and though they can't vouch for much else it is better then taking your chances on BP.  You will be more relieved if you see someone like me where there is a long history, then you will by seeing a fly by night provider on BP.  More able to relax and totally enjoy all those delish things you can do with a woman.

This is my first post on the board.  I've been reading the "summed up" non-vip reviews for a couple months and am about to take my first plunge into "taking up the hobby".  I'm not registered RSK2 or P411 or any of those.  But I am someone that is very internet social and proving that I'm not LE would be rather simple.  The only thing I'm worrying about is, maybe by letting someone verify me by my social internet activity, I'd be giving too much of my personal info away.

Has anyone had problems when too much of their info was put out?  And could you tell me a little bit about what happened to you or someone you know when it happened?

You are a newbie and you aren't verified on RS2K or P411. Sorry to break it to you, but I would be shocked if a provider saw you. And what does "Social Internet Activity" mean?

Do yourself a favor, and get verified, if you're serious about playing the game. If not, don't try to be slick. That stuff will only work on BP girls.

I'm also fairly new to this, but in my admittedly short time with the hobby I've met only a very few girls who actually insist on any sort of background check beyond just asking.  In my experience, convincing them that you are on the level is easily accomplished by stripping down when you meet.

Then again, I've only ever seen sub-$100 bp girls.  Maybe the higher-rate gals are more demanding.  But if you see a sub-$100 gal first, then you will have a potential reference which you can use for other gals.

As for your anonymity, once it is broken, I doubt it can be fixed.  So guard it carefully.

No legit provider that screens will accept a sub $100 BP girl as a reference.

Providers who place their safety above a quick buck will have a certain minimum requirement in regards to verification - so inquiring with an upscale provider (including most who can be found via TER) will not get you anywhere if you do not wish to be verified (and a bp provider that clearly does not screen will be COMPLETELY unacceptable). If you choose this route, not only will you be limited to providers who do not screen, but also those who are a higher risk in terms of running into Leo - which means you will have a bigger problem than "compromised anonymity".

Long story short, going through a prescreening site will allow you to enjoy the company of an endless array of quality companions, so it never hurts to consider the option.

If you want to ride in the rodeo, pony up cowboy!


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.......give it a try.  i would venture a guess that in about 15 yrs of doing this maybe 20 percent max have gone ahead and used my rs2k membership for verification.  there are no guarantees or correlations.  i have had some fantastic experiences with women who didnt ask me a thing and just said come to this place and call for the room.  i have also had terrible times on occasion with women who scrupulously checked my roomservice membership status.

it's only a phone call or e mail so take a chance.  however, i will tell you that the majority of women that do in fact use roomservice and actually use your info to check your membership will be a cut above - usually.

good luck

randolph

you are planning on shopping on this site for your hobbying needs.  This guy is on a train and it is heading for a wreck.  Your safest route is rs2k.  In over 20 years, not one person's info has been compromised.  Pretty good odds if you ask me, especially since probably hundreds of people have been busted through bp in just the last few years!  Hundreds may not seem like a lot when you compare it to the tens of thousands that have used bp in that time.... until one of those hundreds becomes you!  I like zero against 100's any day of the week!

Plus both Marrie and Angel on our site as well as many other ladies elsewhere will offer you a 25.00 discount if rs2k member so u can get your initial investment of 25.00 back immediately.

Social Internet Activity means that I have Youtube, twitter and other sites like that.  If someone would like to see if I'm a real person or not, all they'd have to do is see my interaction on those site.  If they watch a video of me, they will see me and know who they would expect to meet.

I'm considering very heavily on being verified.....guess I'm just trying to stick my toes in the water first before I go diving into the deep end.

Thanks for all the responses everyone.

I read what you said to this newbie and knowing you have been around here a long time, I was shocked.  Then I took a closer look and realized that you must have an awful lot of excess money and time on your hands.  

You have written 83 reviews and almost 30% score a 6 or lower for performance.  If you look at chitownpimp, he has written 234 reviews and less than 5% score this low.  Looking at your last 10 reviews and 50% score a 5 or under.  All of these are 200 per hour girls or cheaper and the girls you are scoring 7 and higher all are 300 per hour or higher!  Seems to me that if you had taken the money you spent on those duds and spent it on better quality girls you would have saved a lot of time and had at least 3 more terrific reviews to write!  HELLO!  :-0))

 I do have to admit that I know where you're coming from with that poster.  I did read on the board that he is going through $80 ladies like a crazy.

As I have stated.....I feel like I'm taking a big leap by jumping into this.  It's something I definitely want to do, just a little shaky doing it the 1st time.

OK...you're a provider.......if you could see pictures and twitter interaction of someone, then look up a youtube channel, see videos of the guy and the interaction he has had with other youtubers, would you take that into consideration before just telling the guy "No."?

I'm not saying that I'm throwing the whole idea out about becoming verified.  I just want to check the water temp with my toes before I dive into the deep end.  

the only thing I don't like about it is that you have to use your real name and city you are from. I am not sure but I don't think you have to do that with Date-Check.

Now if you have an uncommon name and do a search on google your info will come up. Mine does. But if you have common name then there will be many like you and it will not be an issue.

Personally I don't care if my name comes up in an internet search as most ladies I see and that use RS2K are professionals. Also even if some one did come after you, you always have deniability as along as you were smart to use a yahoo, hotmail kind of email and have a pre-paid hobby phone that you pay with cash only.

Are you saying that if you have an uncommon name and join RS2K, people will see that you are a member by googling your name?

Are very reliant on Provider Oks. This means that if a gentleman signs up as a complete novice, and has absolutely no past seen lades he reach out to and request that they give him an ok, his verification membership is pretty useless in the eyes of many ladies he will reach out to.

Screening information is just is not abused by sane and professional women. And really, if the lady you are reaching out to gives the vibe at any point of anything less than the epitome of safe, sane, and responsible, why on earth would you want to associate with with her anyway?

who screens via their social activies, however it might be used to find out extra info about a guest.  I don't because I choose to form my own opinions.

Go for RS2000 if you are serious about visiting.  P411 is not enough right now unless you have many known ok's

I wouldn't even look and would assume that you were trying to skirt my screening which is disrespectful.  Most of us have on our site what is required and in most cases it is RoomService2000, P411 plus several ok's, or 2 reputable provider references.  Anything less will get you ignored or just old to join RS.  It doesn't matter if we find 1500 pics of you, how would that prove you are not LE and are in fact who you say you are?

No it does not pop up on google if u are a rs2k member.  Give me a break!

With over 4 years of videos showing interactions with other youtubers and other social web chat sites, I would think that I'm a rather "Real" person.  I get crazy in my videos, my editing skills are sick and the people that I socialize with on there have gone out of their way to meet me in real life.  (by no means Juicy Details ways either)  Just to socialize, kick back and have a beer somewhere in Chicago or the places I've traveled.

If I just join RS2K or the others and have no references.......then still am unable to schedule with a provider do to lack of references.....what good what that do me?  That's why I'm a newbie....just trying to get started.  LOL.

Thanks for the input!  I do appreciate the feedback and opinion.

Thank You for that response......you just put a worry to rest!!

you can't get ahold of RS records, they are private and held outside of the country I think for safety measure

He is saying that since you have to provide basic info of your full name, contact # and city you reside that a provider could then use it to look you up as well.  We could, but most won't unless they feel there is something off about you and want to be extra sure you are ok.  So info in RS is safe

That is why I'm asking the questions on here and researching providers that I am interested in before I get into the hobby.  I'm sure when I do take the plunge, it will be with someone well reviewed on here.

No. That information is kept extremely private, and no standard google search is going to pull up the fact that you're a member to any verification service. In fact, out of all three verification services, RS2K is the only one I've never heard of being compromised in any way. He is concerned that in sharing his membership information with a lady, which requires that you provide your name, contact phone number you have registered with RS2K, and your current hometown and state, that the lady herself might google your information, and that somehow this will hurt him, or she might use it against him in some way.

Will ladies look up your name beyond RS2K? Perhaps. I look for clues on your personality, interests, etc, because this gives me a starting point on what topics we might have in common, sometimes how I should dress to best please and surprise you, etc. Then again, most of my encounters are pretty long, so these sorts of clues are more helpful than they might be in, say, a 1 or 2 hour date.

Does this mean the lady (any lady) is going to take whatever information she might find and act indiscreetly? No, not so much. My point is that any form of "screening abuse" happens extremely rarely (or the whole screening system would fall apart), and if you actually take the time to read a woman's website, look up her board posts, and otherwise see how she presents herself, you're going to get a fairly clear idea as to whether she is sane and responsible, or straight up crazy, or somewhere in between. The guys who most often get themselves hurt (information compromised, NCNS'd, or otherwise screwed over by a lady), failed to do their own "screening" beyond reading a few reviews and drooling over her photos.

Date-Check or P411.  Which is why I was sending you in that direction hun.  RS is awesome and really research you so we don't have to.  So please, go with RS, you will be thanking us for it later

And IMO, those sites should only be used in the civie world. But that's another topic for a different debate.

Read TER's Self-Help Center manual. It has a lot of great information. I've included the link on the bottom. Read it when you get a chance. Because it sounds like you have a lot to learn.

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The info is totally safe with RS2K and I have been a member for a long long time. However, once its given to providers they can search for it either on google or a website like whitepages.com and your info will come up. You try it and see. Put our name and zip code in whitepages and I am sure it will come up. Now if you have common name your info will be way down on the list.

Most providers will not use the info negatively and I am pretty sure the one's I have seen will definitely not.

Hobbying is very rewarding but it also has risks. It is best to know all the risks before plunging

I will tell you right now, if you are serious about getting started and entering this hobby- get verified, simple as that. Here in Chicago, RS2K is pretty much the standard to opening doors to be able to get seen. I also really like P411 but like many of the ladies have said it is more useful in other areas of the country, and more so once you have a verification there.

The screening that both sites do is as nob-intrusive as it can be, but they will both verify that you are who you say you are (real name, work, etc). Again, it is all done discretely, and doesn't show up anywhere online.

Again, if you want to meet ladies then get verified so they can be comfortable and if you are new... Please don't start by trolling for BP girls. That's a quick win to bad experiences or worse. The same way that the ladies verify you, you should be verifying them too.

Screening info is not abused by sane and professional women. I agree with you on that and also said in my first post. But sane and professional can become crazy and unprofessional and that risk exists. That is all I wanted to point out.

Thanks for that link!  I guess I've only used TER for reading the reviews and hitting the links to see the pretty pictures the authors of the reviews are talking about.  I just started venturing on to the board last night with this post.

I do have a lot to learn, and I appreciate your helpful advise on getting started!  Thanks again!

It looks like I will be taking a more serious look into RS2K.  I just need to find a way to make the payment without showing any transition trails to a bank account now.   LOL...but I'm sure payment won't be THAT difficult.

Thanks for the advise.......I think I'm going to follow it and register RS2K soon.  I appreciate all your help, and who knows......maybe we'll be talking about this together someday.    You've got great reviews!!

That works both ways, my dear, and you know as well as I that both situations are rare in the grand scheme of things. Nevertheless, your point provides all the more reason for ladies to not go light on the screening.

Geez Eve...it seems like a long time seeing u post!  U must b bored,  lol. Great hearing ur opinions

it goes both ways and is rare and never should anyone go light on screening.

AGREED.  Get verified.  RS2K is the best way to start.  Don't bother trying to get around this.  put yourself in the provider's shoes.  Just because you have a video on the internet doesn't make you NOT an undercover cop.   Be smart, play it safe, and enjoy spending your new hobby.

SimplyGFE01,

Thank you for the suggestion.  I don't know if I can afford the additional expense, but I will certainly check out RS2K and the providers who use it.  If the train really is headed for a wreck, then I'd like to get off.

As I stated in the beginning that this was my first post and I had not started hobbying yet.  Everyone here gave me some good advise and put some of my "register at this site" fears to rest.  I have to admit, over the past umpteen hours I've been going back and forth to my computer like a fiend to read what everyone had to say about my idea of an "alternative" verification for myself.

This was a great discussion and I am happy that I took this small step forward.  For everyone that skimmed through this and didn't read all the postings I made.......I have decided to do the RS2K registration.  I have already contacted Cathy via email, asked her a few questions and she too put some of my fears to rest.

Someone did send me a message, but unfortunately I can't open it because I am not a VIP  But everyone's input is appreciated by me, I look forward to getting this started soon and hopefully one of these days you'll all be reading one of my reviews.

Thanks Again everyone!!!

I love when a guy is trying to dance around the screening and says.... "I am not a cop"  (as though he would say he was...LOL)  Truthfully there are many more concerns besides cops.  Are they a serial killer or rapist or did they wake up this morning with an overwhelming desire to beat the piss out of some girl?

Let's not forget the girl just a month or so ago that ended up with a bullet in her head downtown!

do NOT share any of your facebook, twitter, linkedin info. for verification. there are plenty of bad stories out there of the things that could happen if that info. gets into the wrong hands.

everyone starts somewhere and the verification sites like p411 or rs2k are not required for verification. you'll find the right girl and then you'll be on your way.

be safe.

That doesn't provide the information I require to feel safe seeing someone, and I am sure most other ladies would agree. Look into RS2K seriously if this is something you really want to engage in.