I usually figure that it's YMMV, but it never hurts to ask nicely.  Just be ready to take any refusal graciously.  I figure if you force the issue, you're just likely to get less than stellar service.

Let's say a provider catches your eye and her reviews indicate all the usual GFE fare. You set a date and develop a good rapport in getting to know her. While you shower, she decides to change into something even more sexier for you. You then get to it and the LFK/DFK/BBBJ you read about never presents itself. You get 2 light pecks and 2 CBJs. She seems to care that you have a good time and smiles aplenty. You're a bit frustrated. What do you do?

Ask right then and there?
Send an email later?
Lay it all out there in a review?

Reasons:

1) this is what you experienced, and this is what reviews are for, after all

2) I'm thinking she had her chances to do provide the aforementioned services but elected not to

The only reason you may not want to is if you want to give it another try with her.  Kind of like going to a restaurant and being a bit disappointed, but willing to try again just to make sure.

I think all of us who have been hobbying for a bit have been disappointed before, even from regular favs based on an off session.  I have been thru the same where the reviews indicated one thing, but not the session.  Otherwise, there are lots of good/better provider choices in this town.

Sorry to hear of your disappointment Vic.  You should be able to ask her at that time.  I also recognize that it may make an uncomfortable situation possibly worse.  It's your right to at least ask.

You can also write it in a review... but if it was me I wouldn't be able to if I didn't have the courage to talk about it upfront.

Just my opinion.

All the best,

Sea

Ask her right then, mention the reviews.
If you try emailing later, she can always say she doesn't remember.
Defintely do a review, best to communicate she is not GFE, if that is how she advertises/ or is presented in her profile (you may want to do a problem report, if the non-GFE status if confirmed).

First, ask nicely. Something like, "We're having a good time, but some DFK would make it even better. And your reviews said BBBJ was on the menu. Could we ...?"

If she declines, she will probably give a reason. If not, mention it in your review.

An email after the fact will probably do no good.

Welcome to YMMV.   No one is obligated to do anything specific for you except spend time with you for the $$.   I would not even say "well, I read that...."    If the previous reviews were accurate then there was something about *you* that probably did not make her feel as comfortable or at ease at that moment to go that route.   Look into the mirror, (smell your armpits) and/or examine your attitude to figure out what it might be.

I as well have been in that situation.  Lady with many good, decent reviews.  Arrived at incall and she was very nice.  Showed up with gift, polite etc.  She did not deliver as promised, when it was brought up in a very nice way, would like to...  No comment just this is better.  Very nice girl and would have liked to repeat if delivered as stated, to bad.  I wrote an honest review, and it was not accepted, why?, I do not know, always funny with the powers that be.  Anyhow, chalk it up.

An interesting array of replies. I actually chose to just state it all in the review. I know much about the dreaded YMMV. I am "chalking this one up" as such, but I m still puzzled...