I posted to this board middle part of last year and received great advice, so I will toss this out.  I'm looking for a provider that likes to dance (striptease) and use toys during the visit.  I've searched the boards and looked through reviews but I can't seem to find the combo of both.  Yes I'm a R2K member so that is not a problem and I'm also a member of TER, so a PM can be sent to me if that's someones preference.