A brief background-I'd been in the BDSM scene for, oh, 5 years before working for a summer at Chicago Illusions. Their approach to kink was pretty much opposite everything I'd ever learned in the real BDSM scene....without going too deep into that, let's just say "Illusions" is a very accurate name, in the worst ways possible.

Whatever you're looking for, I think you will find more respect, less upsell, and almost certainly a safer time with an independent who has legit experience in the scene.

Be careful what you say on public forums. He will take anyone down just like he did her. But I agree with u.