldn't do it!

or me english is second language , but I don't need an English teacher here.I just did ask a question , if somebody don't understand just ignore me ,but stop being a smart ass please.

Thank you for your answer.It's exactly what I was looking for with my post.An honest answer of what do you beatiful ladies like or don't like.

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Your welcome!  

Just so you know, she was not saying that to you. She said Ditto to Beaver's post about Arovet.  

Your post was clear on what you were asking and put together nicely.  

Got to view replies on tree mode (vs flat) so you can see who the person is replying to. Helps so as to not have hurt feelers when someone wasn't even saying it to you. IMHO.

there are days I am more into one thing over another.  Like today the only thing that might trrip my trigger might be really slow but firm DATY, while tomorrow a ot and heavy f*** might be the only thing to get me going.  The one thing I can say though is the only way to stay in the biz as long as I have is to love it, and I go into a GFE date expecting to get mine.  If a guest follows my lead when doing for me then we will both have an amazing time.  If I get mine my body reacts more strongly, which assures you get a better session.  Direction and being able to read and follow body direction is I would think the most important thing to making sure both parties get their needs filled..

You are right my mistake,  sorry !!!

I have provided assistance to probably 100 or more providers over the years and this comment is not accurate.  The good ones....the ones that consistently score high marks for performance are not in it solely for the money.  Not to say money does not enter into the equation and not to say there is never any fakery that goes on....however, almost every girl you ever have had an ongoing relationship with has faked it on occasion.

Every single lady that I have "assisted" in this business that had high scores for performance, (and I have had many) fully enjoyed what they were doing 99.9999% of the time.

So, to label these girls as only enjoying the money end of this, is rediculous and only a reflection of your own low self worth!

I get asked so often, on the first time together, "What do you like?"  I hate answering because the answer, truly, is "Depends. What are you good at?"  

I think it's hilarious sometimes to look at my reviews- my last two, it's hard to believe they're talking about the same person and coincidentally, they were literally hours apart.  One was fun and playful, the other is...*blush*...frankly an offensive read, lol, but they were both fantastic for everybody.

Better to go in with an open mind rather than a plan, IMHO.

Every one of you guys are different.  I like all of my clients.  Personally, I have to like them to be intimate with them.  If I'm a bit annoyed or I don't like something about them, I can't enjoy being with them.

The ones that might end up on a do not see list are usually new, and do one of following:

1.  Over communicate
2.  Haggle over rates
3.  Stay too long without covering the time
4.  Talking about sex acts before or between meetings
5.  Not being clean

Just be kind and respectful, most of all!  And this doesn't mean that you can't participate in all kinds of kinky behavior if that's your thing.  You can be assertive and get YOUR needs met, and still be respectful and kind.  Don't feel like you can't ask for what you want.  You won't surprise or shock me.  I want you to!  This can be tricky since you can't ask about sex acts.  It's best to use TER to find out what she does and doesn't do.  If you want something specific, maybe just wait until you are face to face, if it's pretty standard.  

Be clean.  Use SOAP!  Some people shower, but they don't use soap, I guess, and there are odors that can keep us from being as uninhibited as we might otherwise be.  We should all use soap on our armpits, pubic area, and ass. Some people forget or maybe skip for some reason the pits and the ass.

Scruffy beards (new growth) might look sexy, but they don't feel too sexy rubbing hard against our tender pussies for very long.  If you like daty, try not to be too prickly.  I have disposable razors in my guest bathroom just for this purpose.  

When the session is over, it's time to clean up and go.  It's okay to have a last hug and kiss, but there are some guys who go for several extra gropes and kisses after the time is up and it's not fair to us.  It's like ripping us off, if you think about it.   It feels like getting ripped off.  We are trying to be gracious and nice to you, too, so you will like us and come back...it's not comfortable to have to say, "Time was up 10 minutes ago.  Please just get ready and go now".  When a lady charges 200/H, every 15 minutes is worth 50$.  When she charges 300/H, 15 minutes is worth 75$.  Staying over and not covering the time isn't cool, and we don't want to have to sound like bitches and mention it.

A tip is a great way to show your appreciation, or a small gift (maybe a bottle of perfume, chocolates, a gift card, or one size fits all lingerie).  If you get a gift, a small gift of quality would be better than a bigger, cheaper gift.  It might be hard to guess what she will like.  Some ladies don't like flowers because it looks weird if several different guys bring flowers every week, lol.  If a lady has a list of gift requests on her site, you might go with one of these.  But they are often extravagant and not exactly practical for a 1H session.  A 20-100$ tip for a 1H appointment is really nice.  This is probably the best, most practical way to let her know you appreciate her and to stand out in her memory as a desirable client who she will want to give priority booking to.  

If you can afford it, booking a 90 minute or multi-hour appointment will also help her remember you as a desirable client who she will want to give priority booking to.

These things I mentioned that cost extra money are just suggestions if you can afford it and if you want to go above and beyond a little bit.  They certainly aren't necessary for you to build a reputation as a good client.  Being respectful and kind, and not making the newbie mistakes are really all it takes for us to like you!

I don't think your level of expertise as a lover has anything to do with your popularity as a client.

I hope this helps.

xoxo

For everybody who answer a big thank you!!!!!!!

thanks for the info. it really helps for someone new. not to be rude, but is a tip expected in general?  

i still remember the confusion and frustration when first coming here many years ago, when i had no idea when a tip is expected. ex. in a country outside of US, a tip of 15-20% at a restaurant is ridiculous. and even in the US, you don't tip a contractor.... i've no problem with it if everybody is expected to do the same, but wanted to be sure.

While, I ABSOLUTELY invite you to please me on our first date! I do agree with what you are saying about things being different from one person to the next. I go into each date as a new adventure.  

For me, because I am the only person that I can speak for- I NEVER, EVER expect a tip- If I happen to get one, this will simply make you really stand out in my memory. But, gifts and tips aren't what is going to make you get priority booking or be memorable- the time that I have with you is.  

I am also not one to calculate every minute over into dollar signs. I go into sessions with a relaxed attitude and I a,  low volume- so if we end up talking or taking a little longer to say goodbye, it tends to not bother me. The only time it would, is if you have an attitude of TRYING to get it out of me in that you are trying to "get over on me". Some guys have an attitude of "getting my moneys worth", which I don't like- because I feel like you are viewing me as a product and not a person. I never view my guests as anything but people - not dollar signs, not envelopes, but people that I am taking care of intimately. I don't know. I do feel that everything that was said about not staying over is very reasonable and true, I am only speaking for ME. If our date is flowing well and we're having a good time- if we go over 15 mins that will NOT leave me with a bad taste in my mouth for you AT ALL.