Just wondering.....Ive always been a wonderful woman whom is .....just ...
Why is it the your city has been so harsh?      I want feedback as to why.
Im moving back to metro detroit soon.    
Just wondering.....

If you are going to say that generally about the city, there will be many that would disagree with your assessment.  What harsh experiences have you had that you would generalize a 3 million person metropolitan area?

Chicago is one of the most friendly cities I have ever been in.  What makes you think it's harsh?

every city has gentlemen..every city has idiots..you just happened to sample more of the latter..i know girls who move her because of the harsh treatment in other cities..sometimes it is just the luck of the draw..sorry you got the short end..this is and always will be a great city..

This is really surprising to hear.  Usually ladies visit a couple times and enjoy the men of Chicago so much they choose to move here.  I have to agree with the previous posters in that you need to be more specific about your gripe and that you shouldn't let a few bad apples spoil the whole bunch.... girl (hmmm... seems like the makings of a song).

Hey fellow Michigan lady. Im sorry the guys are giving you a hard time. Just beat them on their dick a little and I'm sure they will straighten up fast Can't wait to see you when you return to Michigan. I've been hoping to get you in bed. I promise I'll be gentle and make you forget how harsh some ass holes can be.

Absolutely not referring to the city-  its a grand beautiful city.
I'm referring to a few particular women who tarnished my reputation nearly a year ago and it's been very diffucult for me.

I moved to chicago last october - not a visitor

How would Detroit be any less harsh?  Chicago can be like any other place. There are great, wonderful people, and then there are major assholes.  I will say that I enjoy the Chicago area more since moving to the 'burbs years ago.

I will say I agree with Natalie about the women not men in Chicago. I too was tarnished from a few women that made stuff up on me  from this board. My suggestion to you (Natalie) is to try to rebuild your customer base by word of mouth from people in the hobby that still see you. I have been lucky at this. I do use the boards just to keep up on the latest happenings in the hobby. Anyway Chicago is a much better city than Detroit to live in

Your subsequent posts cleared up a lot of hazy areas from your first post. Dealing with someone who revels in character assassination is a chore, and I dealt with the same exact person that you did...only my drama was behind the scenes. Someday the 'karmic steel-toed boot from Hell' will send that person's ass right through the uprights about 80 yards away. As it should be.

So let it be written, so let it be done  

Some find their niche here and get comfortable, then a charming/sexy/talented woman comes along and seem like she might take away from that comfortable niche and feel threatened.  Why do they do it?  Because they can!  Because they think it will make themselves look better giving their guests a heads up on the "new" girl.  It doesn't, it make you look jealous and desperate(at least that is what the guys say) and that doesn't look good on anyone.

I have no idea who you are talking that did this unjust thing to you and to be honest it surprises me because I have only heard good things about you and think you are a beauty myself.  I only 1/2 met you 1 time years ago(you were talking to Megan at the New Orleans Hurricane Relief Party) and still remember it.  Keep your head up and I would like to apologize on behalf of Chicago Providers for those actions as they were uncalled for and very much unneeded.  I hope the rest of your time here is pleasant and works out better for you hun.

Sage

I am very sad to hear you are leaving and had a bad experience in Chicago.  I'm not a local but visit often and dreamed often about meeting you but from you website and eros posting I was under the impression you were still in Detroit and website calendar rarely showed Chicago when I was visiting. Probably it was my mistake but hope to catch you before you leave.

Who I have seen numerous times the past 5 years. I was ecstatic when you told me you were moving to Chicago. Sad to see you go, anything us gentlemen can do to change your mind??

I didnt know you were living here... and now you are leaving already!?? Arghs.  Lets get together for a drink. You know that I for one ADORE you!

was more than 5 years ago,I still remember you very well as extremely beautiful, intellignet, and friendly. I had fantastic time with you every time we met. And I am sure that many other guys in the city had the same experience.  I am really sorry to hear that someone did something stupid out of jealousy. I do not think that person will have any of your clients anyway.

Let me also give my two cents.  If you leave, these terrible providers win.  If you stay and keep the discussion going, YOU win!  We need classy and intelligent ladies here, so, for what it's worh, stay.

You stand in line to many of us who were tarnished at one time or another. Before me was a lovely provider  well known wonderful ratings ran off the board . Next was me then spartacus and now you.

Please keep in mind , it is a pattern the same pile of poo just a different area. Jealousy makes unstable
people do unstable crazy things and if those people drive guys away ...well honey look at the rates
they are giving those guys. It's no loss to you or the one before you or the one before her.

It boils down to this: You might gain business and meet a client they see for less and it makes them
mad . This is why I no longer want local reviews . You were warmly welcome to my meet & greet and
this one is going to be even better than the last one . When you get there this will all be history and it
won't bother you anymore. I truly hope that someday the disrespectful slanderous providers and the men who follow them getting bottom feeder rates come forth and apologize.

We love you girl don't you dare go to Detroit. I moved here because of the wonderful guys I meet
who have treated me wonderfully. did I take losses ? You bet I have from being taken advantage of
multiple times and for more than just hundreds but thousands of dollars. Most of the cruelty has stopped because those people have vanished. Perhaps moved on to someone else to bother but keep your head held high . You do have friends we all do so what if the ones who want to tarnish a good lady
continue . They are making fools of themselves and by now anyone who cannot and will nto admit to
what they have heard and seen are no more than cowards themselves.

(Hugs)
Angela
     

Posted By: spartacus71

I will say I agree with Natalie about the women not men in Chicago. I too was tarnished from a few women that made stuff up on me  from this board. My suggestion to you (Natalie) is to try to rebuild your customer base by word of mouth from people in the hobby that still see you. I have been lucky at this. I do use the boards just to keep up on the latest happenings in the hobby. Anyway Chicago is a much better city than Detroit to live in

She sure is Gorgeous.
Looks like a model.

I thought that incident was ancient history and I'm sorry to hear they've done so much damage to someone who least deserves it. I've always considered you a stand-up person NC.

Scare you away from Chi-town!  You are held in high regard and everyone knows better than to listen to silly, petty, unfounded gossip!  

I'm sure I'm not the only one who wants you to make many return visits!

Chin up chickadee

XXX-Giselle

Natalie,
Though i haven't had the pleasure of your..... I would ask that you keep the windy city as your home base.  like my friend Bebedoll  I didn't know you were based here. FYI we got the moniker "windy city" from all the blowhards  and the hot air they spew
you should feel absolutely Annointed as one of the "tops" if you have been dissed upon.
As for your rep, I heard nothing but ravenous reviews.
Til we meet.
BTW there is a meet and greet soon in August.  perhaps you should attend.
Liam

Fabulous idea Angela......Please attend the meet and greet Natalie.

....those skanks are probably pleased as punch with themselves. Don't let them win!

Who are the "skanks" in question. Can we know ?

...It was like a year ago in Minneapolis (just in case you do not remember) and you were such a pleasant and beautiful gal to have drinks with (she really does look just like her photos guys!). It makes sense that you are intimidating to some ladies who persuade their gentlemen friends not to see you. But do not fret just yet! There are plenty of wise men who are capable of making up their own minds and would be ecstatic to see you. These smart men realize they cannot believe every word they hear, especially in an industry in which women are essentially competing for them. Those are the men who count and are worth your time. Just be patient, as everything works out in due time. xoxo

I can’t see how anyone can be harsh to you. Although we have never been together professionally I have hung out with you on several  occasions to refresh ME you Krista, Roxy, and Madison dinner then a strip club a few years back but...... You are not only a stunning women but you a truly a sweet person and anyone that can’t see beyond your beauty to the great person you is just a plan ol fool and you should pay them no attention.  

DB  

They can't hack having a hottie on their turf.  The rumors I heard I knew were BS the moment they were uttered.  This shit has also happened in Boston, and Long Island NY and other cities.  Nasty local girls screwing over other girls.  In many cases women have more to fear from other providers than men.

At first I thought you were calling Nat "nasty, vindictive, [and] mean as a snake"