I have been seeing providers for 16 years. I guess you could say I am a veteran. But, there is one thing I have always wanted to do that I never done. It is probably stupid, possibly even reckless. I have always wanted to proposition a non pro. Just a hot girl somewhere. Well maybe before I start with a stranger at some random place, maybe I will try a stripper at a club? Some of those girls escort on the side, right?

So maybe I go into a club tomorrow night and get a few lap dances. If/when I meet a girl I vibe with, I tip her nicely...then pull out a huge wad of cash and tell here that my evening is ending, but I have all this extra money to spend. Then I ask her if she has any ideas on how I could spend the rest of this money tonight?

My heart races as I deliver this subtle but not too subtle line before she either gets super offended and has me thrown out or maybe we make arrangements to meet up later or maybe she directs me to one of her co workers? Or maybe she doesnt understand what im saying at all. LOL

In all my years in this hobby, I have never done anything like this.

Is this:

A) a clever idea
B) not such a good idea
C) a very bad idea

Hell rembech999,

You would have to visit the same girl over a couple of month to try get a visit outside...  

Its going to be cheaper to book a providers even at a higher rate, since you getting right to the point..

 
You can try and let us know your progress.

I vote C: a very bad idea.

Strippers are snooty beyond snooty!  For them, doing anything beyond a lap dance with a man who isn't conventionally attractive is a bridge too far.  So if such a man propositions to them, they'll sic a bouncer on him faster than he can say "I was joking!".  Which will be followed by getting kicked out at best, and a beat-down at worst.

In countries outside the US, such a thing may be possible.  In Israel about 15 years ago, when I traveled there, you could go into a strip club, say a specific code phrase to the stripper giving you a lap dance, and she'd lead you into the back room to give you extra services for an extra fee.  Unfortunately, the code phrase was in Hebrew, and I didn't speak much of it beyond "shalom", and didn't know how much the extra fee was, either.  For all I knew, it could have been more than what I brought on my trip, let alone how much I had in my pocket that night.

Disclaimer: prostitution is legal in Israel, but on an independent basis only.  (Streetwalking counts as "independent".)  Giving extra services in a strip club constitutes working for a brothel, which is illegal.

Most strippers will "get in trouble" if the bosses find out that they're seeing guys on the side--  the strip club can lose business if that happens.  Getting private time with strippers isn't hard, but it takes patience.  Most won't see just anyone, so you need to be presentable (not an ogre) and respectful.
Once you find someone you connect with:
-do some recon by asking about family  i.e. boyfriend, married, kids etc.  Single moms are the best!
-ask her work schedule so you can come to see her again
-get a phone number so you can text her to see if/when she's working.
-send a follow up text the next day to tell her how great she is.  Don't be a stalker.
- go to see her a couple more times and tip generously  
-After a few visits and texts, ask her if she ever sees anyone outside the club.  She'll let you know if you have a chance.

Experience tells me that strippers can be a lot of fun and provide a different kind of connection.  Be aware that you will typically pay more $$$$$!!!

Well, how do you think horny guys find a girl who is a player outside big cities where there are either no escorts or those who advertise on skipping the games are just too damned scary looking???

Just show up, be clean and nice and pleasant when chatting and tip nice st the railing and do a lap dance or two. Then politely ask. You will be surprised how often the girl will be willing. But be aware that it won’t be cheap.  

I knew one elderly guy whose wife had passed and he had no interest in finding someone his own age. He had a nice mobile home in his farmstead that he usually rented out. But there were times he was between tenants and would rent it to the dancers from a local strip club who were in town fir a week or two dancing. He’d set up a payment program that he would get fucked at least two or three times during their stay and then sometimes he lucked out and the girls cooked for him or cleaned his house. Of course he was awfully careful and when his grown children were around he tended to behave.  

Traveling strippers who stay at motels are good targets - add where are you staying to your conversation too.

I had developed a relationship, as a regular, with a stripper over months (maybe years), to the extent that she asked if I wanted to be friends outside of the club and she offered her number.

One afternoon, while i was feeling quite randy, I texted her something like, "I have what you need.  You have what I want."  She texted back that I should call her.  When I called, I proposed a date (dinner, movie, etc.), which she accepted.  

I drove to her location, checked into a hotel and then met her in a parking lot.  Right off the bat, I handed her a wad of cash (what she needed) and told her that I was staying nearby.  I then paid for dinner, a movie and drinks after the movie.  After a few drinks, she asked "Do you want to get out of here?".

We drove in separate cars to my hotel.  She got naked, I got naked, etc (what I wanted).

That said, I have to agree with the earlier reply.  Overall, it would have been much more efficient in the long run to book an escort.  Which is what I did from then on.

P.S.  I tried to repeat with the same girl and it never came together (maybe a commentary on me).  After which the "relationship" evaporated.

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Some girls will take care of you in champagne room.  Not all but enough to go fishing. Not sure if they’d be up for OTC though. Might have yo build up trust for that.